I am an ex MH nurse. And also a MH service user. Whilst I agree with some of the points that minibroncs makes, I do also think that it misses a huge part of the overall situation.
Ideally, no female should be nursed on a male ward. The times when this is not possible is if there is only one ward for (e.g.) PICU. You won't find many staff disagreeing that this is unacceptable, and the trust I worked for spent lots of money in building additional wards so that we could segregate by sex.
Prior to that, it isn't that cut and dried. If a person is, for example, at a very high risk of harming themselves or others, then they are likely to face a higher risk of harm by not being in hospital, than being admitted but with 24 hour 1:1 care from a person of the same sex.
That's obviously not ideal, by any stretch of the imagination, but if the alternative is that person's possible suicide or harm to others, then it can sometimes feel to the AMHP and Drs sectionning that there is little choice.
With regards to sectionning of individuals who have capacity: capacity often fluctuates, and in its legal sense, has to be ascertained by two doctors. This means that in order for capacity to be fully assessed, a patient would likely need to be admitted anyway. I always tried to avoid any patient being sectioned if I could somehow persuade them to stay informally. Sometimes, that just isn't going to work, and the person needs to be detained for the safety of themselves and others. When I have instigated sectionning, I have never had a patient tell me, once they are well, that they didn't need to be sectioned. Though at the time, they will always deny it. I have always had the patient understand exactly why we had to. Maybe it is about explaining to the patient fully, I don't know, but there are occasions where we would have been doing the patient a great disservice if we hadn't sectioned.
Forcibly medicating is a bloody awful thing to have to do. I have done it many times, often with tears in my eyes, but only after I have answered the question of "would I agree this needed to be done to my family member". I agree that there are some MH professionals who are utter bastards and are in the job for some kind of power trip. The rest of us know the massive responsibility, and privilege it is, and I promise you we don't do these things lightly. Other patients should always be moved out of the way so the person has privacy, and same sex members of staff should deal with the underwear and injection, to.maximise dignity. To be fair to male colleagues in that situation, I have never known one not avert their eyes, even when the patient would not have been able to tell whether they were doing so or not.
"we remove them from their social support, we deny access to all their usual coping mechanisms, we take them away from anything that was good in their lives, we remove all their choices and control over their own life and environment, we give them crap inedible food, we deny them fresh air and access to outside spaces, we deny them exercise, we deny them meaningful stimulating activity"
This paragraph I do not recognise from the wards I worked on, though I appreciate they are all different. We WANTED their social supporters to phone and visit the patients, they had lots of choices of activities - we employed activity facilitators specifically for that, there was a wide choice of food, there was access to outside exercise, fresh air, a gym, a pool, physio, occupational therapy. People were encouraged to make choices and retain as much autonomy as possible.
Maybe it depends on the particular Trust - I worked for a specialise mental health trust. They do tend to have better provision than mixed Trusts.
My only reason for posting all this, is that I would hate someone to read a series of negative posts about mental health wards, and be terrified of ever being cared for in one. I can't speak for all, but I was proud to work where I did, and would be happy to be cared for there myself. Or have family members cared for.
They aren't perfect, but the patients don't see the vast amount of risk profiling that we do to try to keep all the patients safe and as well as possible. We broke our own bodies and mental health to provide the care that vulnerable females needed. And we took complaints very seriously. E.g. a colleague was accused of rape by a patient. This was alleged to have taken place with 7 female members of staff also in the room. Despite all the staff saying "this did not happen", we suspended the staff member, called the police in and the room was a crime scene. The colleague's ex wife heard what happened and refused him.access to their daughter (he had to spend £1000s through the courts to get access back), so he personally suffered.
The police investigated - it was a false claim made by a lady who was very unwell and it was part of her delusions. We knew that from the start. And still escalated it anyway. It is untrue to say complaints aren't taken seriously. They are. They are sometimes unfounded though. When they aren't unfounded, the shit hits the fan internally and there are major investigations.
I say all this NOT to defend a 17 year old being on a mixed sex ward. But to give the other side of MH treatment that the patients don't always see or even know about.