@stumbledin Hope its ok to copy and paste this Saves me typing it all out again.
Can we talk about an aspect of social housing that never gets discussed. The sexism. In 1991 (back in the mists of time before i met DH when i was 18 and still living with my parents) i went with a friend to the local council office who needed to find a flat. She was single. I still remember what was said to her all these years later. "Im sorry but there arent many available at the moment if you had a baby things would be different but we cant help you at the moment.
I met DH in 1992 and we moved into a small bedsit and lived there for two years and 3 months before we moved to where we are now.....
Single men WERE more likely to be housed than single women or couples (all this is without children) It was assumed that women would meet a man and move in with him. (this obvs meant a higher risk of abuse.
The final straw was when my best friends ex beat her yet again She finally gave him the boot and this violent druggie was rehoused within THREE DAYS. While women were being told Sorry we cant help unless you have a child.
We had an interview for a flat and we attended and towards the end of the interview i asked how likely it was we would get allocated a flat She said it could be a while. I brought up my friends ex and she said it was sooner for him because he was "vulnerable" Yep so vulnerable that he beat up a subsequent partner so badly she lost their baby. She had moved in with him because she had no other choice.
Anyway we did get offered a flat which is still the same one bedroom flat we are in now 25 years later.
Why? Because im childfree by choice and we have always been low income.
So we are still where we are because i havent reproduced. Im not moaning about it Just stating a fact.
I will point out though that if more lower income couples made the same choice as us there would be even less one bedroom places becoming available.