We are actually at the point where I believe rape is to all intents and purposes legal.
Absolutly correct.
The law's in the enforcement, as much as the proof's in the pudding.
There will be something in most peoples phones that will put a jury off them. People say flippant, unguarded things to their close friends and family that don't necessarily reflect the people they are or the actions they take in real life.
Therefore, you are effectively told to hand over your phone (for no conviction) or don't hand over your phone (for no conviction).
Like voting rights in the 1960s deep south ... there's a law in place, but the enforcement of that law makes it rotten to the core.