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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"Gendered periods"

97 replies

Lamaha · 17/06/2019 11:38

This Twitter thread. "Always" is offensive because they market their period products to (gasp) girls.

twitter.com/VetNurseVibes/status/1130584532237856768?fbclid=IwAR1o-y94Cp9P38gFaWzk8xmez8qNkzTqleU_ohUHeV9VRWgQO1Rx1Jlagzo

Just purchased #Period supplies for myself & my #Trans son. After being a lifelong user of @Always* products, I am profoundly disappointed in this trans/non-binary/queer-exclusionary design. “Bold Like A Girl”? “Strong Like A Girl”? “Brilliant Like A Girl”? Come on, #Always!

Can it get any more ridiculous?

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LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 18/06/2019 07:53

When someone is living in a dilution they can get very aggressive when reality reads it’s ugly head. I guess when someone is aiding and abetting someone in this dilution they go similarly batshit.

placemats · 18/06/2019 08:49

Every male who transitioned to be a woman, whether surgical or not, has a prostate gland. Females do not have a prostate gland.

Next it will be:

'Females check out your prostate gland, especially if you have been on hormones.'

Which of course wont happen because one of the treatments for men with prostate cancer is to go on female hormones. This will feminise them and is a distressing side effect.

So is it still okay now to have Tena Lady and Tena Men incontinence pants? Or is this triggering?

www.tena.co.uk/men/products/

www.tena.co.uk/tenalady/

Not to forget that there are women who have to have an emergency hysterectomy following a difficult birth/C section. Are they allowed to be triggered walking down the sanitary protection aisle in the Supermarket? Or watching TV adverts?

BobTheDuvet · 18/06/2019 08:57

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OvaHere · 18/06/2019 08:58

Dundee University did put sanitary products in the men's toilets but have found the men mess about with them and stuff them down the toilets etc so are reconsidering this policy.

How could anyone have foreseen that happening? Everyone knows how sensible young men are! Hmm

placemats · 18/06/2019 09:00

And yet with the so called 'trans experience' it always goes as follows:

'It's not about genitals'

'No 'c*s' person can possibly understand the trans experience'

'This is OUR reality'

And so it goes on, round and round.

calpop · 18/06/2019 09:05

I get triggered every time I see Pipd Bance get anothrer award they dont deserve or Rachel McKinnon win another race they shouldn't be in. What about Meeeeeeeeeeeeee!

And dont get me started on a lifetime of having to use a fish slice to get mugs out because of all the kitchen cupboards those tall fuckers put too high up.

BuzzShitbagBobbly · 18/06/2019 09:14

MEN DON'T HAVE PERIODS!! confused

No but they do freeze tomato juice into icepops and use that to simulate blood.

I wish with every fibre of my being I was making that up. I'm not.

(Do not click unless you have a strong stomach)

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 18/06/2019 09:15

My blood is warm

calpop · 18/06/2019 09:50

but its not a fetish of course

Cagliostro · 18/06/2019 09:50

That reddit link... 😱

IAmAlwaysLikeThis · 18/06/2019 09:52

buzz

Why did you do this and why did I look?

"added sensation".

Kill me now, I don't want to live in this world any more.

DanaPhoenix · 18/06/2019 10:21

So bored of the self centred ramblings of the terminally offended.
Thankfully plenty of these comments have given me a good giggle.

It seems that recently trans men seem to be becoming more emboldened in calling out what they perceive as prejudice. Considering it has always been about trans women (being the most oppressed eva). What interesting is that like their trans women counterparts they seem to have women in their sights for criticism, not men.

DanaPhoenix · 18/06/2019 10:27

Oops hit post too soon.

I wanted to add I saw an interesting twitter post today from a trans man, lamenting being rejected by (the "C" word) straight women as a sexual partner. Apparently strap ons are the same as penises, in fact better because they come in a range of sizes. Yes really...

RuffleCrow · 18/06/2019 10:28

Can you imagine actually genuinely believing that the little girl you gave birth to has somehow become a man because she cut her hair and changed her name? And maybe took some hormones? It's like those old folk songs where people were always turning into swans and foxes. Most of them written in the pre-enlightenment era, which is where we seem to be headed.

IAmAlwaysLikeThis · 18/06/2019 10:44

"Most of them written in the pre-enlightenment era, which is where we seem to be headed."

I think a lot of this stuff has to do with the decrease in religious belief and patriotism. I think many people need a belief system to get them through, to fight for, to give their life meaning. For some reason, logic/science just doesn't do it for such people. Maybe it's the feeling of community or the need to believe in something higher than themselves. In the old days, this need was fulfilled by the church or by the feeling that we were fighting to make a better country or that our country was better than other people's. These days, it's the belief that we're better than those horrible terfs and the social need is fulfilled by twitter and tumblr.

This, combined with the rampant individualism/look at me culture, and the extreme gender stereotypes we say these days (especially for women: manicure parties for six year olds/contouring everything/waist trainers/instagram influencers/Kardashians) has led to this.

I'm not that old, but if I'd told my mum that I wanted to be a boy, she'd have said 'that's nice dear' and told me to go and play. Now, it's psychiatrists and doctors and writing a blog about your toddler who is trans.

FeckMum · 18/06/2019 11:19

Image being triggered by packaging aimed at females.
First we had to give up the Venus symbol because it excludes trans women.
Now we have to give up the Venus symbol because it triggers trans men.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 18/06/2019 11:29

What’s wrong with being a woman anyway? I will buy ‘mens’ tissues, chocolate, T-shirt without a moments angst or torment.

If you find these things so traumatic you need to see a therapist.

BuzzShitbagBobbly · 18/06/2019 11:35

What interesting is that like their trans women counterparts [transmen] seem to have women in their sights for criticism, not men.

Imagine our collective surprise Hmm

IAmAlwaysLikeThis · 18/06/2019 12:14

"What’s wrong with being a woman anyway? I will buy ‘mens’ tissues, chocolate, T-shirt without a moments angst or torment."

I think it's more complicated than that.

I fucking hated being a girl when I was growing up. I hated being sexualised, I didn't understand why all my friends were suddenly more interested in their hair than in having fun/reading/playing, I hated boys staring at my chest, I hated feeling like the chores were somehow my responsibility and not my brother's.

I have a lot of sympathy for teenage girls who don't want all the bs that comes with being a woman.

IcedPurple · 18/06/2019 12:27

What’s wrong with being a woman anyway? I will buy ‘mens’ tissues, chocolate, T-shirt without a moments angst or torment.

I would too, but the same is not true in reverse.

The makers of 'Gameboy' said that they called their gadget such because they knew that both boys and girls would happily buy a product with the word 'boy' in it, but had it been called 'Gamegirl' no boy would have gone near it.

Says a lot about the stigma of femaleness when even young children are aware or it.

IAmAlwaysLikeThis · 18/06/2019 12:32

"The makers of 'Gameboy' said that they called their gadget such because they knew that both boys and girls would happily buy a product with the word 'boy' in it, but had it been called 'Gamegirl' no boy would have gone near it."

Yes, or all the children's (and adult's too) books and movies with a male character as the lead role and supporting female characters only.

Girls are ok reading about/watching boys. Not so the other way.

OvaHere · 18/06/2019 12:34

It's also why JK Rowling used initials. She wanted boys to read her books too.

IcedPurple · 18/06/2019 12:35

Interesting. I did not kow that about JK Rowling, but it makes perfect sense, sadly.

IAmAlwaysLikeThis · 18/06/2019 12:36

ova

Yes. I remember when I was around 16/17 and I had grand ideas of being a writer. I remember telling my teacher I would use my initials so no one knew I was a woman. At that stage I didn't really think about how awful and fucked up that was, I actually thought I was rather smart and different for figuring out how to play the system.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 18/06/2019 12:37

I have a lot of sympathy for teenage girls who don't want all the bs that comes with being a woman. but these are tampons not cheerleader pom poms or barbie dolls. I wasn't a girly girly teen and had a crew cut and wore 'mens' jeans and DMs (hey it was the 80s). I never had a minutes' distress.