And fear is anger with a different coat on. People there because they're afraid not to be will desert the second they feel safer elsewhere, there's no loyalty or commitment involved.
It's as in any other toxic relationship with a narc: you eventually realise there is black pit of neediness in front of you, whatever you give will never be enough, there is no reciprocation or equality involved and when you're drained dry and say hang on a minute I can't, you are instantly turned on. And everything you ever did or ever were is evil and now seen through that distorted lens, and punishment will now be visited on you.
Text book.
The only answer with this kind of entity is going NC. Society will eventually figure this out.