And (last rant I promise - I am aware we’re rather far from a feminist focus now) the reason why I believe that the little individual changes amount to nothing is that everything is implicated, way beyond those small individual changes.
You decide to cycle to work rather than drive? Great, that’s a green choice. But you want a road / path / bridge to cycle on?(aggregate mining, oil-derived construction products, transport of materials by road, construction using heavy machinery /fuel - all of which had to be produced somewhere). Oh no - you’ve fallen off your bike and hurt your wrist! Maybe it’s broken.. so off to the new hospital (extraction and transport of all building materials including but not limited to: concrete (lots of it), multiple products derived from oil / plastics, rubber, sand, aggregates (both often extracted from rivers), etc etc - all of which is brought to the site by road / truck ). You get your wrist fixed up but decide to go home for the day. You go in, fill the kettle (bought from Amazon, metal, rubber and plastic parts) at the tap (miles and miles of concrete pipes, large scale treatment and purification plant) switch it on (electricity supply infrastructure - metal pylons and plastic coated cables, raw materials extracted, transformed and transported) and make a cup of organic, Fair Trade Tea. You take milk, so off to the fridge (powered by electricity, constructed largely of plastic, foam etc). You see where I’m going?
The companies who build roads, hospitals, electricity and water infrastructure and homes have never been made to internalise the environmental costs of doing so (beyond the fairly basic laws we have - mostly relating to pollution). Initially, this was down to ignorance and believing that resources and the planets ability to absorb waste was infinite. Now we know it’s not - but we have got used to getting infrastructure and services at a price which does not reflect the true cost. And unlike fridges and kettles and tea, where presumably a truly sustainable equivalent could be designed, the consumer doesn’t get to choose which companies provide us with all the above. It’s governments that do this. And as long as we are depending on commercial interests to provide all the above, we will be operating in a capitalist market where we pay the market price for services. Sure, some big construction company could come up with a quote to build a new hospital that includes all the environmental costs (or at least some $€£ equivalent) but it’s going to be far more expensive than those that don’t - and somebody has to pay that cost. Again, that’s capitalism for you.
Now multiply the above scenario across everything we do, and project it across the world. Because those of us with access to water, electricity, gas, roads, bridges, houses, hospitals, etc want to keep it. And those that don’t have these things? They want them - and who are we to pull up the drawbridge.
Organic carrots and bamboo toothbrushes are not going to cut it.