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Caroline Farrow Support Thread

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GeordieGenes · 01/04/2019 23:05

Caroline, I am honestly almost in tears looking at your Twitter feed tonight. Sad

Her kids have been doxxed by the good doctor.

She is continuing to receive harassment from TRAs. Someone has just sent a pizza to her house.

We all need to get behind her. They think she's a weaker target because of her Catholic views, I'm sure. Let's get on Twitter and report everyone that is sending her abuse.

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OVAgroundWOMBlingfree · 02/04/2019 14:52

It is so interesting to me that they want to bring it MN’s “front yard” but block discussion in their feed. Hmm

Carowiththegoodhair · 02/04/2019 14:53

Before all this started I agreed to do a Channel 4 documentary on Sex Ed with my daughter. Not to use her for any agenda but so that she could give her own view on Sex ed. We had to watch a variety of sex ed films made over the past 50 years. Some were hilarious, others were dire.

They wanted a more religious, socially conservative family. Nothing was censored and no conversation off limits. I wanted to bust the stereotype that religious families don’t talk to their children about sex or that we queer-bash.

At the time of filming, the awful website had started but I thought that the police would have dealt with it before the show aired as they had told me they would be interviewing the suspect under caution. Certainly the child psychologist who screened us for the show couldn’t believe it would be allowed to stand.

So my participation in the show is being used as ammunition. It certainly doesn’t merit her doxing and the programme-makers took great care to provide a generic shirt & tie so as not to identify the schools.

But my daughter is seen reacting and giving her own spontaneous response to sex ed videos. Not being politicised to say there should never be any kind of education.

That said, I wish I could get the whole show pulled because Hayden, Harrop & co are bound to attack me/her over it. Sad

RedToothBrush · 02/04/2019 14:54

Second what rufus said.

Retain your own power and don't give them power by dignifying demands for attention.

BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 02/04/2019 14:55

Quick tip, discussing golfing facilities is not a threat to come round to an individual's home, place of work, or anywhere in order to attack them with a golf club.

See this here everyone ⬆️⬆️⬆️ this is what is known as gaslighting

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/04/2019 14:57

Ooh thank you barbie

Its good to have an example of gaslighting in the wild as it were

RedToothBrush · 02/04/2019 14:57

It does not need to be an explicit threat. Posting an image of a place personal to someone has the intent to scare and intimidate or could be interpreted like that.

And that's enough.

But y'know.

Lawyering.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 02/04/2019 14:59

Someone doesn't have much grasp of the law do they?

OVAgroundWOMBlingfree · 02/04/2019 15:00

Posting an image of a place personal to someone has the intent to scare and intimidate or could be interpreted like that.

Indeed my father was questioned by the police for merely referring to the area in which we lived in an intimidating manner.

Carowiththegoodhair · 02/04/2019 15:00

I posted before seeing Stephanie’s response. I owe them nothing. My opinion of them of a person born with a male body who has been minimising and validating abusive behaviour remains.

Dr Harrop should not as an HCP be posting statements as to my mental health or the safety of my children. The GMC have duly been informed.

I am under no obligation to provide Stephanie with the screenshots of the abusive blog identifying my children and even how they travel to school. Stephanie is supporting a woman who is the perpetrator’s friend of over 20 years and who supported their abusive sock puppets. I am sorry that they find that defamatory but it is true.

Anyone attempting to deny, defend or minimise what has happened to me is complicit in the abuse.

Stephanie’s criminal conviction is a source of deep concern to my family as is their vindictive nature evidenced by their pursuit of another mother, for pointing out what many people think and is a matter of public interest.

Stephanie is welcome to sue me. Their violent history frightens me, but their litigious nature does not.

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stephLDS18 · 02/04/2019 15:03

@Carowiththegoodhair

Let me assure you Caroline I, for one, have no particular interest in the proposed Channel 4 programme. I will not be watching it. I have not published any photograph of your child on my Twitter feed (and will not do so). I have my personal views on whether such media exposure for a teenager is appropriate; however, those are decisions for the parent, child, and broadcaster concerned.

Caroline, I read a lot of hyperbole on this thread but I will say this. I am 100% confident that anything I have ever published about you (on whichever forum it is) can be justified. I see many on this thread suggesting you seek legal advice. That is, if I may say so, wise advice. You are welcome to come at me legally. I have no problem with that at all. I would have been within my rights to commence legal action in respect of many comments published by you about me. I elected not to do so. I repeat again, I have never been spoken to by the Police about anything to do with my social media output (EVER). And as much as you wish to make an issue about my alleged past the fact is you cannot say the same. You, like me, are a public figure. Critical comment comes with the territory. You yourself have directed people to a certain stalking and doxxing website containing a thread about me. Yet you complain when people are critical of you. As I say, my policy has now changed. I will be engaging on this forum when I consider it appropriate to do so. Let us have a robust debate. The days of the abusive Echo Chamber are over.

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 02/04/2019 15:05

Fucking hell

Some people do go on a bit don’t they?

My scrolling finger is tired

Carowiththegoodhair · 02/04/2019 15:07

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Datun · 02/04/2019 15:07

This could be cleared up very quickly by you sharing the screenshots of AH supposedly doxxing your children.

Oh dear God. Who do these people think they are?

Quick tip, discussing golfing facilities is not a threat to come round to an individual's home, place of work, or anywhere in order to attack them with a golf club.

What is it then?

From reds post:

"Putting someone in fear of violence is when someone says or does two or more things that make you fear that violence will be used against you. The law states that a person is guilty of putting you in fear of violence if a reasonable person, who had the same information your abuser had, would think his behaviour would cause you to fear violence"

There are 12 million reasonable people on here.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/04/2019 15:07

I posted before seeing Stephanie’s response. I owe them nothing

Absolutely

WeepingWillowWeepingWino · 02/04/2019 15:09

@MNHQ please can you delete Steph's posts tagging Caro - she is facing enough harrassment on Twitter without the same happening on your forum.

thanks.

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 02/04/2019 15:10

Caro - you do what is best for you and your family.

If that is doing nothing then that is the right thing to do.

SpartacusAutisticusAHF · 02/04/2019 15:12

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AbsintheFriends · 02/04/2019 15:12

I wasn't going to post as I don't have anything practical to add. But then I thought that the repellent individual gaslighting and minimising abuse all over this thread should perhaps be reminded of how many people, like me, are reading those posts.

14 million MN users. FWR one of the most visited boards. There are many of us silently watching this unfold, and seeing it for exactly what it is.

Support and strength to Caro.

stephLDS18 · 02/04/2019 15:14

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OVAgroundWOMBlingfree · 02/04/2019 15:14

I believe Caro has made it clear she suffers with PTSD and finds much of this incredibly triggering and yet on it goes.

littlbrowndog · 02/04/2019 15:14

Caro. See howlsmoving castle post on page 11. Offering practical help

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