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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Woman wins women's prize

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pachyderm · 04/03/2019 07:56

www.theguardian.com/books/2019/mar/04/non-binary-trans-author-nominated-for-womens-prize-for-fiction

Oh wait, she's trans nonbinary and doesn't identify as male or female even though she is clearly female!

FFS at this utter nonsense. I feel like I'm trapped in an unending episode of Brass Eye.

OP posts:
CharlieParley · 04/03/2019 15:01

No one insists that males who identify as trans must continue using facilities for men. We're saying that they have no right to access facilities reserved for women. That's why we support third spaces.

And yes, we're saying you can't identify out of you sex, but that person has done so. It is merely a sarcastic comment to point out that some people get very shouty if you don't respect their pronouns/identity but are only too happy to forget all about that when there's a prize to be had in the category that one otherwise wholly rejects and wishes to have nothing to do with.

Weetabixandshreddies · 04/03/2019 15:10

No one insists that males who identify as trans must continue using facilities for men. We're saying that they have no right to access facilities reserved for women. That's why we support third spaces.

And in the absence of a 3rd space? I've seen it said plenty of times on here that anyone born male should use male toilets and changing rooms, regardless of how they identify.

If the argument is that your birth sex can never be changed, regardless of how you identify, then this issue is surely not noteworthy? Presumably, following the arguments on this board a trans man would be eligible for this prize, so of course a person born female who now identifies as non binary should be eligible to win.

Floisme · 04/03/2019 15:15

What is noteworthy is the brass neck absurdity of denying you're a woman until someone waves a cheque book at you.

OldCrone · 04/03/2019 15:17

Weetabixandshreddies
But the argument on this board is that you can't change sex

And the argument of the genderists is that their gender is more important than their actual sex. So it seems a bit hypocritical of her to accept the nomination, since by doing so she is also accepting that she's a woman.

OldCrone · 04/03/2019 15:22

Presumably, following the arguments on this board a trans man would be eligible for this prize, so of course a person born female who now identifies as non binary should be eligible to win.

Exactly. But that's not what this author believes. Under this person's belief system, this person is not a woman, therefore shouldn't be eligible, but they have accepted the nomination. Why do you think they have done that, weetabix?

Weetabixandshreddies · 04/03/2019 15:26

And also hypocritical of posters who insist that trans women are men and should always be treated as such for the purposes of sex segregated spaces, sport, awards for women because it is only birth sex that matters.

Yet when faced with a person born female you then can't accept them being eligible for women only awards because they identify as non binary? Given that I've many times on here seen the argument that gender is a social construct and one that many would like to see the back of really, what is the issue?

If birth sex is all that matters, a trans man would be eligible for this award because of their genetic make up, according to many posters on this board.

Weetabixandshreddies · 04/03/2019 15:29

OldCrone

Under this person's belief system, this person is not a woman, therefore shouldn't be eligible, but they have accepted the nomination.

So would you accept a trans woman, who identifies as and believes they are a woman, winning this award? Or would you revert to the objective reality argued on here that they were born male and so are therefore not eligible, regardless of how they feel?

In which case it doesn't matter how this person feels or identifies - they were born female.

Floisme · 04/03/2019 15:32

Once again, we accept that the writer is eligible for a women's prize. That is not in dispute.

What is being expressed is surprise - and some amusement - that they have accepted a nomination for a women-only prize even though they refuse to admit that they are female.

As Crone has already asked - why do you think this person has done that?

Haworthia · 04/03/2019 15:36

For some reason, I have more disdain for women who present as female calling themselves “non-binary” than anyone else. Oh, you’re a woman but don’t FEEL female? Who fucking does?

Anyway, then this tweet popped up on my feed and I saved it for future reference because it’s great.

Woman wins women's prize
Weetabixandshreddies · 04/03/2019 15:39

Well I really don't know why, because I'm not them.

However, given that society appears to be insistent that people have to fit into either male or female boxes for certain things I guess what choice did they have?

If you don't identify as either male nor female, or if you identify as trans then what do you do? If you can't compete as the gender that you choose then the only other option is to compete according to your birth sex, if that is what society forces you to do.

Would you still object if this person was a trans man?

Floisme · 04/03/2019 15:44

We're not objecting - we are taking the piss.

Can you really not see the difference?

The writer did not have to agree to be nominated. They've already had their book published - to glowing reviews.

OldCrone · 04/03/2019 15:57

In which case it doesn't matter how this person feels or identifies - they were born female.

Well, exactly. Do you really not see the hypocrisy in someone who insists they are not a woman - despite being one - accepting a prize for women? It's almost as though this person doesn't really believe in trans ideology themself. Or should that be themselves? Trans grammar is difficult to deal with.

Seeing as this individual has accepted a nomination for a women's prize, I feel I should be using the appropriate pronouns for a woman, but I don't know if that would get my posts deleted.

MealyPotatoes · 04/03/2019 15:58

weetabixandahreddies A transman, although female, would not identify as such and therefore wouldn’t likely be nominated.

If a transwoman (ie a man) was nominated for a prize for women I’d be really quite pissed off.

OldCrone · 04/03/2019 16:06

Just to make things clear, weetabix, I have no problem with this woman being nominated for a women's prize. She is, after all, a woman. I don't think Philip Bunce should get a woman's award, because he's a man who occasionally likes a bit of cross dressing.

Non-binary and gender fluid just seem to be ways of being whichever sex gives you the best outcome at any given moment in time.

Does that help you to understand my argument a bit better? Hope you manage to read it before it gets deleted for massive amounts of misgendering and wrongthink.

merrymouse · 04/03/2019 16:09

If you don't identify as either male nor female, or if you identify as trans then what do you do? If you can't compete as the gender that you choose then the only other option is to compete according to your birth sex, if that is what society forces you to do.

There are plenty of literary prizes that aren't segregated by sex. This prize is specifically for women because women are underrepresented in literature. You might think it's all bullshit and that there is no reason to have a special literature prize for women, but the only thing that women share is a sex. There is no female identity.

I think this writer is perfectly entitled to take part in this competition because of their sex, and it's also obvious that their work explores specifically female experiences.

The only problem is the assumption that this writer is unusual and ground breaking because, unlike all the other female writers, they don't have a specifically female identity. That is insulting.

Weetabixandshreddies · 04/03/2019 16:30

The only problem is the assumption that this writer is unusual and ground breaking because, unlike all the other female writers, they don't have a specifically female identity. That is insulting.

I agree with that. Which is why I find this thread quite strange. I'm not sure what there is to be shocked about, apart from the reaction to this author winning on the basis of their identity.

FlyingOink · 04/03/2019 16:39

She wanted a hysterectomy because she believes she is an ogbanje
Not convinced. I think she's struggling with the expectations of Nigerian people in her life, her Western scientific studies and her gender feels, and happened across a way to address all three issues.

Floisme · 04/03/2019 16:43

We're at an impasse then Weetabix as I'm finding your posts just as strange as you seem to be finding this thread.

I've explained three times now so this is the last time I'm going to say that we agree that the writer is entitled to be entered for an all women's prize if they are female. I only say 'if' because the writer will not acknowledge being female, but has agreed to the nomination. They are of course entitled to be entered, however I think we are also entitled to say, what a knob.

I think it's the equivalent of me, a confirmed, occasionally gobby atheist, insisting on getting married in a church cos the photos will be nicer.

Over and out.

merrymouse · 04/03/2019 16:55

I'm not sure what there is to be shocked about

I'm not shocked at the inclusion of this writer. I'm irritated that the person who nominated them and the Guardian are making a big deal about their inclusion as though every other writer can be fitted into a binary gender category.

www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/mar/04/non-binary-writer-womens-fiction-longlist-akwaeke-emezi-gender-politics

nauticant · 04/03/2019 16:56

I'm not sure what there is to be shocked about

There is nothing to be shocked about. This thread is a shock-free zone (although there might be some here who are secretly identifying as shocked.)

The Guardian, in another article about this, is trying to whip of controversy because that would be consistent with the gender identity ideology. The Guardian are on the hunt for shock. The GC among us are pretty much "meh" about this.

Lamaha · 04/03/2019 17:03

I just wanted to say that the thread title is incorrect -- she hasn't actually won the women's prize. She's in a longlist of 16 women. She might yet win, but she first has to get into the shortlist.

Ereshkigal · 04/03/2019 17:17

A lot of these people are a bit Nathan Barley too.

Ereshkigal · 04/03/2019 17:20

We're at an impasse then Weetabix as I'm finding your posts just as strange as you seem to be finding this thread.

Me too.

CamdenTownie · 04/03/2019 17:21

I take it they won't accept the prize if they win then 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ereshkigal · 04/03/2019 17:21

I think it's the equivalent of me, a confirmed, occasionally gobby atheist, insisting on getting married in a church cos the photos will be nicer.

It is.