We NEED to speak out about this person

[pombear]

For me, this is exactly why our conversation in the UK is so important right now.

Benjamin questions what his responsibility, and whether he can speak out.

Benjamin's film demonstrates the tangle that Canada has got itself in.

To the extent that the person that Benjamin speaks about feels OK to stand in front of their City Council and brag about their action against Megan Murphy, despite their own despicable and extremely concerning online behaviour.

twitter.com/BenjaminABoyce/status/1075827530702049280

This person who creeps on pre-teen girls isn't even hiding in plain sight. He just is in plain sight.

And he is being allowed to us the law as a tool to harass women.

It's all shades of wrong. You couldn't make it up.

I don't want to talk about this person, we want to know how to sue him.

His breathless, whispery voice made me feel sick. That voice these men put on always turn me. Eugh..🤮

I think part of the problem here, is that this monster is saying out loud, the sorts of things other transwomen (and men generally) think, but don't say. Or there's an ignorance on womens issues and what is or isn't appropriate/or they know and don't give a damn. It's clear from social media, that a lot of men don't see woman as equal at all, no matter how much they might try to say the right things irl or when it suits them (eg dating). A lot of men truly see us as bodies to play with, silly creatures to be used and abused, and not much else. This guy wants to help put tampons in little girls?? Wtf? a) What the fuck would he know about the practical sude of having a vagina (which is clearly nothing like an anus, other than they're both orifices) and b)this is obviously an inappropriate line of thought to have, most adult women would offer a pad to a desperate teen, but never in a million years offer to apply it or insert a tampon ! Do men seriously think women often do things like that for each other? What causes a fetish like that?

Apart from the huge numbers of rapists and violent men, there are also a lot of pedophiles out there. Hasn't something like 1 in 5 children been sexually abused in the UK (95%+ by men?). Yet these men often don't get caught, never mind convicted or put on a semi-useless register (here in N.I no Sarah's law, so the public can't access that information). It's disgusting, scary, and more so when government officials are known to have participated in such things on a large scale, child rape parties in Dolphin square etc.

Boak at the thought some men use pads, so they can ejaculate in public!

What's the law on making statements indicating a desire to abuse children online? In at least one case the statements indicated an actual plan rather than just a desire (the ferry).

In MNHQ nix this thread I'm going to be furious. This is not a fragile delicate little bird in need of protection from the world, this is a predator abusing the law to be able to prey on other more effectively. This is exactly what GC women have been worried about, so, everyone who told us it would never happen? You can go ahead and apologize now.

My overriding feeling about the ball waxing person was sadness. Real fucking sadness that someone like that could be seen as perfectly fine to share a bathroom with wee girls.

Wee girls who have enough to deal with as they grow up. Just horrendous.

In MNHQ nix this thread I'm going to be furious. This is not a fragile delicate little bird in need of protection from the world, this is a predator abusing the law to be able to prey on other more effectively. This is exactly what GC women have been worried about, so, everyone who told us it would never happen? You can go ahead and apologize now.

This.

To me, it's important to keep talking about situations like this, and to be very aware of them and their impact, because Canada is another 'canary in the coal mine' situation as lesbians are right now.

I don't think the UK is in 'sleeping' mode, as lots of people have woken up to what's happening due to the GRA consultation and also the sterling efforts of many women and some men who have been shouting about this for a lot longer than many of us have.

But I do think it's important to not be complacent, as in, 'it will never happen here'.

Witnessing the gradual tightening on what can and can't be said, the gradual loosening in this country as to what constitutes facts and science, the gradual move towards no-platforming, and the attempted demonisation of women who are critical of the appropriation of what 'woman' actually means.

And the unquestioning sign-up to an anti-science, anti-woman agenda by key political and media figures.

We may be a small step behind Canada, but it's only a small step.

We need to keep speaking up, to stop a situation where the prevailing Zeitgiest of 'transwomen are women' #nodebate has enabled a man to vocalise his fixation on '10-12 year old girls', in plain sight (not implied- it's in his online commentary) buoyed by his percieved protection of being 'trans'.

Who also appears, according to his own social media, to have a 'menstruation fetish' despite him having a male-body.

Sunlight. The more sunlight that's shone, the more this will be exposed before the UK falls to Canda's failings of women.

Excellent post pombear. All of the agrees.

He is intersex now, apparently.

The woman who captured this is amazing.

Did anyone see this lovely selfie?

Hang on, is that a school bathroom?

he's a disgusting pervert and I don't understand why MN would pay his feelings, based in Canada, any sort of regard

I've just been barred from Twitter for 12 hours for saying JY's actual name.

It’s absolute madness. How is this person being protected so much?

The fact that this person is being protected by anyone show that there is now a vulnerability in every one of the systems society has to limit the actions of predators (police, courts, laws - all of it) that can be activated by using the word "trans". The questions we all need to ask are as follows.

1. Who built those vulnerabilities into those systems?

1. What were their motives?

1. How do we patch that glaringly obvious security breach so that a predator who states that they are trans (which may or may not mean anything specific and may or may not be sincere ) is restricted by the same rules and systems that apply to everyone else rather than being able to bypass measures designed to limit the ability of predators to operate?

Again, if MNHQ delete this comment I will be furious, because this person is dangerous, and the complete failure of the systems designed to protect the public in Canada to intervene demonstrates a systemic weakness that can be exploited by predators. The predators may or may not be trans. It doesn't matter, because simply saying they are is enough to activate the systemic weakness. Anyone who thinks that there will not be predators who will take advantage of that is a fool.

In that bathroom selfie he's looking right at the little girl (in the mirror) isn't he?

Also - social license to operate. Ten years ago, pre TRA campaigning, he would have been thrown out of that toilet rather than been allowed to stand their taking photos. Now girls have been trained that if they say anything they're the ones in the wrong.

Ive just been banned too -
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3458671-Waxing-lyrical-about-twitter-ban?msgid=83537536#83537536
-for calling the hairy balled vagina owner a dangerous paedophile. Ive asked twitter for clarification that they approve of adults discussing and offering to help 10 year old strangers with their tampons.

I knew who this thread was about without even clicking on it.

The amount of power people have over the truth is terrifying.

Also - social license to operate. Ten years ago, pre TRA campaigning, he would have been thrown out of that toilet rather than been allowed to stand their taking photos. Now girls have been trained that if they say anything they're the ones in the wrong.

Exactly. What bullshit

Angry
You’re spot on, the vulnerability to safeguarding created by the trans ideology is clear as day, The mass delusion taking place is mind boggling.
On another note, the photo of that paedophilic creep in such close proximity to the young girl in that photo turns my stomach. I do not believe he is intersex or trans, he’s simply a danger to girls and women.

That smirk is 100% pure "look at me totally getting away with this".

Duping Delight

So often a Venn diagram illustrates the overlap of different groups. Trans / Incels / Pedo. And the former transsexuals are completely thrown under the bus as well as women and girls.