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Times 'Lib Dem trans activists ‘hounded’ abuse victim (Natalie Bird)''.Article refers to Zoe O'Connell & Sarah Brown

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R0wantrees · 19/10/2018 09:40

article by Lucy Bannerman
(extract)
"A victim of domestic abuse was removed as a judge of a radical thinking prize and “hounded” out of her role within the Liberal Democrats for saying that she did not believe that men who identified as women should have access to women’s refuges.

Natalie Bird, 38, a mother of two who fled an abusive former partner, was accused of “dangerous transphobia” by transgender activists in the party. She had said that opening up safe spaces without proper safeguards to anyone who said that they were female could put women at risk.

She opposed segregating women’s refuges by chosen gender instead of biological sex, and said that it was not fair to make female victims of domestic violence, abuse and rape share services with people with “functioning” male anatomy.

After being allegedly bullied on social media by party activists, Ms Bird was brought before a disciplinary hearing to face a complaint in the name of Zoe O’Connell, on behalf of the LGBT+ Liberal Democrats. The correspondence says that Ms Bird had “expressed troublesome views”.

The hearing found no evidence to support the complaint of transphobia, but Ms Bird lost her position as chairwoman of the Radical Association, made up of party members, following a vote of no confidence. This cost her her role as a judge of the Ashdown Prize for Radical Thought; an ironic move, Ms Bird said, given that the prize’s aim was to reward “big, bold, radical” solutions to society’s most “daunting problems . . . no one has the courage to argue for” (continues)

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/lib-dem-trans-activists-hounded-abuse-victim-b6dx39tv3

Hopefully many LibDem Members will stand in support of Natalie Bird.

O'Connell and Brown make a mockery of the LibDem priciples and their bullying abusive behaviour has been allowed to run unchecked within the party.

The Liberal Democrats exist to build and safeguard a fair, free and open society, in which we seek to balance the fundamental values of liberty, equality and community, and in which no one shall be enslaved by poverty, ignorance or conformity. We champion the freedom, dignity and well-being of individuals, we acknowledge and respect their right to freedom of conscience and their right to develop their talents to the full. We aim to disperse power, to foster diversity and to nurture creativity. We believe that the role of the state is to enable all citizens to attain these ideals, to contribute fully to their communities and to take part in the decisions which affect their lives.

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FatherBuzzCagney · 19/10/2018 16:50

You must be able to give an example of her alleged transphobia, if it was one of the reasons you voted her out. I can remember examples of Sarah Brown's inadequacies as a local councillor from the best part of a decade ago, which is why I don't vote Lib Dem in this ward. If you can't give any specifics then you really can't expect anyone to believe you.

NoseringGirl · 19/10/2018 16:53

I don't think Soros came here to be believed. Soros appears to just want to tell us how wrong we all are and try to insult us into agreeing with them.

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 19/10/2018 16:54

Trans women are trans women. Trans women are adult human males

This cannot be repeated enough.

Tranwomen are not women.

Women do not have penises.

Women are adult human females.

JoanSummers · 19/10/2018 16:54

@sorospaysme
No comment on Sarah Brown's behaviour as evidenced on this thread?

I won't believe a thing you or your chums have to say until you acknowledge Sarah Brown's misogyny and lesbophobia, and their abuse and harassment of women and transsexuals online. If you can't be honest enough to address that why should we give any credence to what you have to say at all? Why should we especially have any time for what any of you have to say about women or a specific woman? Your actions reveal you.

Datun · 19/10/2018 16:55

Go vote UKIP or something, or the greens if they go full transphobe, cos they are the only parties backing your vile anti trans agenda. Or maybe the National Front/BNP/EDL or whatever its called these days will back you as well.

Good lord.

This whole ideology is supported by children.

R0wantrees · 19/10/2018 16:55

Idk where you get the idea that I want anyone here's, or more importantly anyone who backs Natalie, vote. I don't. Go vote UKIP or something, or the greens if they go full transphobe, cos they are the only parties backing your vile anti trans agenda. Or maybe the National Front/BNP/EDL or whatever its called these days will back you as well.

SorosPaysMe

I am a member of the Liberal Democrats.
I understand what being liberal and democratic means.

Your comment to LangCleg does not suggest you have any meaningful understanding of the the key principle:

The Liberal Democrats exist to build and safeguard a fair, free and open society, in which we seek to balance the fundamental values of liberty, equality and community, and in which no one shall be enslaved by poverty, ignorance or conformity. We champion the freedom, dignity and well-being of individuals, we acknowledge and respect their right to freedom of conscience and their right to develop their talents to the full

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SorosPaysMe · 19/10/2018 16:56

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TheHarpySings · 19/10/2018 16:58

I think it’s worth analysing SorosPaysMe’s comments through the lens of Bunbury.

QuietContraryMary · 19/10/2018 16:58

So I had a quick look on FB, the Radical Association supporters group has these admins:

Luke Graham (seen above)
George Potter (- twitter.com/search?f=tweets&vertical=default&q=from%3Ageorgewpotter%20trans&src=typd
Ross Stalker - twitter.com/search?f=tweets&q=from%3Aross_stalker%20trans&src=typd
James Baillie - twitter.com/search?f=tweets&vertical=default&q=from%3AJubalBarca%20trans&src=typd

So four men with identical viewpoints.

How very progressive.

Datun · 19/10/2018 16:59

But you think someone is transphobic for saying a person of or denoting the sex that produces sperm, is also of or denoting the sex that bears eggs.

OlennasWimple · 19/10/2018 16:59

"renegotiated the bounds of the existing relationship" - that summarises what has been happening over the last few years at the societal level, as well in in individual cases (except it was renegotiated without our consent or even awareness...)

Sometimes DH carries my handbag if I've got my hands full with other stuff, and he will happily go and buy sanpro for me. Does this mean that our relationship is "a bit lesbian" as well?

JoanSummers · 19/10/2018 17:00

Which rule of misogyny is it that "when someone shows you who they are, believe them"?

Sarah Brown, all their chums here and elsewhere - you've shown us who you are. We believe our own eyes and our own ears.

What was the phrase Brown used? "Get in the sea"?

A bit more threatening from Sarah Brown who owns a yacht and has a proven record of hatred and abusive behaviour, for sure.

SorosPaysMe · 19/10/2018 17:00

R0wantrees I and every member of the Liberal Democrats I have ever met interprets our preamble to be in total and complete support with trans rights. You and Natalie might see your selves as rejecting conformity by being edgy and "gender critical", but your values contract the fundamental principles of liberty, equality and community and certainly aren't compatible with championing the freedom, dignity and well-being of individuals. Natalie was binned from her job because she was bad at it and had values which didn't fit with the organisation. If you don't like it, set up your own version of RA thats gender critical, but thats what democracy is.

R0wantrees · 19/10/2018 17:00

I don't think SorosPaysMe's comments need much analysis. they can simply be read and understood.

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JoanSummers · 19/10/2018 17:02

Hey @sorospaysme
Any comment on Sarah Brown's documented misogyny, lesbophobia, and abuse and harassment of women and transsexuals?

R0wantrees · 19/10/2018 17:02

Reposting WhenHarpySings as it may have got lost:

"My notes from the Lib Dem fringe meeting in Brighton:

The meeting had the following people speaking at it:

Karen Lindsey, who edits LibDem Voice (their member magazine)
James Morton of the Scottish Transgender Alliance
Emma Ritch, Engender
Sarah Brown (Lib Dems)
Sal Brinton (President of the Lib Dems)

Unless something below is in quote marks consider it paraphrased.

Karen Lindsey:
A core liberal value is not to allow marginalised groups to be victimised, especially in the media. A person’s identity is not a subject for debate- we must stand against attacks. In Scotland, the tone is friendlier and there is more collaboration in the voluntary sector.

James Morton:
This is about making sure transgender people don’t have to go through red tape. They want their brith certificate changed without red tape or panel.

Here are the three things we want:

  1. Remove the psychiatric requirements to getting a GRC and the 2year time delay. We want a statutory self-declaration- which will be legal declaration. Lying on it would be punishable. This is about people living permanently in their new gender, not flip flopping back at random. {Note- this seems to contradict what James Morton said at the We’re Still Here Conference- where they did discuss being able to legally change back without it be viewed as ill intentions.}

  2. Remove age restrictions on the GRC. Kids in distress should be listened to. Kids don’t have much ID and don’t want to be outed as trans. Puberty blockers are reversible, just pause puberty.

  3. Non binary people should be able to get a gender neutral birth certificate. They may present as one gender or the other on a part time basis or want to opt out of gender entirely. Non binary ID is not taken seriously.

Dont’ bother with people on Twitter- talk in person to the people in the “moveable middle”. Allies can help with this.

Emma Ritch:
How do we reconcile feminist and trans understandings of rights. In Scotland VAWG orgs have to be inclusive as a condition of funding. We have trust and strong relationship with Scottish Transgender Alliance.
As a feminist group we have been collaborating with other women’s orgs so that we are all on the same page and we could communicate that women’s organisations were in favour [of the proposed changed to the GRA in Scotland] & we had no concerns.

English women’s organisations are contacting the Scottish organisations about the “difficult conversations” they are having to have around this issue.

One reason the tone of the debate has been better in Scotland is because feminist organisations in Scotland are listened to and receive funding from the Scottish government so their view is valued.

The media is also different in Scotland- the tone in the Scottish papers the Herald and the Scotsman is more positive on the GRA.

The debate in England has become messy, hostile and polarised. There needs to be acknowledgement where things have been messy and feminist organisations should help the tone by supporting the trans organisations.

Understand concerns come from real fears and act together against VAWG

Maintain “radical kindness”- create spaces for genuine discussion with no name calling.

Sarah Brown:
I had to fight a bi-election because a woman resigned because she didn’t want to abide by the Equalities Act.

A year ago media stories were transphobic but puerile “Stella became a fella” type stories.

Now in the USA there are toilet bans, military bans and trans people are having their passports confiscated.

The same people want to attack trans rights in the UK- trans is an easy soft target to start attacked LGBT rights.

There’s been vicious feminist transphobia.

The tone of the media coverage has changed because of the proposed GRA changes, which have been deliberately conflated with the Equalities Act. The spaces governed by EA2010 are NOT under review- this is a lie.

If you’re a violent person you can’t get into refuges full stop.

“They are lying about the law””

“There is something more insidious going on”- the rhetoric has become more sophisticated and is equating transwomen with violence and males. They even have a name for us- “Tims”- trans identified male. “We are not male”.

They are using the same tactic as the pro-Brexit campaign with demonising a marginalised group. They even have tame transwomen on their side and are using “weaponised politeness”. It’s easy to sound polite and reasonable when you are trying to take away people’s rights.

It’s an organised campaign to demonise transwomen. “I’m frightened”.

They want to repeal all transgender people’s protections in the EA2010 and repeal the GRA2004.

Transwomen are portrayed as violent men. When we display emotion about this we are accused of shutting down debate. They want capitulation and submission. Trans rights are human rights.

We need good civic education. This is not a debate. The narrative has been decided. Natasha Kennedy monstered for making a list of transphobic lecturers- she was just trying to protect young people.

Sal Brinton:
Respect tolerance and understanding are at the core of Lib Dems. The change on discourse is alarming. If you removed “trans” from it and replaced with “black” it would be seen as unacceptable.

In the party, the discipline process will be amended. The disciplinary panels will be trained. Adjudicators and investigators will be trained in the core hate crime area. They will need to be trained before they are eligible to be on a panel.

We need to call out intolerance. there is a different tone amongst people under 20 but this cannot wait.

I reiterate that I would not object to a parliament where 50% of seats were held by transwomen because “I don’t differentiate”

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Datun · 19/10/2018 17:02

Natalie was binned from her job because she was bad at it and had values which didn't fit with the organisation. If you don't like it, set up your own version of RA thats gender critical, but thats what democracy is.

How come your democracy is completely at odds with everyone else's?

The Times newspaper, 97% of people disagree with you.

Pink news, 82% of people disagree with you.

SorosPaysMe · 19/10/2018 17:05

Datun I don't know if you just don't understand democracy and difference of opinion or are just being intentionally ridiculous? The membership of RA is obviously going to have different views from those of the times, if you asked members of the BNP then you would get 99.999%. Thats in no way relevant to the members of RAs right to remove someone as their chair if they disagree with them.

QuietContraryMary · 19/10/2018 17:05

"Your comment suggests that there is a problem with her being removed for being transhpobic? "

No, I placed the word 'transphobic' in quotation marks, since it was the cause cited at Luke Graham's twitter. I suspect that we have different opinions on what constitutes transphobia, so the accusation of 'transphobic' is inherently problematic without data on what she was accused of.

The very clear implication from Luke's post on Twitter was that if you don't believe 'Trans Woman are Woman, Trans Men are Men', then you will be removed from the Radical Association.

If you want to come along now and say 'actually it was because she was a terrible person in these other ways', well perhaps you should have thought about that before crowing to Mumsnet, a month ago or whatever it was, that you had removed this woman for not sharing your views on gender.

QuietContraryMary · 19/10/2018 17:06

"if you asked members of the BNP then you would get 99.999%. Thats in no way relevant to the members of RAs right to remove someone as their chair if they disagree with them."

Hang on a minute, I thought you removed her because she was a terrible person. Make your mind up FGS. Own it.

deepwatersolo · 19/10/2018 17:08

One of the reasons, as I explicitly said (and ill quote it below) was because she is transphobic.

Soros you do understand that language is made up of words and those words have meanings, yes? Sex based protections are not transphobic and to state that transwomen are male and not women reflects the only truth that the defined meanings of those words can reflect.

There isn't even an alternative definition of male, female, man, woman on offer by 'the other side', that this could be called into question on the basis of alternative definitions of words. There are none.

Datun · 19/10/2018 17:08

SorosPaysMe

But you're saying that disagreement was about transphobia and other things. Without backing any of that up. And to you, transphobia means refusing to deny reality.
Your credibility is zero.

JoanSummers · 19/10/2018 17:09

I wonder why no prominent LibDem or any of Brown's pals are able to comment on Sarah Brown's documented misogyny, lesbophobia, and abuse and harassment of women and transsexuals?

Worried about their own position, or do they share Brown's views?

Either way, they have no credibility.

R0wantrees · 19/10/2018 17:09

Karen Lindsey: who edits LibDem Voice (their member magazine)
A core liberal value is not to allow marginalised groups to be victimised, especially in the media. A person’s identity is not a subject for debate- we must stand against attacks. In Scotland, the tone is friendlier and there is more collaboration in the voluntary sector.

Worth being aware that Aimee Challenor was writing for LibDem Voice 9/10/2018

www.libdemvoice.org/why-the-national-autistic-society-were-right-to-reverse-their-decision-on-award-winning-charity-mermaids-58805.html

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SorosPaysMe · 19/10/2018 17:09

The very clear implication from Luke's post on Twitter was that if you don't believe 'Trans Woman are Woman, Trans Men are Men', then you will be removed from the Radical Association.

Yes, that is true. Because that is the stance of not just the Radical Association, but the federal Liberal Democrats, each of the state parties, the Young Liberals and the policy of our Parliamentary Party. If you don't agree with that then you are at odds with our fundamental values.

She was removed both because of her views and because she was a terrible person which is what i said in my original comment you people seem to have taken this as me saying it was just because she is a terrible person. So let me be abundantly clear and put it in terms you lot will hopefully be able to comprehend, she was removed by the democratic processes of the Radical Association because she is a horrible, mean, abelist transphobe and her values and views were incompatible with being the Chair of said organisation.

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