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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Hate crimes against men

89 replies

Frankenterfer · 16/10/2018 07:30

Thought this was interesting.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-45870948

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howard97A · 16/10/2018 17:46

Criminalising 'dislike' on any basis = creating thought crime

The hate is not a crime in itself. If there is a 'hate' element in the perpetrator's motivation, the prosecutor can ask for a 'sentence uplift' which is an increased punishment for the crime.

Gronky · 16/10/2018 17:51

Regarding those having difficulty imagining, who entirely dispute the possibility of or who minimise misandric hate crime (or potential ones in countries without those laws on the books) I would like to point out that we are at the same disadvantage that men have when trying to understand misogynistic hate crime: we don't directly experience it and we're (generally) good people.

By the latter, I mean that (I'm generalising here but I think it's fair) the majority of people here aren't planning or have experience in committing misandric hate crimes. I don't believe the two happen at the same rate but I do still believe both happen.

I also find it (saddeningly) interesting where the demarcation is being made between a hate crime and one facilitated by demographic differences. For example, a robber might be more likely to target women because they're, on average, physically weaker and more likely to carry valuables in an easily accessible hand bag (I'm not saying all women carry hand bags and all men don't but, I think it's a fair generalisation to say that those carrying hand bags, large purses ect. are more likely to be women) but that doesn't make their robberies a misogynistic hate crime.

ErrolTheDragon · 16/10/2018 17:52

I've only skimmed the thread, dont think anyone has linked to the perhaps more sensible coverage in The Times

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/ageism-and-misogyny-could-be-made-hate-crimes-zvv0005mj?shareToken=2369fa93744e92bc2954f42a4bfa4c34

bluetitsaretits · 16/10/2018 17:54

I think I see what you mean assassinated -it's about it being a motive rather than the actual crime. Still feels uncomfortably close to 'thought policing' to me though.

Gronky · 16/10/2018 17:54

Burgling a home and leaving a steaming turd on the bed is a hate crime.

I feel it's an unpleasant thing to do (and a crime), leaving it with a gender/racial/religious slur scrawled on the wall would make it a hate crime. To me, the significance of a hate crime is that it overtly targets a characteristic over which the victim has no control. This seems to me to be incredibly psychologically damaging.

AssassinatedBeauty · 16/10/2018 17:59

Gronky I can't see how that would ever make it a hate crime? If it's just opportunity, and there were no aggravating characteristics based on the victim's sex?

I think it is absurd to suggest that misandry is a hidden epidemic, that it happens regularly or needs specific legislation to reduce it. I think that any legislation to address misogyny would have to be based on sex as a protected characteristic, which would mean that hatred of men could also come under that category. I think that actual examples would be vanishingly rare.

Gronky · 16/10/2018 18:06

I can't see how that would ever make it a hate crime? If it's just opportunity, and there were no aggravating characteristics based on the victim's sex?

Sorry if that part wasn't clear, the part about that occurring in tandem with an unpleasant message specifically highlighting an innate characteristic about the victim is what would make it a hate crime to me.

I think that any legislation to address misogyny would have to be based on sex as a protected characteristic

I fully agree, again, sorry for being unclear. I also believe that any legislation should be equal in defining sex as a protected characteristic rather than specifically legislating against misogyny or misandry. I wouldn't go so far as to call it a 'hidden epidemic' but I would venture that it's likely under reported, considering the same rate of under reporting for domestic violence where men are the victim. On the other hand, as I mentioned earlier, I'm not able to comment on it in fine detail since I will, by definition, never directly experience it and (hopefully) will never be involved in its commission .

AssassinatedBeauty · 16/10/2018 18:13

I was referring to the comment about targeting women for muggings, but cross posted.

QuentinWinters · 16/10/2018 18:17

the significance of a hate crime is that it overtly targets a characteristic over which the victim has no control. This seems to me to be incredibly psychologically damaging
Yes gronky
So in the case of misogynistic hate crime, catcalling women on the basis a man decides he likes her boobs, or rubbing against her are a just because he can, or raping her because she is wearing a skirt and he fancied it would all meet your definition.
And yes it is psychologically damaging to women to be subjected to this kind if thing on an ongoing basis and never to know whether the man you are alone with is as decent as he seems or whether he might sexually assault you. Or whether when you go out you look nice or are going to encourage handsy men like flies to honey. Or whether if you dare to go fora run some random driver is going to make you feel ashamed by shouting "fat slag" out of his van, just because he finds it amusing to pass judgment on women who dare to be out in public.

Hopefully you get misogynistic crime now.

Gronky · 16/10/2018 19:04

I was referring to the comment about targeting women for muggings, but cross posted.

Again I must apologise for being unclear, I was saying that wouldn't meet the definition of a hate crime.

So in the case of misogynistic hate crime, catcalling women on the basis a man decides he likes her boobs, or rubbing against her are a just because he can, or raping her because she is wearing a skirt and he fancied it would all meet your definition

Certainly, if having a particular type or size of breast, wearing a particular skirt or being obese (in your last example) becomes defined as a protected characteristic, those would be hate crimes. They are still crimes (though you'd likely be hard pressed to secure a prosecution for the final one, I'm not a solicitor so I couldn't comment professionally), they're just not currently hate crimes under current or proposed legislation.

Gronky · 16/10/2018 19:05

I suppose I should have said a protected characteristic but I was already worrying about being too wordy.

QuentinWinters · 16/10/2018 19:13

You are just being deliberately obtuse now. Can't argue with stupid.

Gronky · 16/10/2018 19:20

QuentinWinters, I'm very sorry that you attribute cognitive limitations to anyone who doesn't precisely obey and fall into line with your personal views on a particular issue. Your life must be very hard.

LassWiADelicateAir · 16/10/2018 19:36

I think it is absurd to suggest that misandry is a hidden epidemic, that it happens regularly or needs specific legislation to reduce it. I think that any legislation to address misogyny would have to be based on sex as a protected characteristic, which would mean that hatred of men could also come under that category. I think that actual examples would be vanishingly rare

If misogyny is made a hate crime then logically misandry must too. I agree examples will be rare.

The only real life example I can think of was a rather horrid older woman I used to work with who behaved appallingly to young male trainees. Although her behaviour was already covered by existing law on assault and sexual assault- as are most of the examples given by Quentin.

Cat calling could be dealt with under general public disorder/harassment where offensive or aggressive language or behaviour is used, without it being made a "hate crime".

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