yes I agree men are vulnerable but the toxic masculinity comes from men, so are you suggesting a man telling another man to 'man up' should be treated as a hate incident.
I was (I quote) told by a female team leader that "I think you just need to man up a bit" when I was in my early 20s. I had challenged her on the way she would demean/snidely put me down in front of the three female colleagues who comprised the rest of our sales pod.
Sorry , I meant harm caused directly by someone else's negative attitudes to a specific group .
Ok, I'm probably a little off topic as this thread is about literal hate crimes, but the idea that "boys don't cry" etc is a negative attitude to a specific group. Every time people go to watch a film like Magic Mike or similar it's contributing to the stereotype that men should be big, strong, tough, manly, etc.
Women seem to love the super masculine Tom Hardy type from my observations which is why we currently have a huge epidemic of steroid use amongst young men (many of whom create irreversible physical and psychological damage - gynomastia (manboobs) and mood imbalances caused by elevated oestrogen etc).