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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lib Dems choose trans rights over Fair Play for Women

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Thethiniceofanewday · 19/09/2018 20:42

  • Young Liberals tweet a photo of a Fair Play for Women leaflet being put in the bin, commenting "Putting transphobia in the bin where it belongs @fairplaywomen . Spreading this vile discrimination at Lib Dem conference, a place where we 100% fully support trans rights, is a disgrace."
  • Lib Dems LGBT+ account tweets that 'female' is a misogynist term and shouldn't be used.
  • Sarah Brown tweets "I have never felt so accepted and supported as a trans person, and as a woman, than at this Lib Dem conference. Feels like lots of people have realised how bad the abuse is and have really come out for us, for all of us."

For those who don't know Sarah, she's the TRA who told a woman to suck on her pickled formaldehyde balls.

Also at conference, it is announced that Sarah has been nominated for the Women Lib Dems Patsy Calton award. The award is given to a "woman in the party who has been nominated by her peers for the outstanding contribution they have made. The award is meant to showcase the obstacles that women have overcome, and their journey to get them to where they are now."

So that's the Greens, the Lib Dems and Labour all fully on board the trans train. Who am I supposed to vote for?

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FatherBuzzCagney · 20/09/2018 13:54

Here you go Richard www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cambridgeshire-44047135

The Cambridge Lib Dems have had some interesting councillors over the years: Sarah 'pickled balls' Brown, Fifeboy, the man who jumped/was booted over some obscure row about whether saying the council should build family housing was homophobic, and the councillor (who sadly died earlier this year) who made the Telegraph in 2009 for obstructing an ambulence that was trying to reach an injured man and was once thrown off a train by police for having a tantrum when asked to move his bike. Labour councillors and the single Green tend to be more boring.

TerfsUp · 20/09/2018 13:55

"Are the Lib Dems able to offer a home to disaffected women voters?

No. What a ridiculous question.

Treats · 20/09/2018 13:56

Jo and Layla Moran are the two women to lobby tbh. If either of them are serious about standing for the leadership, then their opinions on this issue will be very influential in the party. Important to make sure they get the full story from the GC point of view because they’re both “trans women are women” at the moment but i’m not sure if that’s a considered view after hearing both sides.

FatherBuzzCagney · 20/09/2018 14:01

Sorry, wrong link there www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/4448433/Councillor-blocked-ambulance-carrying-injured-man-as-it-broke-driving-by-laws.html

Spanner, completely agree with you about the comment as evidence of Brown's socialisation as a man, and her attitude generally smacks of male privilege. I read those comments too, and took them at face value until she made a return to Cambridge political life (or I started noticing her again), at which point it became obvious that her behaviour had been entirely typical for her rather than an abberation.

TerfsUp · 20/09/2018 14:15

The Lib Dems certainly have form.

Carrrotsandcauliflower · 20/09/2018 14:24

Up thread- about them grabbing at “female” let em grab, we don’t need men to agree with what we wanna keep or not keep. I’m keeping woman, girl, female I’m keeping all of it, my definitions descriptions, pronouns ALL of it.

RichardLongcross · 20/09/2018 14:25

Crikey Father! Certainly makes my local council look dull in comparison.

HeresAnotherNameChange · 20/09/2018 17:01

I don’t actually live in this ward, but I live near. I can confirm what FatherBuzzCagney says. The local Lib Dem’s are completely and utterly Batshit and seeped in misogyny . All of them. The fact that anybody votes for them reflects extremely badly on Cambridge and the surrounding area.

WrongOnTInternet · 20/09/2018 18:14

To be honest, I lost all respect for the Lib Dems long before trans rights, before they ended the coalition. It was when I saw a news report about one of their conferences, wherein something along the lines of the following was said: they could never ask the middle class to vote for policies that would mean their children would actually have to compete with the lower classes and potentially lose out. Way to support nepotism and entrenched advantage. It's a shame as I actually liked Nick Clegg and I still think he's a loss.

theOtherPamAyres · 20/09/2018 20:17

There's an interesting piece of information about the proportion of women members in each party.

I would say it's out of date since the publication of the recommendations of the Parliamentary Committee on Transgender Equality.

Lib Dems choose trans rights over Fair Play for Women
HeresAnotherNameChange · 20/09/2018 20:22

WrongOnTInternet

Doesn’t surprise me in the slightest. Again my local Lib Dem’s are generally further up the social scale than even the local tories and give far, far less of a shit about the people at the bottom of the pile than they do.

Thethiniceofanewday · 20/09/2018 20:59

Pot/kettle Caplin

I knew Patsy Calton and volunteered alongside her daughter.

So your sweeping generalisation that I don't know the people I'm referring to is in itself a sweeping generalisation.

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Thethiniceofanewday · 20/09/2018 21:02

Spanner I agree with you 100%. Gender-critical women are often told they can suck a trans-cock or get kicked in the cunt. Just proves to me that you can put a woman-hating misogynst in a dress, or a t-shirt that says 'I punch TERFs' but it's still a woman-hating misogynist.

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theOtherPamAyres · 20/09/2018 22:33

The Lib Dems are very succesful at winning local council elections in my neck of the woods. It's what keeps their supporters and activists going and motivated.

2019 is the big year for council elections, with thousands of seats up for grabs. There will be particular focus on those councils where no single party has control. Canvassing will start softly around February and accelerate towards May.

Actually, one has already started canvassing in this ward. He delivered a "newsletter" to me this week, telling me how great he was. I'm going to email him - "not only will I not vote for your party, but I will tell everyone in this neighbourhood to vote for your nearest rival. You are the anti-women and children party as far as I'm concerned".

GColdtimer · 02/10/2018 14:36

Late to this thread but wanted to call out to @treats to say I have not had a sensible word to of Layla Moran on this. This is my latest email to her. I sent it nearly a month ago and no response.

Dear Layla,

Thank you for your email. However, you have not answered a couple of questions I have asked before. Additionally with the latest news about Karen White, I have a couple more questions that I feel is pertinent to the LibDem view that “trans women are women”.

  1. Setting aside the GRA consultation for a moment, if you are of the belief that Trans Women are Women, could you please tell me how you define trans? Do you agree with the Stonewall definition? If so, do you agree that cross dressing men and those who get sexual kicks from being a women are women, if they identify as such? It is estimated that around 80% of trans women have no surgery at all, their right to access women’s spaces is based simply on how they feel and their demand that women go along with them. Do you think all of those who identity as women are women, regardless of any kind of gender dysphoria or medical diagnosis? If you don’t agree with the stonewall definition than can you please define “trans”. I feel this is a crucial point. Please could you answer.
  1. If there is a concern, as you state, about violent trans identifying men being housed alongside women in prisons (like Karen White), why are you not concerned about violent trans identifying men being allowed in other female spaces too such as hostels, hospital wards, dormitories, refuges, toilets and changing rooms? We do still have some sex based protections under the EA although they are become eroded as organisations so fearful of being labelled as transphobic are using gender rather than sex.

I welcome you assertion that prisons need to be looked at. However, I do not think you can hold both of these views:

a) Transwomen are always women. No question, no challenge, no dissent.
b) Some transwomen should be treated differently

These two positions are incompatible. Jess Phillips is trying to walk this line and is tying herself up in knots.

Apparently Karen White had abused and/or raped women and children at a women's jail, a mixed sex psychiatric ward, a bail hostel. If sex, not gender had been used in any of the places where vulnerable women were housed then there would not have been a problem.

Other questions I have asked numerous times and not had a response to:

  1. What is your view on the girl guiding association completely ignoring NSPCC advice (although the NSPCC ignore their own advice too) that for safe guarding, privacy and dignity reasons there should be segregation based on sex (not gender) after the age of 10. How about the NSPCCs refusal to answer any questions about safeguarding in relation to their advice and stance being trans inclusive with no questions asked? Do you think a teenage girl has a right NOT to have to share a shower block or a tent with boy, regardless of how he identifies? Do you think that teenage girls parents should be told their daughter is sharing with a boy? How can parents give informed consent if they are not in possession of the facts. How do you feel about the fact some girls will be discriminated against by this policy.

  2. Do you agree with your colleague Sarah Brown that women like me, and groups like A Womans Place are hate filled bigots (as she tweets about constantly).

I have every sympathy for people struggling with their identity and believe they have the right to live free from discrimination and judgement. I am very Liberal and have been all of my life. However, I am also a feminist and gender critical and believe gender is a social construct and that there is something about the rhetoric that is damaging and takes women back 50 years in terms of stereotypes. I think there is a small number of people with gender dysphoria (and women have been living side by side with this group of people for years with no drama). However there are too many people like this trans women on Twitter who said she would like to "direct a porn shoot with two beautiful trans woman and one lucky cis women" in reaction to someone saying she didn’t want to see a penis in a changing room. twitter.com/ZJemptv/status/1038338917177720833.

In all honestly I am aghast that any women supports self ID.Surely there can be no justification when the safety, privacy and dignity of women and children are at stake. As a mother, women and science teacher Layla I can only think that this is a political stance for you, rather than a personal one. Its such a shame that the strong women in politics at the moment are not actually standing up for women.

At the moment I am in a quandary and feel politically homeless as do many women. If you look at threads on Mumsnet, on Twitter and the comments on some of the latest articles written by a small number of very brave journalists on this you will find many, many women agree. You may find your party starts to have more and more questions of this nature and more push back on the TWAW stance.

Finally, can I ask if you, or someone from your party, would agree to meet with A woman’s Place or Fair Play for Women to discuss some of these concerns face to face? To show you are really listening to women’s groups.

Thank you
Tracy

Ps - this is an excellent article from a gay man who thinks Stonewall is out of touch: medium.com/@JonnnyBest/calling-all-gay-men-women-need-you-to-speak-up-please-read-this-9df277ecb59e

Redshoeblueshoe · 02/10/2018 15:06

Jonny was on here the other day, I think it was on one of the Leeds threads

Treats · 02/10/2018 21:56

I’m disappointed you haven’t had a response twofalls - I’d hope for better from Layla.

I’ve been quite disturbed to find the extent to which normally sensible people in the party are completely refusing to engage on this issue. I wouldn’t be surprised to find that Layla is just following the party line without giving it much thought, because opposiviews are simply not allowed.

What I would say is that while it’s a topic that some members are absolutely fanatical about, it’s not widespread- most people have no idea what all this is about. The tide might start to change once more activists start getting push back on the doorstep.

GColdtimer · 02/10/2018 23:55

Layla responded with party line and when I pushed her (with emailed below) she just ignored me. There are no answers. As a woman, mother and science teacher she knows that really.

RepealtheGRA · 03/10/2018 08:42

twofalls

Good letter. Thank you for sending it.

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