Makes me question whether these men genuinely don't understand why safeguarding procedure have to be in place, they understand but their hurt feelings trump everything or if they want to reduce safety for children?
This is rage inducing.
Dh is the nicest, least threatening person in the world. He is no threat whatsoever to any child and yet he understands that the rules are not a personal slur to him, but are there because men as a class are more dangerous and therefore he abides by them. ditto public loos, and all other areas where men are excluded. he is aware enough to not see it as any threat or insult to him as an individual
The mind boggles as to why any man would challenge such rules. They are either incredibly self centred, too dim to understand why the rules are there or an active danger. None of those options are good.