Really significant article including an incredibly brave and important letter , please do read it and share it:
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"What about the risk of alienating women who may already be reluctant to have the potentially life-saving test?
What about the women who won’t necessarily know that they are ‘people with a cervix’ and so might not come forward?
Cancer Research has accepted losing responses from women, that will impact lives and health, as collateral damage for protecting the feelings of the transgender community.
Yesterday June, a mother of two young children, saw the Cancer Research campaign. This morning she wrote this:
My mum was born in 1950, failed her 11 plus and went to work in a lampshade factory age 14.
By the time I was about 6 I used to spell out my school absent notes for her.
With hindsight, I suppose she was dyslexic but, well, that definitely wasn’t a term she would’ve been familiar with.
She had enough trouble writing ‘stomach ache’ without me there to help.
I can’t say for sure if she’d have realised ‘people with a cervix’ was aimed at her or not.
I’d ask her, but I can’t.
She’s dead.
My mum died at 54 of what her own mum would’ve cheerfully referred to as ‘women’s problems’.
If only my mum had had enough brains to realise all those stomach aches were her cancerous ovaries killing her from the inside.
So, if some of y’all ‘can’t see the problem’ with Cancer Research UK’s new wording, please take a moment to think of my mum, and how I once stood in a hospital room, alone but for the nurse holding me upright, so that I could hold her unconscious hand and wait until she died.
It took about an hour.
And please take a moment to think about how I’ve been a motherless daughter since my 20s.
Maybe if we all take a moment to think about women like my mum, women who don’t have the cognitive or language abilities that we do, maybe cancers will be caught earlier, and maybe lives will be saved.
This is why being able to talk about our female bodies, in clear, non academic language matters.
This is why being able to request a female-bodied person for an intimate medical examination matters.
And this is why women like me, sometimes, want to spend time with other women like me. Only women like me.
It’s been more than 14 years since my mother died.
I really, really, miss her." (continues)
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