Trans identified males are very overrepresented in IT.
Social media is like Second Life, someone trying to seem like what they are not can cosplay 100% of the time, and even sockpuppet different characters to give themselves fake friends and even fake enemies. For men looking for women or children to groom and/or abuse, SM has given them access to victimise like never before, and the ability to cultivate a community of abusers to help them and manipulate the situation. And social media is a manipulators dream - tone policing and false 'facts' and claims of being denied existence etc are much harder to convInce people with in real life face to face communication.
The thing is the trans activists might know how to manipulate people and a story online but most people don't live online. Even among those who use social media a lot, most are still aware that there is a difference between what we say and how we present ourselves on social media, and the actual reality.
Trans activists are taking advantage of politicians and companies naivety of how this all works to manipulate the situation, make themselves look like victims, make their victims look like oppressors, make themselves and their support look bigger and more important than they really are, present fiction as fact etc. This could never have happened if social media wasn't being lauded as the voice of the people and more important than investigative journalism, quality research by qualified people, and real life facts.
But the TAs can't actually control real life, so I think one of the most useful things we can all so is talk about this all offline, face to face, make as many people aware as possible. Most people do not know this is happening and a single element of trans ideology and practice is often enough to horrify them - whether that is sterilising kids, pretending that a woman is anyone who says they are a woman, putting men who have committed sex offences in women's prisons, banning people (usually women) from speaking if they don't agree that males can be female, the issue of fetishes like sissification and autogynephilia, etc. In my experience most people out in offline space peak trans quickly over any single one of these.