Woman have always been used to "civilise" men and male cultures. That's why women were sent to the American West and the colonies. Once women have children they are forced to start regularising society in order to provide those children with the best opportunity to survive.
It's not a new idea, and I suppose you could argue it worked on a macro-scale, not necessarily to the benefit of women.
The idea of using women to control individual men by providing them with ready access to sex isn't new either. It's until recently, the law didn't recognise rape within marriage.
The answer to incrls and the like isn't to throw women at them, like a fire blanket over flames, but work out what the real problem is.
And the real problem isn't sex. The real problem is a subset of young men who believe they have been cheated of access to privileges their maleness entitles them to.
Because women, particularly young and beautiful women, have always been a commodity, incels are really complaining about a perceived loss of patriarchal entitlements, as embodied in women and girls.