"I don’t think that’s what’s being asked. What’s being asked is that men acknowledge the issue, and are open to talking about the issues that spring from it. Such as how every power structure is set up to benefit men. And they acknowledge that even non violent men benefit from it"
The discussion here is starting to sound awfully like "white fragility" theory, except with "male" in place of "white".
For those that don't know, white fragility argues that racism isn't something people do, it's something that white people are - automatically, by default they are racist.
The argument is that western society was built via slavery, colonialism and exploitation of other races. The white people of the West got rich and that wealth continues to trickle down and benefit whites today, as do the legacy structures and systems in place.
White people are privileged and better positioned to suceed via their inheritance of this wealth/systems. Therefore by inheriting these systems and not questioning the structures or their history then they are automatically racist.
Telling white people they are unconsciously and automatically racist and their shock/surprise at this news is the "fragility" aspect.
Their denials are proof of their guilt.
We saw this play out when Munroe Bergdorf made the comments that got her sacked from Loreal, how very similar her line about the white race being the most violent on earth is the the line I quoted a few posts above! ""White males kill, torture, and abuse, more than any other demographic.""
She then went on the BBC and complained about having to defend her opinion vs the "facts and figures" used to counter her claims by Andrew Neill and the other "middle aged white men" of the panel (Ed Balls and Michael Portillo. "My lived experience > your facts and figures" she complained! Just let that sink in for a moment.
White fragility theory is utterly racist. It's also totally orwellian - using someones denials as proof of their guilt.