SarahCarer So if they are immune to gender it seems even more strange that they should start to develop a GI that is in conflict with their sex? They can see that they are the same sex as (same sexed) people around them yet they build a narrative that they are not the same? But yes it does indicate a strong social element. There is a strong social element to all aspects of identity as we have agreed. When that identity starts to contradict physical sex - I think something more than just socialisation is going on. Hence the biopsychosocial model.
Sorry if this is oversimplistic - obviously I don't have your knowledge and experience in the area of ASD.
they can see that others FEEL their gender
Yes and despite that they develop a GI that is contrary not only to their sex, but to these
messages they are receiving from others?
They then receive the transgender narratives from people they know and through social media and, particularly if they are undiagnosed, as so many girls are, they think they have the answer that explains the difference.
Yes I can see that this could explain why some some ASD children, particularly with social media/ media, can end up going down the route of thinking GID is an explanation for what they are experiencing. I am also open to the idea that for some ASD individuals there is an underpinning neurological issue that can affect all three impairments and GI. It could also be possible that the three impairments interfere with the development of 'normal' GI and leads to confusion. In some cases this entirely social interference with GI may not actually be typical GID but some other variant specific to ASD individuals.
I agree this greater awareness could lead more young people to seek treatment - especially more likely for children with ASD as they are more vulnerable. The director of the clinic appears very aware of this:
Woman's Hour Interview: There is greater knowledge about specialist gender clinics and the pathways into them, and an increased awareness of the possibilities around physical treatments for young adolescents.
The rise of social media also plays a part as it sponsors a fast developing shared language around gender identity and expression.
I don't think that negates the need for treatment for some people and I don't think it negates the development of GID (as in a GI conflicting with their physical sex) in all children with ASD. I agree it does complicate it though.
I am hypothesising (and I'm wondering why the hell the experts aren't)
I think a lot are exploring, debating and researching it. But you are referring to a subset of what is already an extremely small number ie. 2000 referrals out of the whole country to the clinic. According to ASD magazine:
Between 8 and 10 percent of children and adolescents seen at gender clinics around the world meet the diagnostic criteria for autism
I appreciate not all end up as referrals to the clinic. In part due to the work you have done with your own family. I admire you hugely and it is even more reason why your story should be out there as a role model and to encourage alternative considerations.