You seem to be confused as to whether these are attractive and successful men or completely thick as pig shit bell ends with horrific attitudes. For clarity it's the successful bit that makes them attractive alone.
The men in this case are not even objectively that attractive. I am absolutely sure that were they window cleaners without access to VIP parties.etc they would be much less the "top shaggers" they claim. Why does being a successful sportsman make you more attractive btw ? Is it a shared love of rugby ?
An earlier poster said that the idea women lavish attention on these types of men, despite their obvious failings as human beings - was a myth, that these meetings were presumably circumstantial. I can only imagine she is not serious.
I don't know the reason for this, women do not get judged by on how successful they are relative to other women, men will find a McDonald's worker just as sexy as a top lawyer.
It would be fantastic if when this type of horrific thing happens women would avoid rugger types or sundry other successful but otherwise entirely unremarkable sportsmen. But that's not going to happen is it?
Men do judge this behaviour whether you think they should or not. No self respecting man is going to want a girlfriend who spent much of her youth hanging about posh bars hoping to meet and fuck d list celebs sorry to say.