If you want to keep it short and sweet ask her if she agree that policies and law shouldn't enable more violence. I don't see how she can respond in any other way than agree. Then go on to say that women have spotted some flaws in the proposed legal changes that will do just that.
You can forward onto her a briefing document with the details (that one of her offsiders can research). Emphasise that the other countries have safeguards in place that manage those risks appropriately. But what is being proposed in the UK doesn't.
Refer her to the fact that some members of the medical profession (ref BMJ article) plus Psychiatrists are asking for prudence until statistically valid research has been conducted (the so called evidence presented to date is not statistically valid). They are saying err on the side of caution - especially with children under 18.
That 86% of TIMs don't intend to get rid off their penises.
The Target research (statically valid and the only longitudinal study to date) that saw a 300% increase in sex offences after the introduction of Gender Recognition Policies in its stores.
That it's frankly naive to assume that some men won't use the legislation to get access to women's facilities for their own violent and sexual ends, as the prison service has experience of in the last couple of years e.g. Ian Huntley
Also that most vocal of TRAs don't represent the trans community, many of whom respect women and know they are not women and do not demand women to give up their single sex spaces for their benefit.
That the behaviour of some TRAs is antisocial and unreasonable and what they say in public is not what they say in private - as demonstrated by "India" Willoughby and Heather Peto - both of whom display behaviours that are bullying to women.
Give her evidence and keep it short and sweet.
If you want more here's a great summary from reddit that references a recent article:
In our bid to become wholly inclusive of everyone, we’ve stopped rationally, logically, or critically thinking about things.
If transwomen were women, then men wouldn’t need to undergo all the bodily changes and hormone treatments to better reflect the sex they wish to emulate.
If a man doesn’t have the requisite biology needed to make him a woman, is there anything that can make him so, aside from fervent declarations? Frankly, the answer is no. A man can adopt behaviours and activities traditionally associated with women, but it won’t make him one.
The ‘born in the wrong body’ approach is some metaphysical nonsense too, we are not some thing inserted into a body to inhabit, we are our body, and there is nothing wrong with the body nature has given us. Biological men that present typically feminine behaviours are not people in need of correction, nor is the inverse true. Using outmoded gender stereotypes as justification and reasoning for trying to alter sex presentation is damaging to men and women.
There is some devious distortion of language when the ‘misgendering is an act of violence’ card is played, this is quite an insulting use of the word and demeans those who have faced real violence - the trans people who have been assaulted for being trans, women who are domestically abused, gays and lesbians attacked for simply being gay, or anyone else the victim of horrific and violent acts.
The idea that transwomen are women erodes the bedrock of womanhood and the very real differences between the sexes. Biological males are now encroaching what were traditionally women-only spaces, and if women aren’t comfortable with this, they’re simply bigoted, or in needed of Orwellian ‘re-education’ (See Labour’s Lily Madigan and their approach to re-educating Muslims).
Let us not erase the beauty of womanhood by comparing women to surgically enhanced men. That is not to say trans individuals should be thought of as lesser people, or be deserving of unfavourable treatment, or afforded less respect simply because they’re trans, but let’s not disrespect women by pretending their biology isn’t an important part of womanhood and the basis of their oppression. We should be fighting against stereotypical gender assumptions, not using them as the basis for surgery, puberty blockers, and sterilisation.
Well said and summarised
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