DonkeySkin
I completely agree that most TIMs display huge levels of masculinity.
I deliberately didn't clarify my post further. Partly, because actually I do believe there is a rejection of toxic masculinity in gender dysphoria.
And only from what I have read online of people who have detransitioned or, alternatively are just very self-aware.
And I will clarify that by saying I think it's a very small number.
But the reason I mentioned it at all is because of those people, I do think it's very useful to make others understand that gender dysphoria is a rejection of something, rather than identification with something else.
You're not born in the wrong body. I.e. the unwanted option of two.
You're born in a body you don't want.
It's a subtle, but crucial difference.
But I'm interested to hear your thoughts.
The other reason why I said compassion is necessary, is it's far more difficult to argue with a position of empathy than it is enmity.
And brings it back to less of a disagreement with an ideology and more of an understanding of a disorder.
Because at the moment, transitioning because you have gender dyaphoria is a dot in the distance of the list of reasons to transition.
Which is completely counter to why the legislation was written in the first place.