ChattyLion
I couldn't get through that Peter Tatchell link because it's so male, male, MALE.
Maintaining the only reason women don't want men in their spaces is in case they are attacked. And they're going to be attacked anyway, so what's the difference, buster?
Only a man could ever imagine a woman would feel zero discomfort from a non-predatory male.
It's infuriating that his absence of experience informs his opinion. Despite being told, numerous times, by women, that their experience of life is completely different to his.
He doesn't take into account men's sense of entitlement. They don't have to be predatory. They can be as benign as you like. They still take over. Manspreading and manplaining are universal experiences.
And it doesn't matter if the man in question is the most empathetic, sweetest person in the world. Women's attitudes to men do not rely on each, single experience as and when it happens ffs.
I don't want to get changed in the same room as my father-in-law. Who wouldn't hurt a fly. Or my son's best friend, whom I adore.
What really, really rams this all home is quite how many men are utterly oblivious to women's oppression.
The very fact that they argue against, firstly, so very many women all saying the same, and secondly over their bloody boundaries is enough for them to have creep stamped across their forehead before they even formulate the end of their sentence.
This linguistic masturbation over why women shouldn't have boundaries angers me almost more than anything else.
Ignorance, arrogance and a neon fucking light above their head blinking 'I'M CLUELESS'.