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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Just when you thought it could get any more FUCKING MENTAL....

83 replies

MercyMyJewels · 16/03/2017 21:03

We are asked, do you ever get weirdly conscious of your labia?

medium.com/athena-talks/do-you-ever-get-weirdly-conscious-of-your-labia-893f8b680aeb#.mfywyybir

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Datun · 17/03/2017 10:12

Yeah, it has it horrible double whammy dichotomy to it.

It obsesses and reveres women's biology to what feels like a violating degree. Which then makes you feel like you have to actively play down and denigrate your own biology to counter the whole 'celebration'.

To me at least, it really muddies the waters over the fact that women are disadvantaged by their biology.

ShotgunNotDoingThePans · 17/03/2017 10:14

But even the 'reverence' feels like a weirdly detached lip-service: 'oh, respec to the cis - hey ho, glad it's not me.'

MercyMyJewels · 17/03/2017 10:16

That Youtube link. WTF?

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Bundesliga · 17/03/2017 10:18

Datun
Yes, exactly.

I think it is the deconstruction and disembodiment of woman that is so disturbing. In that regard it is almost a type of mental violence - disembodied deconstructed women. The ultimate objectification.

QuentinSummers · 17/03/2017 10:23

Eeewww. Did anyone watch the "lesbian sex with a transgender woman". So creepy. So creepy. Going on about how young her "really good friend" is. I really feel for the poor young lesbian. Ugh

Elendon · 17/03/2017 10:26

And the OMG! so many products to choose from! If you were undergoing GRS you may wanted to have known this beforehand? Or you may have bought some Tampax for your partner when you were a man?

AnyFucker · 17/03/2017 10:26

Read the first link. Utterly grim. It makes my skin crawl. And Elendon you sound like one of those brain dead transmaidens in the comments section. For God's sake, think.

Datun · 17/03/2017 10:28

Bundesliga

God yes! That is a brilliant way of describing it.

Another reason why the whole 'solidarity' of women and transwomen that some feminists like to push, leaves such a sour taste. We're not the same, and even when they drill right down into what it means to be a woman and display some kind of unity, it comes across as creepy as fuck.

I don't know if having gender dysphoria precludes people from having AGP, but I do know it's highly prevalent. From reading websites, if you have hormone treatment, it lessens the sexual compulsion. Which is something at least.

AnyFucker · 17/03/2017 10:29

Actually, Elendon, have I read your 9:47 post wrong ? It's deeply sarcastic right ? Tell me it's so.

Elendon · 17/03/2017 10:37

The 'lesbian sex with a transgender woman' is hilarious. 'G Spot'? Get outta here! I'm beginning to wonder if this is satire?

Elendon · 17/03/2017 10:39

Of course! AF.

Elendon · 17/03/2017 10:42

Also the multiple orgasms. I'm sorry. This is satire.

Datun · 17/03/2017 10:42

Where is the 'lesbian sex with a transwoman'?

QuentinSummers · 17/03/2017 10:46

Same person as the tampon video datun so it was in youtube
I couldn't watch it all, I'm obviously too prudish. Listening to her tell this girl about how trans vaginas aren't stretchy was too much for me [sick emoji]

QuentinSummers · 17/03/2017 10:49
QuentinSummers · 17/03/2017 10:50

Tried again. Still creeped out.

MercyMyJewels · 17/03/2017 10:53

LOL Elendon & AnyFucker

But we can't tell what is satire anymore because this is all so ludicrous

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Datun · 17/03/2017 10:59

I would give good money to see whether or not that young lesbian showed up on a video after having decided to possibly take the plunge.

finagler · 17/03/2017 11:04

that video is gross

BeyondUnderthinking · 17/03/2017 11:12

"Weirdly conscious of labia" is definitely the description of a medical problem in my world - childbirth injury, bartholin cyst or prolapse. Having a) been in possession of my own labia since before birth and b) had all three of those

Choc, either you have told that story before, or I know someone else who has Bain Marie'd their boobs?! Grin

Em Flowers

AnyFucker · 17/03/2017 11:12

Sorry, Elendon. Knee jerk got the best of me there. Flowers

AnyFucker · 17/03/2017 11:13

remembers again why I mainly swerve trans stuff

CharlieSierra · 17/03/2017 12:16

WHAT THE FUCK! I need brain bleach after watching that video. Your vagina is different because IT'S NOT A VAGINA!!!! You like being penetrated because it's your fetish!!! And how utterly fucked up to involve a young lesbian in the delusion. Sick. I'm so over this. #PeaktransXinfinity

Mrsmorton · 17/03/2017 18:07

A flexible pelvis..? not routinely, no.

Wow, I just don't get it. Pity the young lesbians who think this is inevitable and are being marginalised and discriminated against.

GuardianLions · 17/03/2017 18:21

I am tempted to watch some of those video links but think it might be wiser if I don't. ...