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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Brighton libfems attempting to ban women from wearing pussy hats on Trump demo

126 replies

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 30/01/2017 16:22

It's too vaginacentric apparently Hmm

In case the thread hasn't been deleted by the time you see this, it's here

'Ooffii Hardwick
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Message from the organisers: Our intention is to make this march intersectional and inclusive for all. For that reason we respectfully request that people ensure that their signs and apparel reflect that. We ask that you do not wear pussy hats or carry "pussy power" placards. The vagina centric theme of the Womens' Marches was offensive and entirely exclusive of our trans sisters. Genitalia does not equal gender. Whilst we understand people's desire to fight back and react to Donald Trump's horrendous misogyny, we believe the best way to do this is to fight together and for each other in a space where no one feels unwelcome, and where those spaces do not exist for us to be the ones to forge them.'

There are some very pissed off feminists in Brighton now, judging by the thread.
It's meant to be a demo in support of Muslims against Trump's racist immigration policies so I am not sure why anyone would be carrying a vagina placard anyway, but not being allowed to wear the hats seems a bit extreme.

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DioneTheDiabolist · 30/01/2017 17:49

Thanks for clearing that up Countess.Smile

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 30/01/2017 17:52
Smile

They'll be starting in a few minutes - I hope it goes well, pussy hats or not.

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Elendon · 30/01/2017 18:32

This thread reminds me of many threads on mumsnet where a poster gets an anonymous letter, usually about the state of their front garden or a parking issue. The response is usually to dig in with rude gnomes and to never give in when it comes to parking.

I'm going to the Trump march and I will be wearing my pussy hat along with vulva brooch. I do not live anywhere near Brighton.

Am I safe? bizzare question

Elendon · 30/01/2017 18:38

Oh and state of their front garden has nothing to do with pubic shaving by the way, which most libfems do.

Elendon · 30/01/2017 18:47

Ignore me. Hope the march went well.

Seems that it isn't a women's march though. Perhaps the men are embarrassed by all the pussy hats.

MissMrsMsXX · 30/01/2017 18:58

I think all women should turn up as massive dickheads....

HelenDenver · 30/01/2017 19:01

Grrr! Aargh!

Gallavich · 30/01/2017 19:02

It's heartening to see that even Brighton right on lefties think this is bollocks

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 30/01/2017 19:21

There are about 500 posts on FB discussing the issue. Suzanne Wells is a journalist who is supposed to be writing up the Brighton march and has posted that at this rate her article is going to have to focus on the massive derail caused by the attempted censorship of a march against fascism (I know, I know). She pointed out it would appear in the press. I nearly popped up and told her that Mumsnet is fascinated, but it seemed a bit mean. She also wanted to know if any of the other marches in other towns were issuing instructions as to what should be worn. Sounds a bit fed up, and who can blame her.

Quite a lot of people are having misgivings about even attending. Some women are saying that if their vagina isn't welcome they aren't coming, with others defiantly insisting that they're coming, pussy hat and all.

I recommend you have a read of the long, long thread. I have developed quite a crush on someone called Sophia Ponderosa.

shinynewusername · 30/01/2017 19:27

My favourite response is the WEP representative eagerly reassuring everyone that they put men's feelings first.

Brighton libfems attempting to ban women from wearing pussy hats on Trump demo
QueenLaBeefah · 30/01/2017 19:30

The WEP never miss an opportunity to put men at the centre of everything.

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 30/01/2017 19:38

The WEP are a waste of time. Theirs and everyone else's.

CocoaX · 30/01/2017 19:39

WTAF? It is a march against racism and oppression as carried out by a sexist, misogynist. Why on earth has it become about trans people? I mean, seriously, the Women's march was about being seen through a sexual lens, being reduced to sexual objects because we have breasts and vaginas.

The trans complaints seem to erase women's biology completely and make it all about their lack of it.

Who is silencing women the most? Biological women are half the world's population. They are half the population in the countries affected by Trump. Yet pointing this out is excluded from a march for freedom.

The basis of liberty is freedom of movement, freedom of expression, freedom of religion, surely also freedom of dress, freedom of signage, freedom to disagree and not be excluded.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 30/01/2017 19:39

Yes, WEP eagerly assuring everyone they don't like those horrid pussy hats either seems a bit unfortunate for a political party that presumably actually wants people to support it.

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HelenDenver · 30/01/2017 19:40

If I March with a Pussy hat it is because I have a pussy. It cannot be deduced from that what my views on trans are, any more than my views on cats could be deduced by my wearing a picture of my dog on a t shirt.

MrsTerryPratchett · 30/01/2017 19:41

And I'm absolutely sure Trump will start on LGBT rights very soon. And the marches for that will need numbers too. The left needs to unite. This nitpicking right-on Top Trumps is really stupid.

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 30/01/2017 19:45

Reading the hundreds of posts on FB what struck me was that the idea that pussy hats were transphobic was mostly being trotted out by young women. They probably see themselves as allies. It's depressing. No feminist principles, just a lot of SJW bullshit about how TW are the most oppressed group there is.

Let them grow up, have just one tiny little baby, and then they'll see just how oppressed women still are. Grin

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 30/01/2017 20:19

Yes Prawn.
In contrast I was pleasantly surprised by how supportive some of the blokes were.
I imagine it being the older ones, don't know if that's right - I have certainly never seen self-righteous misogyny from older men like you get from young social justice warrior types.

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Prawnofthepatriarchy · 30/01/2017 20:29

I've seen young men using claims of transphobia to be vile to women. Men have nothing to lose. If they were being asked to allow bigger, very much stronger and potentially sexually aggressive people in their showers they might be less enthusiastic.

Twogoats · 30/01/2017 20:39

These things are a gift though, as they will help educate more people about why some feminists have a problem with some aspects of the trans community

rumblingDMexploitingbstds · 30/01/2017 21:08

Sometimes I toy idly with the idea that millions of women need to band together and announce that they are identifying as men.

They'll wear exactly what they usually do, and do exactly what they usually do - after all, they're expanding the bandwidth of manhood - however equal pay must be coughed up immediately. And naturally they will be using all men's changing rooms and toilets.

shinynewusername · 30/01/2017 21:09

I agree twogoats. Most women are still oblivious to the trans craziness and think it is still about a few vulnerable gay guys who have reassignment surgery. Every time the craziness rears its head in public, more women hit peak trans.

NotAPuffin · 30/01/2017 21:19

DH reckons everyone should wear dickhead hats. Anyone got a pattern?

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 30/01/2017 21:27

Sounds quite fun, NotaPuffin, until you consider that our opponents could justifiably call it a march by dickheads. Grin

DeviTheGaelet · 30/01/2017 21:29

And I'm absolutely sure Trump will start on LGBT rights very soon. And the marches for that will need numbers too. The left needs to unite. This nitpicking right-on Top Trumps is really stupid
Yes x100
Getting really fed up of it and the "white feminist" insult that appears t9 have replaced TERF.
While we argue about the correct way to do feminism and protest, there's no credible opposition and the facists are getting on with destroying the world Sad

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