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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Hi, can anyone help me to define this sexual encounter please?

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thatshowasuperherolearnstofly · 26/01/2017 18:38

Two friends, male and female go out for a drink as they have done many times in the past.

Female gets drunk much more quickly than usual, due to medical issue.

Female says she needs to get the train home. Male pretends to phone national rail enquiries and says all trains cancelled so she'll have to stay at his house.

Female checks herself and trains are running, her friend lied about them being cancelled.

It is late and the journey home will take over an hour and she will be on her own. Male convinces female to have another drink and get the last train home. Female accepts of her own free will.

Male then spends some time convincing female to just come back to his house and sleep in his spare room.

Female, very drunk at this point and worried about long journey home agrees.

On way back to males house in taxi male kisses female. Female responds. Female has sex with male using a condom, she is enthusiastic and wants to do this.

Female then tries to go to sleep. Male wants to have sex again. Male says there are no condoms. Female doesn't want to have unprotected sex, no discussion takes place as male having sex with female before she realises what he is doing (bear in mind she is still very drunk).

Once this has finished female starts falling asleep. Male turns female over and when she asks what he's doing he replies: "going again" to which she responds with a clear no. Male leaves female alone.

Female falls asleep/passes out. What happens next is unknown.

Just wondered how others would define this situation?

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thatshowasuperherolearnstofly · 27/01/2017 20:09

Thanks for your contributions everyone.

Untilthecowscomehome - I'm sorry to hear of your experiences :(

If you want to talk please PM me.

I was 36 when the wheels came off and I suddenly got struck down with depression for 'no reason'.

So much has come out since I've started looking at my past in therapy (I have a massive tendency to dissociate from anything traumatic). It's painful but I do believe it's worthwhile.

I hope you can get some help too.

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PinkIsRad · 27/01/2017 21:29

The first one is a difficult one. He clearly had the sole intention of not actually helping but just fucking. However the girl appears to have been up for that.

Second one sounds like clear rape, for one there was no ability to give consent ("before she realises what he is doing"), much less actually saying no to sex without a condom.

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