Thank you too, OP, for starting this thread. Here are my musings (I started that survey but balked at the god-bothering questions which didn't allow me to opt out of answering them).
I too am a long time lurker, and have been drawn here to Feminism Chat by the trans threads. I've been horrified about the reality of trans ideology on women, the gender prison and the homophobia inherent in it.
I never took much notice of feminist theory at uni (many years ago...!), but did and do practice feminism. Having read these pages voraciously, and associated links such as the Reddit Gender Critical page, I realise that I'm a hardcore (!) radical feminist. I'm the only person I know who doesn't shave my legs for example, and openly wears shorts in summer. I think of my hairy legs as feminine because they are natural. I think of shaving as women trying to look like pre-pubescent girls. I do find it peculiar that so many progressive people choose to shave. I think it's about courage, although people come out with weak statements about how 'I do it for meee!'
So things that I thought were regressive and anti-feminist are actually liberal feminist! Who would have thought. Here I was, thinking that high heels and pole dancing was anti-feminist, and being a bit puzzled as to why orthodox Marxists I knew were doing it...
It makes me feel really sad and quite revolted that close friends of mine did a massive u-turn at uni and became BDSM kinky, and what I now know as liberal feminists. Before this they were critical of the sex industry, running campaigns against it. I feel awful that while I was campaigning against sexual torture and rape of women in war zones at uni, they may have been coming along to talks to collect ideas for their bedroom antics. Ugh.
Anyway, thanks to all the women here for your inspiration and hard work. 
At least now I know that my discomfort has a home, and that there is a community of unreconstructed (is that word being used in the right context?) second wave feminists. I've read a bit of the Female Eunuch for the first time and every bit of it speaks to me. I also read Sheila Jeffreys' Gender Hurts and it was brilliant.