Barefoot - Have you asked clients what they think? Reading online punting forums gives you a very limited pool of clients to base your judgements on and, admittedly, they aren't a shining example in a lot of cases!
Fortunately, it's only a small percentage of clients that tend to post online... and many of their posts should be taken with a pinch of salt. Men do speak to each other about women in a pretty vulgar and 'male-bravado' type of way sometimes (sex work related or not) and it can make for grim reading when it's down in black and white instead of banter in a pub corner.
Many other posts on those forums are made by fantasists who've never even met a sex worker, or men who truly resent the women in this industry (of which, there are many). So believe me, most sex workers hate those forums just as much as you do.
I can't defend all clients as being sweet, lovely and respectful. I only wanted to point out that they are not inherently awful just because they pay for sex. They're a varied bunch, like any other collection of people, and most of them are pretty normal guys who just need a bit of sex and affection.
Also, the 'wanksock' comment in my last post was meant in a light-hearted way. I honestly wasn't attempting to twist your words.