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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Should she have worn a dress?

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LunaMay · 02/03/2016 06:44

I know im a bit late and sorry if this has been asked but....

Just that really? Why does making 'an effort' automatically mean wearing a dress anyway? I love her jacket..

thefix.ninemsn.com.au/2016/03/02/15/03/jesinta-campbell-clashes-with-reporter-who-says-mad-max-oscar-winner-should-put-on-a-dress

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BarefootAcrossHotLegoPieces · 03/03/2016 16:39

"She deserved to get the Oscar, and went dressed as herself, what could be more admirable than that."

Well put!

BarefootAcrossHotLegoPieces · 03/03/2016 16:42

I remember that sarah Millican thing. It was horrible. Like I said upthread, better to be criticised for lack of effort (in fact, I'm sure she gave a fair bit of thought to how she wanted to look, given her job!) than for being fat/old/ugly orvwhatefer.

HPsauciness · 03/03/2016 19:19

www.shrimptoncouture.com/blogs/curate/12611485-every-best-actress-oscar-dress-our-way

This link shows all the outfits worn by best female Oscar winners, and amongst the usual glamour frocks, are suits, a jumpsuit, trousers and quite a few everyday dresses.

Don't ask if there is a male equivalent, I'm sure there isn't!

Yambrel · 03/03/2016 19:39

She's talented, she's happy, she's comfortable in her own skin. I envy her.

I think less of the people (mostly men) who didn't clap, surely they were supposed to be acknowledging her talent not her looks.

And yes, if she'd made a massive effort it would have looked as though she was upset by what Stephen Fry said and she would have been criticised for that.

Cellardoor1 · 03/03/2016 21:01

Id rather be comfortable than feel ill at ease the whole night wearing something that I knew didn't suit me. I do think she could have gone a bit more formal in line with the dress code but she didn't deserve the contemptuous looks she was getting from some of the men. It was like they were shocked/angry that a woman dared to dress for herself and not so she can be ogled and rated by men. Innaritu was the worst, he seems like an arsehole tbh.

I didn't see Pharells outfit this year but did think that the shorts looked stupid and didn't meet the definition of the dress code. He was a nominee that year though so probably had a bit more leeway. The same as Jenny beavan this year I guess.

PosieReturningParker · 03/03/2016 21:10

A man dressed the same would've have been celebrated for his "unique style".

BertrandRussell · 03/03/2016 21:22

Misogyny? Nonsense-no such thing. Women and men are judged by exactly the same standards. In fact, now I think about it, men have it slightly worse than women do...........

PosieReturningParker · 03/03/2016 21:32

You know I love you Bertrand BlushBlushBlush

BertrandRussell · 03/03/2016 21:48

Glad someone does, posie. It's been a bad day on mumsnet, feminist-wise!

PosieReturningParker · 03/03/2016 21:59

You're consistently truthful, it's appreciated and recognised.

lorelei9 · 03/03/2016 23:42

Some posters have mentioned Innarito in particular....he's released his own Vine to show he was clapping. I do think a three second clip to condemn the original batch of men is a bit short.
www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/films/news/oscars-2016-alejandro-gonz-lez-i-rritu-has-proof-he-did-applaud-jenny-beavan-a6909411.html

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