I like the Leonard Cohen video, Astra, miles away from the Maroon 5 video though.
I mean one's clearly about consensual sex (and even conveys that message at the end) whilst the other is about a stalker who fantasises about sneaking into a woman's appartment whilst she's asleep and having blood-soaked sex and also likes hugging slabs of meats hanging from a basement ceiling.
Miles apart.
Also I'm glad your teenage boy wouldn't be affected by this but the debate IMO isn't really so much about the direct influence of videos like M5s on individuals.
It's about the normalisation of sexual violence in our society facilitating a minority of men to carry sick fantasy into real life, making all women afraid.
It's about us being asked to identify with the stalker in this video, to see it through his eyes and not through the eyes of the woman (the LC video woman clearly has agency, is enjoying herself and is free to leave at any time)
It's about the chilling message to women that if we have no control over who watches us, over their fantasies about us, and the only thing that stops their fantasy becoming our reality is their goodwill and what they think is acceptable to carry out. Which is why media like this is damaging : it slowly alters the mainstream to make sexual violence more acceptable in the minds of such people. Like I said it facilitates.