I don't use any softer at all
The DM is worse than dangerous - it is amoral, pandering to the cheap buck at all cost, cynical drivel. That sadly seems to have a huge market.
I sometimes despair at humankind having got as far as it has when its ability to look beyond the headline is clearly a bit limited at times.
Then again, look at the result of recent elections and critical thinking seems to be a thin on the ground in other respects too…
Anyhoo, I digress, softeners, they can be bad for your skin, dontcha know.
The victims of this most recent shooting deserve nothing but our sympathy and respect (and that includes those who loved the shooter). It might be interesting to 'study' the shooter to learn how to spot his kind earlier.
How on earth the 'right to bear arms' in an constitutional amendment that was designed to allow a new country to raise an army without the say-so of a monarch translated into 'everybody and their dog has a right to owning an arsenal of weapons' I will never understand. That the gun lobby have a huge interesting in keeping it like that is easier to understand.
And wrt to how horrible some girls can be: I presume they can be just as horrible as some boys, non?
How many mass shootings have been carried out by young, disenfranchised females because they felt rejected by somebody they fancied?
I'd really like to know…
I peg my washing out the garden for that softener smell btw. Oh wait, softeners I trying to mimic the smell I get from pegging out the washing in my garden 