There is another thread going on that has become totally derailed by this argument.
Someone posted quite early on something about men getting weirder and a man spent the next 3 days centring the thread on himself. He should be allowed to discuss it. He can emphasis with the terror that wakes a 12 year old girl in the night because he knows women. He is allowed to be offended etc. Not all men...
All of these things may be true (apart from the knowing women is the same as being a woman) but making it all about him, his feelings, his experiences etc is ridiculous.