TheDoctrineOfSnatch
Sorry, my internets broke and I lost 9/10 of my post.
I'm sure DSK doesn't hate his wife. I'm sure he sees the various other women that he has abused, as "other" and he doesn't care about the damage he does to them.That is a misogynistic way to behave which involves acts of hatred against women, women who I suspect DSK considers to be his social inferiors as well as his gender inferiors.
I don't think we can easily look at one example - particularly such a high-profile example - and either use it as an exemplar or achieve any real understanding of behaviour from it. Not that I wouldn't be fascinated to read a psychologist's report of him.
I suspect that he is a narcissist, much like most major politicians. If he is, then I wouldn't class his behaviour as misogyny because he treats everyone like that, not just women. Yes, he has sex with lots of women, but he also treats men just as badly. That doesn't make him a misogynist, it makes him a narcissist.
I suspect that the case of systematic, state-supported (if not mandated) rape (such as the Soviet armies, and more recently in the African wars) is a very different thing to the sort of behaviour we see from people like DSK.