"Of course if you compare like with like, it's easier to be a straight white male."
Exactly.
People who want to deny sex inequality, invariably don't compare like with like though. They always say "how can you say that a white western woman is less privileged than a rickshaw driver in India?"
When what they should be comparing, is the rickshaw driver with his wife/ daughter/ mother/ sister. Just by being a man, he's better off than any of those, all other things being equal.
And the white woman in the west, just by being a woman, is not as well off as her brother/ father/ husband/ son, all other things being equal.
No-one who doesn't want to "get it" about equality, ever makes like with like comparisons.