I don't think there are 10 key points.
There's only one AFAICS - because throughout recorded history, men have wanted to maintain control and power over women so that they could have better lives than them and feel themselves superior to at least one other person in the world.
They have been able to do so, purely and simply because women are on average smaller and less physically strong than men, so they can exert violence against us if we don't toe the line (and frequently do). Also part of the same species, kinship groups and communities, oppressed women have interests that are genuinely bound together with those of their oppressors, uniquely for any oppressed group.
Oppressors have always used fellow-feeling "we're all in this together" rhetoric to convince the people they oppress, that they're not really oppressing them, they're all on the same side (so if you can get the worker in the field or factory, to identify with the squire or the industrialist because they're English, French or whatever, more than with the worker who speaks a different language in a different country, who is being oppressed by a squire or an industrialist just like the one who is oppressing you except that he speaks French, then you can persuade them to kill each other in industrial quantities instead of killing you. Patriotism was invented for just this purpose.)
Women otoh, have genuine crossover interests with men - we have children, families, communities and values in common. So it is much harder for women to identify their oppression and much harder for men to recognise when they are being oppressive - particularly when that oppression is hard-wired into people's culture, psyche and lifestyle. And it is also much harder and more complex, to overthrow - in a sense, it would have been easy for the working classes to simply execute all the capitalist industrialists had there been a revolution (as Stalin attempted and as the French revolutionaries attempted). Women could just steal down to the kitchen in the night on an appointed date and murder all the men we live with, but we don't, because we don't want to because we love them. Uniquely, the group that is oppressed, loves the group that oppresses it, invests in it and shares DNA with it. And of course, the oppressers love the oppressed back. That makes the overthrow of that oppression, much more complex than with any other oppressed group IMO because sorting out what is systemic oppression and what is just two people organising their private lives, is so much harder to spot.
Everything else is HOW, IMO.