Kind of AIBU

[alphamummy]

To find the following saying revolting and vile. and not know how to challenge this kind of attitude?

"Smash her back door in" seen on fb was liked my one of my female friends.

[bronze]

googled
celebrity juice if you want to put a complaint in
the whole program is pretty vile and Holly and Ferne are both obviously " being compliant in order to be accepted in the gang."

[AyeRobot]

"Kicking" in a door implies that the door was shut and locked in the first place, doesn't it?

That phrase is everywhere on the net.

[AnnVeronica]

I saw two people on fb yesterday who commented along the lines of, 'oh, now PW's married KM he can kick her back door in!' They were women. One is the mother of 4 daughters. I'm just horrified.

[SueSylvesterforPM]

This reminds of a status a girl posted (we were like 18) on fb

'just had a right sesh, lets just say the back door was unlocked ;)'

it doesnt sound as abusive,

(but pretty cringey)

[StatelyPoshBeartrothal]

do people really use this language? And there is a TV programme about it

[SlightlyScrambled]

I'd defriend them straight away.
But this is the first time I've heard the expression too. I must lead a very sheltered life.

Most people don't notice being de-friended (is that even a word?) so don't worry Pixie.
I deleted my fb account a couple of months ago and only 1 person emailed me about it since.

[aliceliddell]

Speechless. Just fucking speechless.