'dressed by Dad' is the phrase used in our house. I don't know what goes on in dh's head but am very glad ds is now seven and more in control of what he wears. Dh seems to be unable to tell which clothes actually fit - have had days where I've come home to discover ds in far-too-small tops and far-too-large trousers, or swimming shorts (with no pants) and a jumper, or completely clashing colours and patterns.
Worst thing is, dh keeps attempting to buy clothes for ds, and ALWAYS buys then at least two sizes too big. He's got it into his head that ds is tall. This is true. But he is seven - it may be worth trying age eight, but not age 10, fgs.
The he goes round to his Mum's and brings home some of his nephew's old clothes for ds. Which are always at least size 'four years older than ds is'. And not my cup of tea, either. WHY does dh not realise 'Oh, I've never seen ds in clothes featuring Marvel comics characters before, I wonder why that is?'
Apart from that, yes, men are perfectly capable of housework and childcare. 