Evil - DH and I are developing a theory. He keeps telling me he is so sorry that he's not experiencing the discomfort of pregnancy with me. But we've realised it's a blessing he isn't because as a result he's doing even more than he usually does and is generally looking after me even more than normal - cooking, cleaning, cat-feeding, endless cups of tea....
So our theory is that nature knows women find pregnancy hard so men are supposed to be all strong and hardcore. Sadly, most men think it's just because women are pathetic and that they can continue to swan around assuming that pregnancy and parenthood is mostly the woman's responsibility.
I am thankful for DH and his attitude every single day.