Morning all, I have just been watching the BBC news, and in particular a story about the horror of painful hysteroscopy procedures.
This story really hit a nerve with me and I felt compelled to connect with others who have been through this.
Back in 2014 I was about to embark on my IVF journey when a scan revealed suspected polyps in my uterus. I was referred for a Hysteroscopy. I was told that it would be very straightforward and I wouldn’t feel any pain but it might feel a little discomfort.
My experience was quite the opposite.
It was the most painful thing I have ever had to go through (and I have been through child birth). Like the lady on the news said, it did feel like a form of torture. I remember gritting my teeth through the entire thing and squeezing the nurse’s hand so hard she had to ask me to stop. I was close to passing out with the pain.
At no point was I told that stopping the procedure was an option. In my head I knew this had to happen in order for me to have a chance of having my own child. I was desperate and would do anything to make that happen. I guessed I assumed this was the normal way to feel during the procedure so I accepted it and fought on.
I do not accept what the consultant on the news was saying. She calmly said that patients can ask for their procedures to be stopped at anytime. Clearly she has no idea what women in these positions are going through. I endured the pain because I felt I had no choice. This is what I had to do to have a chance of baby. St at no time did the consultant performing the operation recognise I was in pain and ask if I wanted to stop. This aside, I shouldn’t have had to endure that horrendous pain. A simple anaesthetic would have taken the pain away.
Women are already going through enough mental anguish, worry and anxiety for many reasons when they attend for a Hysteroscopy. They don’t need the added physical trauma this procedure inflicts, especially when it can be so avoidable.
I remember being taken to the recovery room. My husband came in and I just burst into tears.
I made a complaint to the hospital. The feedback was that during the procedure I could have asked for it to be stopped. I was so angry.
This was 10 years ago but this story has really struck a nerve with me. I can’t believe that this is still happening to women ten years on. Are we still living in the dark ages? Just horrible. ☹️