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Words/phrases you have seen in books that you have never heard a real life person say

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OneUmberJoker · 17/12/2025 17:01

Little high little low - stuart little

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CaseClosedWineOpened · 02/07/2026 12:05

echt · 31/05/2026 02:12

Not so much a word as an action, where a character, invariably a man, usually a detective runs their fingers through their hair in bafflement, frustration, etc.

Never ever seen this in real life.

Disclaimer: not to be confused with shampoo ads where women shake out their tresses and do a bit of finger running.

I have a friend who does that action. He isn’t a detective, but he does it when he’s thinking about the answer to a difficult question or trying to solve a problem.

TorroFerney · 02/07/2026 12:36

Not in a book so forgive me but I’ve just seen the phrase “cin cin” written on a bar in Croatia and commented to my husband that’s fallen out of fashion as an alternative to cheers. It’s a bit Terry Thomas I think. I’m going to try and bring it back.

RubyEspadrilles · 02/07/2026 14:48

TorroFerney · 02/07/2026 12:36

Not in a book so forgive me but I’ve just seen the phrase “cin cin” written on a bar in Croatia and commented to my husband that’s fallen out of fashion as an alternative to cheers. It’s a bit Terry Thomas I think. I’m going to try and bring it back.

I thought it was chin chin, but just looked it up and see we write chin chin in English but other languages write cin cin but say it chin chin. It sounds so English, I thought it was something to do with lifting your glass up to your chin, I never knew it was actually Italian! I wonder if it has anything to do with cinzano?

NotMyRealAccount · 02/07/2026 17:06

RubyEspadrilles · 02/07/2026 14:48

I thought it was chin chin, but just looked it up and see we write chin chin in English but other languages write cin cin but say it chin chin. It sounds so English, I thought it was something to do with lifting your glass up to your chin, I never knew it was actually Italian! I wonder if it has anything to do with cinzano?

I first saw it on a social media post alongside a photo of someone raising a glass, and thought it was an ironic "chin up, darling" in the manner of those really annoying status updates where people post photos of themselves on a sunbed with, "It's a hard life but someone has to do it."

NotMyRealAccount · 02/07/2026 17:11

cheapskatemum · 20/06/2026 00:08

Just read the mild insult “Twerp” in a book & realised I haven’t heard anyone say it since my childhood (DDad in particular).

By coincidence, I heard it IRL for the first time in ages a few days ago when my sister was telling me about a small irritating man in her workplace and we got into a discussion about the distinction between a twerp and a wee nyaff.

cheapskatemum · 02/07/2026 18:55

@NotMyRealAccountfortunately DH is Glaswegian. So I was able to ask him about wee nyaffs. From what he says, a wee nyaff is waaaaay worse than a twerp!

cheapskatemum · 02/07/2026 18:59

SaffySaffron · 02/07/2026 11:44

Someone (different book) has just told her friend that she's incorrigible. I think I'll try saying it and see what reaction I get.

Were they pupils at Malory Towers? St Clairs?

SaffySaffron · 02/07/2026 20:05

cheapskatemum · 02/07/2026 18:59

Were they pupils at Malory Towers? St Clairs?

No! A chick lit easy read throwaway novel. I've lost count of the number of books I read where it's used. I swear authors write phrases down when they read other books and replicate it in their own.

JohnBullshit · 06/07/2026 13:31

Going back to a pp's mention of demurring, I was surprised at the number of people who thought DEMUR was an obscure Wordle solution a few days ago. Perhaps because we don't say it in real life, but I see a lot of fictional demurring, usually in the past tense. I didn't like to say that I got it quite easily.

Silverbirchleaf · 06/07/2026 17:46

RubyEspadrilles · 02/07/2026 14:48

I thought it was chin chin, but just looked it up and see we write chin chin in English but other languages write cin cin but say it chin chin. It sounds so English, I thought it was something to do with lifting your glass up to your chin, I never knew it was actually Italian! I wonder if it has anything to do with cinzano?

I was at a town fayre at the weekend, and a cocktail bar was called ‘Chin Chin’. Immediately thought of this thread!

JaneJeffer · 06/07/2026 17:56

I watched an episode of DNA Journey the other night and John Simm used Chin Chin as his toast. We’re going to notice it everywhere now aren’t we?!

TautouRose · 09/07/2026 18:18

RubyEspadrilles · 02/07/2026 14:48

I thought it was chin chin, but just looked it up and see we write chin chin in English but other languages write cin cin but say it chin chin. It sounds so English, I thought it was something to do with lifting your glass up to your chin, I never knew it was actually Italian! I wonder if it has anything to do with cinzano?

I'd heard that cinzano is 100 years (so it means good health and long life essentially[, but that doesn't actually track with actual Italian words :D

TorroFerney · 11/07/2026 12:07

TautouRose · 09/07/2026 18:18

I'd heard that cinzano is 100 years (so it means good health and long life essentially[, but that doesn't actually track with actual Italian words :D

Yes I also thought it was English but an internet search suggests Italian but based on a Chinese phrase qing qing which means please or I invite you.

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