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On toughness - toughest writers of all time?

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WhisperTree · 11/08/2024 16:38

With a view to adding to my TBR pile, I've been trying to think of the toughest, least sentimental female authors of all time, with an emphasis on midcentury to the present day.

The names which keep coming to mind are North Americans and Continental Europeans. I must have a blindspot for these fair isles, which must surely have their own tradition of stylistic toughness.

Help me out, please?

Who are some of the toughest, least sentimental British fiction and non-fiction writers - the ones who might be criticised as e.g. "cold", "heartless" etc because their style leaves space for the reader to feel their own feels

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LaDrache · 13/08/2024 23:15

I’d like to put in a word for Sybille Bedford (1911–2006). She was born in Germany and spent her formative years there and in France and Italy, but she is considered to be an English writer. Travelogue, fiction, non-fiction, biography (Huxley), and memoir. A very interesting woman and an excellent writer.

A Visit to Don Otavio (on Mexico)
A Legacy
Jigsaw
A Favourite of the Gods
A Compass Error
Quicksands (memoir)

This profile by Selina Hastings, her biographer, gives a good overview.
https://rsliterature.org/fellows/sybille-bedford/

I’m not quite sure that I understand “tough” in this context, but if “unsentimental” is a virtue, then I’ll echo previous mentions of Anita Brookner, who wrote – exquisitely – with a scalpel.

Bedford, Sybille - Royal Society of Literature

Sybille Bedford was a sternly disciplined novelist and travel writer. Many of her works are partly autobiographical. A Legacy, Bedford’s second book and first novel, was published in 1956 and was described by Francis King as ‘one of the great books of...

https://rsliterature.org/fellows/sybille-bedford

Readingallthetime · 13/08/2024 23:22

I agree with the slightly left field suggestion of Daphne du Maurier, I think she's definitely unsentimental especially books such as The Scapegoat.

Also maybe Sarah Moss eg Ghost Wall?

And I absolutely adore Elizabeth Taylor.

For a philosophical style how about Ali Smith? However I haven't yet read her so don't know for sure if she is unsentimental.

Ooh and Deborah Levy!!!! Love her!!!!

Readingallthetime · 13/08/2024 23:27

Another - Scarlett Thomas. I loved her recent book The Sleepwalkers.

Meadowwild · 13/08/2024 23:39

I don't quite get your definition @WhisperTree . I've always thought leaving space for the reader to have their own feelings was a sign of subtlety in a writer, not cold heartlessness.

I've always found PD James a bit cold. Val McDermid is not cosy Grin
For literary writers, I agree that Fay Weldon is fairly emotionally cool. She Devil is glorious but not in any way sympathetic. Edna O'Brien is magnificent - I think of her as astute not cold. The Red Chairs is a jaw-droppingly tough read.

I find Kate Atkinson quite chilly. When Will There Be Good News is a powerful novel, but she kills off a baby or a family on almost every page at the beginning.

I love Jane Gardam and think she is massively underrated. A bit old fashioned now and very no-nonsense (sort of - He went to boarding school aged four because his parents were in Malay - so what? Get over it) but her work is incredibly moving because she just lays the characters and their situations out for you and never tries to cajole you into feeling something specific about them.

Meadowwild · 13/08/2024 23:42

Readingallthetime · 13/08/2024 23:22

I agree with the slightly left field suggestion of Daphne du Maurier, I think she's definitely unsentimental especially books such as The Scapegoat.

Also maybe Sarah Moss eg Ghost Wall?

And I absolutely adore Elizabeth Taylor.

For a philosophical style how about Ali Smith? However I haven't yet read her so don't know for sure if she is unsentimental.

Ooh and Deborah Levy!!!! Love her!!!!

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That's interesting. I find Deborah Levy a very warm writer. Very humane and passionate and emotional (good things imo.) Never sentimental, never over written or forcing the reader into cheer or optimism. Tough as in strong, certainly but not cold or heartless. The opposite.

Meadowwild · 13/08/2024 23:44

Sarah Waters? Has anyone mentioned her? The Little Stranger and Fingerposts?

Ali Smith is a good call, up thread. I find her work a bit cold.

LaDrache · 14/08/2024 00:44

Meadowwild · 13/08/2024 23:39

I don't quite get your definition @WhisperTree . I've always thought leaving space for the reader to have their own feelings was a sign of subtlety in a writer, not cold heartlessness.

I've always found PD James a bit cold. Val McDermid is not cosy Grin
For literary writers, I agree that Fay Weldon is fairly emotionally cool. She Devil is glorious but not in any way sympathetic. Edna O'Brien is magnificent - I think of her as astute not cold. The Red Chairs is a jaw-droppingly tough read.

I find Kate Atkinson quite chilly. When Will There Be Good News is a powerful novel, but she kills off a baby or a family on almost every page at the beginning.

I love Jane Gardam and think she is massively underrated. A bit old fashioned now and very no-nonsense (sort of - He went to boarding school aged four because his parents were in Malay - so what? Get over it) but her work is incredibly moving because she just lays the characters and their situations out for you and never tries to cajole you into feeling something specific about them.

Jane Gardam is wonderful.

Readingallthetime · 14/08/2024 08:09

Meadowwild · 13/08/2024 23:42

That's interesting. I find Deborah Levy a very warm writer. Very humane and passionate and emotional (good things imo.) Never sentimental, never over written or forcing the reader into cheer or optimism. Tough as in strong, certainly but not cold or heartless. The opposite.

Yes I agree there and definitely don't want to accuse her of being cold!! but I was thinking of the 'leaving space to work out your feelings aspect' and not being overly sentimental. That's what I meant about all the writers I mentioned.

ETA I saw Deborah Levy talk in Bristol once and she's so wonderful.

TonTonMacoute · 14/08/2024 12:48

tobee · 13/08/2024 22:35

Did anyone say Jean Rhys? Good Morning Midnight an amazing book.

Jean Rhys! How could I have forgotten one of my favourites as a teenager.

Which reminds me of another favourite at that time Antonia White's series of autobiographical novels, Frost in May is the first one.

(you are going to be busy OP)

WhisperTree · 14/08/2024 18:52

VosgesViper · 13/08/2024 16:54

She shuttled around without a home for years (I mean, she wasn’t couch surfing or in a tent, she was teaching at US universities for a semester or two, staying with friends in Ireland and the UK, living in Rome to research a book), then settled in Hythe in Kent for the last few years of her life. She died in London of lung cancer in 1973 and is buried next to her husband near the site of Bowenscourt in north Cork. There’s a Bowen lecture in the little church there annually. I hope you enjoy her work.

Has anyone said Jane Austen? She always strikes me as very morally tough-minded. She knows love without enough to live on won’t work, she knows love and money are inextricably linked for women who have no independent means, and as a flipside to Jane and Lizzy Bennet managing to marry rich men for love, she gives us Charlotte Lucas marrying Mr Collins so as not to be a dependent spinster at home, and doesn’t condemn her for it. She thinks the ghastly Aunt Norris would have been a better poor mother of many than Mrs Price, and that Mrs Price and Lady Bertram are different only in their financial circumstances, and that Mrs Price’s marriage for love was a disaster.

Thanks so much for sharing these insights into Elizabeth Bowen's life @VosgesViper That does not sound like an easy ride at all. I can't wait to get hold of some of her physical books. I'm having a reaction against my Kindle right now.

Although I'm all over Austen, in general, the time window excludes her for my specific purposes.

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WhisperTree · 14/08/2024 19:00

VeryQuaintIrene · 13/08/2024 20:05

Sylvia Townsend Warner.

Stella Gibbons - Cold Comfort Farm skewers a certain type of English pastoral soppiness.

LOVE CCF @VeryQuaintIrene I mean, LOVE.

As for Warner, she looks absolutely fascinating. Thanks so much for introducing me to her.🤗

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WhisperTree · 14/08/2024 19:07

TheMarzipanDildo · 13/08/2024 18:56

I love Rebecca West’s journalism. Very, very witty, even when still a teenager.

I’ve been meaning to read the Yugoslavia book for ages.

I'll have to check out this Chairman Clift as she's quoting T S Eliot...

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WhisperTree · 14/08/2024 19:11

JaninaDuszejko · 13/08/2024 20:36

Another vote for the incomparable Beryl Bainbridge.

Also, have a look at the slightly dated threads, there's definitely a strong thread of realism to a lot of mid century women writers. Even someone like Nancy Mitford, who ostensibly wrote comedies, had a streak of darkness through her novels. Or Barbara Pym, light comedic novels but so many spinsters leading small lives.

Has anyone said Anita Brookner yet?

OMG why hasn't anyone mentioned Brookner yet? What an oversight. Tough as.

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WhisperTree · 14/08/2024 19:14

tobee · 13/08/2024 22:36

Although Jean Rhys is Domenican-British

As we've been including Anglo-Irish female authors of that time period, why not Anglo-Dominican? She's amazing.

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WhisperTree · 14/08/2024 19:19

LaDrache · 13/08/2024 23:15

I’d like to put in a word for Sybille Bedford (1911–2006). She was born in Germany and spent her formative years there and in France and Italy, but she is considered to be an English writer. Travelogue, fiction, non-fiction, biography (Huxley), and memoir. A very interesting woman and an excellent writer.

A Visit to Don Otavio (on Mexico)
A Legacy
Jigsaw
A Favourite of the Gods
A Compass Error
Quicksands (memoir)

This profile by Selina Hastings, her biographer, gives a good overview.
https://rsliterature.org/fellows/sybille-bedford/

I’m not quite sure that I understand “tough” in this context, but if “unsentimental” is a virtue, then I’ll echo previous mentions of Anita Brookner, who wrote – exquisitely – with a scalpel.

Someone completely new to explore. Thank you @LaDrache Duly noted.
I'd say 'tough' and 'unsentimental' are synonyms, eh?
Re Brookner, I concur.

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WhisperTree · 14/08/2024 19:28

Meadowwild · 13/08/2024 23:39

I don't quite get your definition @WhisperTree . I've always thought leaving space for the reader to have their own feelings was a sign of subtlety in a writer, not cold heartlessness.

I've always found PD James a bit cold. Val McDermid is not cosy Grin
For literary writers, I agree that Fay Weldon is fairly emotionally cool. She Devil is glorious but not in any way sympathetic. Edna O'Brien is magnificent - I think of her as astute not cold. The Red Chairs is a jaw-droppingly tough read.

I find Kate Atkinson quite chilly. When Will There Be Good News is a powerful novel, but she kills off a baby or a family on almost every page at the beginning.

I love Jane Gardam and think she is massively underrated. A bit old fashioned now and very no-nonsense (sort of - He went to boarding school aged four because his parents were in Malay - so what? Get over it) but her work is incredibly moving because she just lays the characters and their situations out for you and never tries to cajole you into feeling something specific about them.

Oh no I agree with you, @Meadowwild that a tough, unsentimental, 'non-nonsense' style is not the same as an author herself having a cold heart / lack of warm feeling.
You nail it where you say Gardam "just lays the characters and their situations out for you and never tries to cajole you into feeling something specific about them." That.

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WhisperTree · 14/08/2024 19:30

TonTonMacoute · 14/08/2024 12:48

Jean Rhys! How could I have forgotten one of my favourites as a teenager.

Which reminds me of another favourite at that time Antonia White's series of autobiographical novels, Frost in May is the first one.

(you are going to be busy OP)

Antonia White! Forgotten until now - how?? I'm going to have to make a primary and secondary list, or I'll just get overwhelmed with all the toughness 😅

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WhisperTree · 14/08/2024 19:32

Meadowwild · 13/08/2024 23:42

That's interesting. I find Deborah Levy a very warm writer. Very humane and passionate and emotional (good things imo.) Never sentimental, never over written or forcing the reader into cheer or optimism. Tough as in strong, certainly but not cold or heartless. The opposite.

I adore (ADORE) Levy (have read most of her novels), and I'm not sure I'd file her style under tough. More...gooey. Shimmering. Vulnerable. Mutable. Fluid. Skinless.
In a good way. But not what I'm after RN.

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Kornvallmo · 14/08/2024 22:16

I was just reminded of Elizabeth Jane Howard (1923-2014); I think there might be some toughness there OP. Her mother was a dancer with the Ballets Russes, her first husband the son of Captain Scott, whom she left to become a novelist. She had affairs with half of London, sold millions of books and her 3rd husband was Kingsley Amis, for goodness' sake.

Niminy · 16/08/2024 12:10

I know she's Irish, not even anglo-Irish, and lived in New York (she worked for the New Yorker) but if you want tough and brilliant, you have have have to read Maeve Brennan's short stories. They're like scalpels in literary form.

Neednewcarpets · 16/08/2024 15:37

Margaret Forster. Wrote Georgy Girl. Try "The Travels of Maudie Tipstaff" which is King Lear rewritten with a working class woman in the Lear role visiting her kids in turn. As my own mum used to say about her "she's very good on mothers".

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WhisperTree · 19/09/2024 14:21

Neednewcarpets · 16/08/2024 15:37

Margaret Forster. Wrote Georgy Girl. Try "The Travels of Maudie Tipstaff" which is King Lear rewritten with a working class woman in the Lear role visiting her kids in turn. As my own mum used to say about her "she's very good on mothers".

This sounds fascinating @Neednewcarpets Adding to the list!

I had to start somewhere, and it was serendipity that I found a copy of Fay Weldon's Down Among the Women (1971) while having a clear-out. Someone on this thread name checked her.

My copy was an engagement gift from a friend who wrote on the first page "So you don't get any ideas about obedience!"

On the very off-chance that anyone wants to read along, hit me up in the PMs and we can share notes. I'll post a review of sorts once I've read it.

Wishing you all the flow 🌊

On toughness - toughest writers of all time?
On toughness - toughest writers of all time?
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Scout2016 · 19/09/2024 14:37

I found Barbara Comyns very unsentimental and pulled no punches.

kublacant · 19/09/2024 14:54

Came on to say Fay Weldon! Also perhaps Ali Smith would fit the bill?

she didn’t write fiction but for “tough” don’t miss A Testament of Youth by Vera Brittain. Wholly unsentimental but devastating.