30. Things We Never Said - Nick Alexander
< TRIGGER WARNING deals heavily with the death of a spouse >
The book introduces us to Sean who has just lost the love of his life Catherine. The whole premise is an unusual one, it starts with Catherine's funeral and then goes on to describe that she has left Sean a box with envelopes, each containing a photo and a cassette tape and instructions that he is to open one a week.
Through Hannah's recordings we learn of her life, love, and ultimately death. She tells Sean the things that she remembers, talks of their relationship from her point of view, experiences, and things he never knew. She also tells Sean of things that he wouldn't have known about her, or how she felt about things. She is no Angel, as nobody is, and it's refreshing to read that she wants Sean to know and acknowledge this along with the good things. The book may sound depressing but it isn't, it is in turns funny, emotional, and uplifting.
I laughed, cried, ugly cried, and smiled, this book is unique and made me realise how easy it is to read into or interpret someone else's thoughts, feelings, or actions. Sadly when people die sometimes we can never know, in this book, through Catherine's tapes, Sean knows all the things that were never said.
This made me realise how much isn't said, between the important things to the everyday. I don't know why one part stuck with me, but it was when Catherine was telling Sean that once she had gone, no one would know how she set the cushions on the sofa. I thought the same applies to me, DH has no interest and DD is a teen (say no more), stupid as it may be I was compelled to tell them. As said before it's the little things too.
A thought provoking, interesting, emotional, humorous ride. I thoroughly liked reading it.