😂 Grim
Pepe, I also loved Clothes, Clothes, Clothes. Looking forward to reading To throw Away Unopened.
Ha! Scribbly, I listened to the little excerpt on Audible and also shuddered.
I haven’t read Little Fires either. 😊And have added Chronicles of Youth and Islam and the Future of Tolerance to my to-read list.
And my latest read:
5. Once upon a time in the East: A story of growing up by Xiaolu Guo.
Recommended on the 2018 thread, I thought this memoir was well written and interesting.
Xiaolu Guo is Chinese, born in the 1970’s and brought up by her grandparents in a poor fishing village, meeting her parents for the first time when she is 6 or 7. She goes through a lot - abuse, segregation, severe myopia, no love - but is a creative, driven and intelligent person, leaving her small town of Wenling for university in Beijing. Censored by the authorities and feeling she has no ties in China she wins a scholarship to study in Britain. Britain is certainly not perfect but allows her free rein to write.
Xiaolu Guo is very honest about her past and her relationships, giving insight into Chinese culture and mindset. I was struck by the inferior standing of women and the casual taken-for-granted violence towards women and children as she was growing up and during her time at university. She comments on her fractured relationship with her parents and particularly her lack of a bond with her mother, poignant now she herself has a daughter. And, although in the same vein as other memoirs of this type in depicting resilience and escape from the place they were born into, this book allows us a look into life from this part of China.