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Ask SHARON GUSKIN - author of THE FORGETTING TIME - a question now! Post yours by Wednesday 27 July

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UrsulaMumsnet · 08/02/2016 12:12

Our featured debut author this week is Sharon Guskin. Her book The Forgetting Time, tells the story of Noah, who struggles to forget the life he believes he's lived before. Driven to desperation and reluctant to medicate her son, his mother Janie visits a psychiatrist who can provide some answers but not necessarily the ones Janie's ready to hear.

Pan Macmillan asked us to find a huge 190 Mumsnetters to read The Forgetting Time and tell us what they think about it on this discussion thread. Go to the giveaway page to find out more and apply for a free copy.

You don't have to win a free copy to take part in the discussion. Anyone who has read The Forgetting Time can post their feedback here.

As so many of you enjoyed The Forgetting Time, Pan Macmillan have asked you for any questions you'd like to put to author Sharon Guskin. The best questions will be answered by Sharon on film. Post yours on this thread by Wednesday 27 July

This giveaway is sponsored by Pan Macmillan

Ask SHARON GUSKIN - author of THE FORGETTING TIME - a question now! Post yours by Wednesday 27 July
Ask SHARON GUSKIN - author of THE FORGETTING TIME - a question now! Post yours by Wednesday 27 July
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roseym23 · 16/03/2016 21:49

I'm halfway through so far and I am really enjoying it, past lives is not something I have looked into much, except for one documentary I saw many years ago. It's definitely something i'll pay more attention to now though.
I will give a proper review once I have finished.

velocitygir1 · 16/03/2016 22:33

Awe have I missed this? This book sounds awesome.

vienetta · 17/03/2016 08:37

I have just started this book & I definately have been sucked in already it's my type of book! Recommend if you like a book to really get your teeth into

SnapCackleFlop · 17/03/2016 09:55

I enjoyed the book very much. Once I got into reading it properly I found that I read it very quickly. It took me a little while to get into it properly and I felt slightly that the character of Janie was a bit different in the main body of the book than she was at the beginning (maybe that was intentional?).

I thought it was a clever and interesting idea for a book and I liked the way the story was interspersed with extracts from reported events. (I'd wondered if the author made these up and Googled them - was surprised that these were cases which really had been investigated :)

I liked that I related to aspects and feelings of characters that I didn't necessarily identify with. I thought the author did a good job of conveying real reactions and feelings to highly unlikely circumstances.

Imupforthat · 17/03/2016 17:43

Firstly, many thanks to Mumsnet and the publisher for my copy. It has been a treat for me to read a real book (and a hardback, dead posh!)

I really enjoyed this book, a lot more than I thought I would initially as I found it a steady read rather than a page turner until I got to the second part of the story. I loved the way the author writes, her prose is really beautiful and just flows effortlessly. This is real storytelling with a beginning, a middle and an end. So refreshing as I gave up reading for a while because so many novels don't bother with anything as mundane as story line never mind a proper resolution.

My whole reason for entering this giveaway was because I was drawn to the subject matter which fascinates me. In that respect the author manages not to fall into the trap of making it too "woo" or too sceptical. However, this aspect of the story became secondary to other motifs such as love, forgiveness friendship and the nature of loss.

If the book has a flaw it's that the characterisation was a bit two dimensional for me and things were touched on but never fully explored. This was a shame as it was difficult to feel much empathy with the main protagonists particularly the mother as she just came across as a cold fish.

pumpkin3 · 20/03/2016 09:11

This was an interesting read. It kept me turning pages for sure! Like others have said, for some reason I couldn't quite take to Janie....not sure why. The story was interesting and intriguing, and I loved the way it was written. Definitely worth a read!

Tigerlily13 · 20/03/2016 10:06

Just finished reading this book and loved it. I find it hard to concentrate on reading these days so a book has to grab me from the start and this one did.
It was obvious where it was going from the start, but I enjoyed the way it got there. A great holiday read, but with quite a sad conclusion I thought. Thanks for my copy!

RoastieToastieReastie · 20/03/2016 12:21

Just finished reading the book, thank you for sending me a copy mumsnet. I was unsure initially if I was going to enjoy it given the theme of reincarnation and my non commital to believing this, but despite my feelings on the matter it made a good and interesting and thought proving theme to the book which I really enjoyed . It also made me think about life and death and the big questions and what my views are after finishing the book (although tbh I'm still not sure anything has changed in my opinion in this) and it's not often I find a book which gives me such a topic which stays stays with me to consider after I've finished it.

caztown13 · 20/03/2016 15:51

I have long been fascinated by the tales of children who can remember past lives in detail, and this book is a beautifully written story of one such child, Noah, who can remember a former life, and his struggling single mother, desperately trying to handle a highly intelligent child with his nightmares and seeming memories of a former life and death.
I wanted to read this book the moment I read the synopsis on Mumsnet, and I was fortunate enough to win an advance copy. I read it in a few sittings and was certainly not disappointed. A well researched and yet easily readable novel, full of fascinating questions and what-ifs?

SallySwann · 20/03/2016 21:02

What an intriguing read this is. It is extremely thought provoking making the reader consider ideas that might otherwise seem very outlandish at first glance. However, the way the characters and the story are built lends it self to treating the whole subject of possible reincarnation not exactly believable, but certainly something to be considered.This is a debut novel from Sharon Guskin and she certainly pulls no punches in tackling a subject that could potentially have been ridiculed. That it isn't is to the author's credit. It is certainly very cleverly written with intriguing characters. The relationship between the two main characters, a mother and her young son, is very sensitively handled in an unusual set up. How does a mother cope when her son keeps exclaiming that he wants to go home to his other mother. The desperate measures that a mother, a single one at that, goes through is imagined in a way that keeps the reader enthralled.

kelliep · 21/03/2016 17:48

Another book I thoroughly enjoyed from start to finish. It's beautifully written and I loved the plot and the characters

FernieB · 21/03/2016 17:53

Loved this book and read it very quickly. Thought the relationship between Janie and Noah was well portrayed and the deterioration in Jerrys health was dealt with sympathetically. I don't think you had to believe in the central concept to enjoy the book (I'm sceptical of anything like that) but I did find the little case studies inserted into the book to be interesting. An excellent debut and I'll look forward to more from Sharon Guskin.

Mozarmstrong · 21/03/2016 18:09

This is hard to get into characters ways. Having to put down think about each chapter. Not my favourite read at moment .

Indiaplain · 22/03/2016 13:18

Thank you for my copy of this book. I have enjoyed reading it, and feel that it is really well written. I have not found it to be a 'page turner', but the characters are all well developed. I too am sceptical about the concept of reincarnation, but this did not effect my enjoyment of the book at all. I felt the setting and characters were portrayed realistically.

lambfam · 22/03/2016 13:23

I was delighted to receive a copy of this, particularly as I probably wouldnt have come across it otherwise.
I found it to be an easy but enjoyable read. The characters were engaging and I found myself wanting to find out what happened. I was particularly taken with Denise's character. The close bond between mothers and sons in 2 different families and very different circumstances worked well. I am sceptical about reincarnation but did find myself wanting to read more into it.
Thank you - an enjoyable read and a good solid debut novel. I will be interested to see what she writes next.

CycleQueen · 22/03/2016 18:56

I was thrilled to bits to win a copy of this book. However when it first arrived my initial thoughts were 'argh, a book about a child having nightmares - I don't want to read it'.
Luckily I was completely wrong, it was a real page turner and I'm still thinking about it now (always a good sign!). It was great having an excuse to have to read - "I HAVE to read this for MN, they need my review!" (please send more!).
I don't think I massively loved any of the characters but to be honest that doesn't really matter to me if the story is good and this was great - I wondered where it was going to end, how was she going to wrap it all up, what would the outcome be for Noah? I liked that she didn't try and over-write Jerry's role, and he was kept as the professional without morphing into some grandparent type figure. I thought the book was really well written and I liked the snatches of Shakespeare and Dickinson. Thank you for my copy.

sylwright · 22/03/2016 23:28

I am about halfway through this book at the moment and really enjoying it. I'm finding it difficult to put down when I start to read as I'm eager to find out what happens next.

I really hope things work out for Noah and his Mum.

I would definitely recommend this book.

Eustaciavile · 23/03/2016 21:33

Thank you for my book, I was so thrilled to receive it!
It was an interesting story and I found the central concept fascinating. Overall I felt the characters were well drawn and the little boy's experience was both unsettling and poignant. A gripping, easy read Smile

Possum78 · 27/03/2016 09:04

I've only read a few chapters so far and what I've read I've enjoyed. It's well written and intriguing. Promising start to this debut novel

voyager50 · 27/03/2016 17:01

A bit predictable in places but it still kept me wanting to read on - it's very different to the sort of books I normally read. It's very sad at times. I am not a believer in past lives but I still enjoyed this story.

aspella · 28/03/2016 15:33

Thanks for my copy of the book, unfortunately it didn't live up to my expectations and was disappointing. My main problem was I didn't connect with any of the characters, I found Janie's reaction to what Noah was going through and experiencing implausible and extremely selfish. Janie is portrayed as an educated and professional woman with experience of using technology and therefore I found it hard to believe she wouldn't have been capable of doing more research herself online sooner to determine what Noah was going through. I also found it hard to believe that Janie wouldn't have picked up that Dr Anderson had a neurological condition. The story was disjointed and kept going off on a tangent, it just didn't flow. There were to many characters and I felt I didn't really get to truely know any of them. It was a book I kept picking up and putting down out of boredom. The only redeeming feature of this book were the extracts taken from Life Before Life which were extremely interesting and thought provoking, however these extracts did distract from the story and were poorly placed throughout the book.

Mindfulofmuddle · 28/03/2016 18:55

Thank you for sending me a copy of The Forgetting Time - I love reading and rarely find time any more and this was a reason for me to make time Smile

I enjoyed the story, and found myself looking forward to reaching for the book again in quiet moments. The pace of the story was good, and although I wouldn't normally choose stories about children now (find them too emotive since I had my own), I'm really glad I was sent this one.

It is a story primarily about people and how they cope in the face of adversity, and from the start of the book, I couldn't warm to Janie, the mother of Noah and one of the main characters.
I'm not sure why this was.
Perhaps it was because I disapproved of her decision to sleep with a married man on a whim from the get-go or because she feels a bit cold and someone I wouldn't want to be 'friends' with in real life.
I could, however, empathise with her enormously when she was experiencing the harrowing difficulties with Noah.
Janie's anguish and feelings of desperation and not knowing what to do for the best for Noah, were emotions any mother could understand and were very well written.

Noah, like Janie, left me with mixed emotions. He is an enigma - troubled and difficult but vulnerable at the same time. I felt very sad for him, for much of the book, and this doesn't really leave much space to warm to him. To contrast, Cole in The Sixth Sense was a similarly troubled and disturbed character, but I really liked him. The difference is the presence of Tommy. We don't really know Noah, as he doesn't really know himself. He is so intertwined with the confused, searching personality of Tommy, that Noah isn't a 'proper' person in his own right...yet.

I felt Anderson was a character I could relate to more easily - his ability to separate himself from the emotion of these past life situations, to observe forensically to get the job done was realistic and yet he was still a character who did care underneath it all and you wanted him to. You could feel the intense sadness and frustration that losing his language caused him, and it made me contemplate how awful Aphasia is, and how we take language and reading for granted.

Anderson's interactions with Janie and Noah were well written, and realistic. Anderson's deteriorating condition and confidence were palpable, and Janie's wavering conviction to follow Anderson's lead, always leading back to her lack of options.

Denise was a beautifully written character. She is a complex, broken yet strong woman, and you could absolutely see how she had come to the point in her life at which we find her. She has lived through ever mother's worst nightmare, and whilst you yearn for Noah's situation to be resolved, you wish that Janie's answers will not come at the expense of Denise's last remaining hope.

Henry is not a particularly well defined character for me, but I think this allows us to focus on Denise and her personal struggle.
Charlie on the other hand is a character I did feel for, the one left behind - living his own life under the shadow of the horrible uncertainty that blights all their lives. His apology to Tommy/Noah in the den is heartbreaking, and you can imagine how a child in his circumstances would carry that guilt (so unnecessarily).

Pauly is another character you can't like, but you can feel some empathy for, being a child himself when the awful situation unfolds. There is some attempt at mitigation for his behaviour - his unhappy home life, but ultimately his decision to do nothing when he realises Tommy is alive, and his silence for so many years, is a cruelty that is difficult to fathom as an adult but maybe more understandable from a scared child's perspective.

The cases studies of past lives are slightly superfluous to the story, and as a sceptic about everything remotely mystical, it is interesting to me that almost all of them seem to take place in regions that have a greater number of believers in reincarnation.

As a work of fiction, I enjoyed the story and felt it was plausible and flowed well, however I am yet to be convinced that past lives are anything other than just that...a work of fiction.

Flybygirly29 · 28/03/2016 21:35

I couldn't put it down!! It gripped me from the start. It was an easy read and beautifully written such an emotive story. I would recommend it to others

alexiscasey123 · 28/03/2016 21:53

I found the book really thought provoking, it is really well written and I found it hard to put down. Would definitely recommend it.

BlackSusie2004 · 28/03/2016 23:09

Thank you for the copy of The Forgetting Time and apologies for the late feedback!
I loved this book, although I initially wasn't sure if I would because the idea of reincarnation isn't something I believe in at all. Sharon Guskin made the storyline feasible and you really felt for the characters in the book. It was really thought-provoking and emotional.
I look forward to reading more from Sharon Guskin in the future.

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