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Ask SHARON GUSKIN - author of THE FORGETTING TIME - a question now! Post yours by Wednesday 27 July

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UrsulaMumsnet · 08/02/2016 12:12

Our featured debut author this week is Sharon Guskin. Her book The Forgetting Time, tells the story of Noah, who struggles to forget the life he believes he's lived before. Driven to desperation and reluctant to medicate her son, his mother Janie visits a psychiatrist who can provide some answers but not necessarily the ones Janie's ready to hear.

Pan Macmillan asked us to find a huge 190 Mumsnetters to read The Forgetting Time and tell us what they think about it on this discussion thread. Go to the giveaway page to find out more and apply for a free copy.

You don't have to win a free copy to take part in the discussion. Anyone who has read The Forgetting Time can post their feedback here.

As so many of you enjoyed The Forgetting Time, Pan Macmillan have asked you for any questions you'd like to put to author Sharon Guskin. The best questions will be answered by Sharon on film. Post yours on this thread by Wednesday 27 July

This giveaway is sponsored by Pan Macmillan

Ask SHARON GUSKIN - author of THE FORGETTING TIME - a question now! Post yours by Wednesday 27 July
Ask SHARON GUSKIN - author of THE FORGETTING TIME - a question now! Post yours by Wednesday 27 July
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Larnipoo · 08/03/2016 01:02

One of the most compelling and beautifully written books I have read in a long time. I felt for single mother Janie as she tried to both understand and help her son Noah. Noah has a very particular set of circumstances which set him apart from other 4year olds. In her quest to help Noah , Janie reaches out to John Anderson -a psychologist with his own issues. Together they manage to help Noah get answers and move on. Their journey is amazing. The author wrote so naturally and beautifully that I really was drawn into the story, the characters, the possibilities which were presented. I read the book straight thru! I was that drawn in. The subject matter may not appeal to everyone but what I found fascinating were the real stories which were included between chapters. I so enjoyed reading this book and I highly recommend it.

blogmumjd · 08/03/2016 05:00

Really enjoyed reading this. My review is on my blog and linked to your linky www.mumsnet.com/bloggers/the-forgetting-time-what-our-bloggers-thought

4isplenty · 08/03/2016 09:22

I am doing a follow up post as I have now finished the book. First, I would like to thank mumsnet for allowing me to do this in the first place, such a treat :)
I found it difficult to connect with the characters. However, I found the story fascinating and would happily read more on the actual subject. As a debut novel it is what you would expect, and I will look for the author again :)

SnapCackleFlop · 08/03/2016 11:25

Just place marking as I've got the book and am getting on with it :)

A beautiful looking book and lovely edition even before delving into the pages....

meredithlovescake · 08/03/2016 21:00

I truly loved this book and would have even paid to read it if I hadn’t been one of the lucky winners. I found the book intriguing and compelling; I seriously could not put this book down.

I like books that have little excerpts of past life events thrown between the chapters, definitely makes the read more interesting. I felt exhausted reading what Janie went through with Noah.

This was definitely a book that made me think and reflect, on reincarnation. A great read, you will not be able to put this book down!

meredithlovescake · 08/03/2016 21:02

I truly loved this book and would have even paid to read it if I hadn’t been one of the lucky winners. I found the book intriguing and compelling; I seriously could not put this book down.

I like books that have little excerpts of past life events thrown between the chapters, definitely makes the read more interesting. I felt exhausted reading what Janie went through with Noah.

This was definitely a book that made me think and reflect, on reincarnation. A great read, you will not be disappointed, enjoy!

roseblossom4 · 08/03/2016 21:41

Received my copy and started reading straight away, I have always been interested in reincarnation so found this book intriguing. Throughout the book the psychiatrist had other children's stories which I also enjoyed reading. As I continued I got hooked, and I really enjoyed it and was sorry when I got to the end.

clux73 · 08/03/2016 21:57

I'm back now I've finished the book. I really enjoyed it. Thought the concept of previous lives was really interesting. Read it in about 3 days as it was quite addictive. My only slight negative is that I felt the ending trailed off a bit.

Pamaga · 09/03/2016 13:12

Oh dear, I seem to be in a minority here. I think it is just not my sort of genre. I did quite enjoy The Lovely Bones, to which this has been compared, but I couldn't really get to grips with the reincarnation themes. I was unclear as to the validity of the reported incidents which peppered the book and am assuming they are all fictitious. Glad other recipients did enjoy it. I am always open to trying new genres as I do get stuck in a rut, reading crime fiction mostly. I do appreciate a really good story and don't consider this to come anywhere near to one. Sorry!

saracutter · 09/03/2016 18:19

I have now finished the book - quite a miracle for me as often it takes me months to get through a book! I really enjoyed this book - I found it a compelling tale and it definitely drew me in. It's a very different story matter to things I have read for a really long time, but this made it more enjoyable because of that. I'm not sure that I believe in the subject of reincarnation, but for me this didn't ruin it at all like some other people - just gave me more food for thought! Overall I really liked the book and would recommend it to other people. Thanks very much for my copy!

wifeywish1 · 11/03/2016 22:36

I read the book too - thank you Mumsnet. Whilst I really enjoyed the first part of the book I struggled to keep motivated to read it towards the end and was actually glad to move on from it once I'd finished it The premise of the book is so unlikely that I couldn't believe it and therefore i didnt t engage with it.

henbane · 11/03/2016 23:43

This is a strange & unsettling book, not easy to categorise - I have deliberately avoided reading other reviews so I can present my own impressions.

As it concerns the supernatural I first thought of it as horror, but it isn't at all horrific; although like a horror story it has the reader constantly on edge, waiting for something terrible to happen, nothing that bad actually transpires.

The story explores the question of how far you would go beyond reason if you thought it might avert damage to your child. It is well-written but none of the characters seemed particularly sympathetic & I'm not sure if I liked it or not. It is certainly an uncomfortable read.

StillNoFuckingEyeDeer · 13/03/2016 07:16

Not quite a thriller but nevertheless a real page turner with some moments of real suspense.
The book tells the story of a single mothers struggle with her son, conceived after a one night of passion with a man she really doesn't know.
The child is troubled by nightmares, phobias and what appears to be an extraordinary imagination. He is difficult at home and school and eventually excluded. The mothers desperate search to find a solution to the child's problems leads her into a world she finds difficult to comprehend. It will lead you to question life after death and the possibility of reincarnation.
A great read, thoroughly recommended.

insan1tyscartching · 13/03/2016 09:30

Thank you for my copy. I feel like I'm persevering rather than enjoying it at present to be honest. I've found the beginning really slow and I don't seem to be gelling with the characters which I think is what makes a good book for me. I'll keep going and hope to have something more positive to offer later.

whenthetimecomes · 14/03/2016 09:22

Delighted to have received a copy; now it's been read, and here is my review of Sharon Guskin's 'The Forgetting Time'.

It's a well-presented book with an intriguing cover - almost, but not quite, evocative of horror. As a reader readily annoyed by poor style and clichéd writing, I did find it well-written. Guskin's style is sensitive, her voice authentic, with many moments of insight and originality; quite often I felt 'yes, I recognise that' (eg: of the breastfeeding Melissa on p. 150: 'her round breast popped into view, its large, pink nipple as unexpected as a spaceship'.) In common with a few other posters on this thread, I did however find the early one-night-stand-on-the-beach situation somewhat clichéd. I'd also have liked more development of the Jeff character who this involved: apart from providing the necessary paternity for Noah, was he actually a phoney/schizo? (as Janie could never subsequently trace him, and did wonder if Noah had inherited mental health issues from him). Rather than merely discarding Jeff, once he had done the deed, it would have been interesting to have found out more later about his character. The character of Dr Anderson was well-drawn - if not in depth - but this did not actually matter as he was there (a bit like Jeff) to fulfil a function. His ultimate suicide abroad rang true, and was quite moving.

Noah's mysterious distress was also well handled. As a mother of a special needs child myself, I could relate to the deep anxiety Janie felt. My heart went out to her as an older, single mother trying to keep her career going and make ends meet while being so committed to helping her difficult, smelly, beloved child. I sensed echoes of 'The Shack' by Wm Paul Young in the story of the missing Tommy Crawford. It was satisfying that little Noah helped to solve the terrible question about his fate and bring the perpetrator to justice in the end. I was relieved that he himself did not come to any further harm in doing so, and it was also good that he did, in fact, outgrow the nightmares and forget Tommy's life, in the fullness of time. Good also that this helped bring healing and closure to Denise, Henry and Charlie.

Guskin intersperses her developing story with excerpts from a real study, Jim Tucker's book 'Life Before Life: Children's Memories of Previous Lives', which added weight and authenticity to the central subject. Perhaps there were a few too many of these, but they still added objectivity and diminished the subjectivity and potential 'woo' factor. This book has made me wonder more about reincarnation which I had previously dismissed. Overall, I'd recommend this novel, and would read Guskin's next.

Twitterqueen · 14/03/2016 10:28

I enjoyed the book but for me, it lacked depth of characterisation. Janie has no back story so it was difficult to empathise with her because her fears, thoughts, aspirations were never drawn - other than those focusing on the central premise. I couldn't care about her.

Denise was the most finely drawn character and therefore the most sympathetic. The relationship between her and Henry was the most genuine in the whole book, though Jer's flashbacks to conversations with Sheila added to the human dimension.

Jeff came (ha ha) and went in a couple of pages and although there was a nod to Janie trying to find him later we never learned anything more about him, which was a tad frustrating.

Reincarnation is a fascinating topic and I felt the whole subject was treated well. I liked the story extracts in juxtaposition to the central storyline. I would perhaps have liked more detail on how different faiths treat the subject and the differences between those beliefs.

I liked the book - I didn't love it. I did want to keep turning the pages to see what happened (though it was well sign-posted). It was all a bit shallow tbh. I wouldn't rush to read more from this author.

Thanks Mumsnet - the gift of a book is always a delight!

Twitterqueen · 14/03/2016 13:25

One more comment - I don't get the title. How does it contextual with the storylines? The book is about reincarnation - the spirits or souls of people who have died a violent death being reincarnated in new people who remember their previous lives. 'The Forgetting Time' makes no sense to me.

lesley37 · 14/03/2016 18:33

What a gripping read, the characters are movingly portrayed with great insight. I found this book compelling.

SciFiFan · 14/03/2016 19:15

I'm now about three quarters through and I have to say it was hard to get into it at first but now is a different matter. I love the insert stories of people with past life experience and now we're moving onto the previous family I'm much more drawn into the story.

I have struggled to relate to Janie and Anderson in particular and I think that's why I found the first half of the novel difficult. It's a shame because the premis for the story is a really intriguing one.

Liana83 · 14/03/2016 21:51

I haven't started reading my copy yet but I can't wait. Just need to finish reading my current book then I'll be back! Smile

agnapoop · 14/03/2016 22:14

I loved this book, it gripped me from the start and kept me wanting more throughout. This book takes you on a journey and questions your beliefs on reincarnation. Could this possibly be true somehow? It's a wonderful powerful book that makes you question what path you would take had you been in the same situation as Janie. The characters are likeable from the start allowing you to follow them on their individual missions. It's an easy read, one that you will enjoy and most definitely won't want to put down.

AnonymousBird · 15/03/2016 11:04

I am really looking forward to this, just got to finish one that needs to be returned to the library (need more reading time!!) then it's next.

vodkaandregret · 15/03/2016 19:01

Just finished reading this today. Overall I enjoyed the book and found parts of it very touching, especially towards the end. I was interested in the subject matter (re-incarnation) and felt that the characters of Denise and Tommy were particularly well drawn.

CordeliaScott · 15/03/2016 19:48

Just finished this and I stick by my original impression - that it is an easy read but didn't particularly engage me. I would have liked more backstory on Anderson or perhaps more about the development of his aphasia. I can't see myself rereading it I think it's one for the charity shop.

moonstonebright · 16/03/2016 19:32

The Forgetting Time! I was so pleased to receive a free copy of Sharon Guskins debut novel! I had previously seen it mentioned on mumsnet and on another website and knew it was my kind of book.
It especially appeals to me because as a young child I had an experience which my parents told me had been a dream but I know it was more than that. I dreamt/remembered watching myself although not me in my current guise have a car accident with my mother driving (not my current mother) and a brother involved. We were in a car driving on the right hand side of the road not the left as we do in the UK. I saw that my mother and I were killed and I was floating above. I watched my brother who survived and my father (I don't have a brother and it wasn't my Dad in this life) hugging and crying. Somewhere within it I heard someone say it's 1971 which was the year I was born into this life. I was only 6/7 when I had this memory/dream and I don't have enough information to trace an accident that occurred. The odd thing is that I was born in Germany where they do drive on the right hand side. Did my soul leave that child and enter me? Something nobody will ever know for sure. This is why the book really appealed to me. It's interesting and the characters although we don't get to know them in depth that kind of adds to the mysterious atmosphere of the whole book for me. I found the 'true life' passages fascinating although they are written as if they are real articles of real experiences I can't seem to find out if they are fictitious. It would be interesting to know. Maybe I've missed that.
I won't go into too much further detail as to the storyline so as not to spoil it for others who are yet to read it. It was a very enjoyable book that left me looking forward to the next chance I got to sit and read it and the usual sadness at the coming to the end of a good book that's provoked thought and emotion. I really hope that Sharon Guskin is working on another novel and that it doesn't take her too long to write it!
Thankyou very much for my copy of this book.