Thanks Ducdo- Before i found your thread i had started my own thread HERE
Someone has posted a belgium Dr with loads of great 'before/after' photoes- and there's even a mnetter who's had a TummyTuck done.
If someone offered to do my tummy- in exchange for the right to screen the op and recovery in mega wide screen Hi Definition etc...to a worldwide LIVE audience...Big Brother style...I'd scream YES !!!!
(Any TV producers out there??? There's a great ide for a show!!!! lots of 'ugly ducklings' being turned into swans....mind you - i think there are shows like it already!!!!
It's quite sad how i would be funded to pay for this IF i lose the weight.... is that 5 yrs ago my husband sufered an accident at work- and last year recieved a payout (NO WIN NO FEE) and he promised me that he'd contribute £5000 towards a tummy tuck.....and then within weeks of him getting his payout- his dad died. That really changed our family life- and now 10 months later- his mum has terminal cancer- and DH has promised me that once she has stopped suffering, he will put the money i need into a savings account- that does not have instant access- and requires both our signatures....as i cannot trust i'd not spend it!!!!
so when he started talking about the tummy tuck (after he saw that tv show) i was shocked- as i didn't really believe he really understood how repulsed i am about my body....then to hear that 19yr old talking exactly as i have done for years- he suddenly realised how i felt.
on that show, the doc asked her if she thought about her tummy every day.... and that made me cry....as its not so much 'every day' its everytime i move, catch a glimpse of my reflection, knock into something with my 'not-part-of-my-body-tummy'.... or IF i go out ( i avoid anyone seeing me) someone only has to simply appear to glance at my tummy and i am sure they are making judgements.
I had to have my gallbladder out last year- and apologised to the surgeon that he had to operate on my body. Can you believe he actually had to INFLATE my abdomen with carbon dioxide to do the OP...god knows what i looked like inflated!!!
I have not had a smear test done for 11 years- I cannot bear to be looked at- it's not the gyno bit- its the stomach flopping either side.
So i have decided, when i next have to see docator (for antidepressants in 2 months) i am going to request she do a smear test- AND examine my tummy.
so thanks to this thread of yours, i feel strong enough to get that smear done.