5"3 and 7.7 stone. I'm in my forties. Ive been roughly the same weight for two decades.
I don't calorie count, never dieted, dont weight myself. I love food.
Typical day:
-Medium bowl of porridge with coconut yoghurt, half a banana, toasted seeds and flaked almonds and 2-3 small squares of dark choc melted in
-mid morning: slide of wholemeal toast with two dippy eggs
-Lunch: leftovers eg homemade veggie stew with dumplings
-Dinner : vegetable and chickpea curry with rice
Dessert- few squares of dark chocolate
My advice - take it or leave it...
-Be veggie, eat lots of veg and pulses. In fact, as long as it's vegetables and pulses, eat as much as you like. Don't diet, your body needs nutrition. Eat healthy food and plenty of it.
-Go easy on the fruit
-No alcohol, no smoke
-No fizzy drinks
-Avoid all ultra processed food, read the ingredients list of everything you buy. If it contains stuff that sounds like it comes from a lab, don't buy it. Be assiduous. Cook from scratch.
-Dark chocolate is your friend (no sugary supermarket 'treats', no milk choc)
-Occasional slice of homemade cake is good for the soul. Enjoy it
-Eat full fat everything (no low fat or sugar free versions, they're just UPF)
-Butter not marg, always
-Three square meals a day, smallish portions, keep your blood sugar level
-Carbs are fine, they keep you going, but go for wholemeal & make sure you always have protein with it.
-Dont eat too much cheese, a bit is lovely
-Eggs are a winner
-Aim for maximum nutrition, not weight loss
Exercise is overrated for keeping a low weight. Exercise to stay fit and strong, not to lose weight. It's almost all about what you eat.