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If you are 5’3 and weigh under 8.5 stone, what do you eat in a typical day?

80 replies

tired247365 · 06/04/2026 18:27

And how much do you exercise?

I want to lose some weight, ideally to be around the 8 - 8.5 stone mark.

OP posts:
Magnolia82 · 07/04/2026 10:24

This is a helpful thread and mainly sensible eating (not replies saying you eat one stick of celery a day!).

I wondered if any of you who have commented also count calories and could say approximately what your daily calories are each day?

I’m 5ft2, 8st10, age 42 and would like to lose the few pounds I seem to have gained over the last year. (I’m very active - lots of walking, dumbbells workouts at home, etc.).

Eudaimonia11 · 07/04/2026 10:31

5ft 3in 118lbs
Exercise: At least 10k steps a day. I’m trying to get back into going to the gym a few times a week so I’ll be adding a protein shake or something to what I’ve listed below.

My diet is rubbish, don’t copy me! I definitely need to stop eating so much cheese and eat far more veg than I have been. I don’t over eat but I don’t under eat either.

Some days I have more of an appetite than others. I usually have one big meal a day either at lunch or evening meal depending on when I feel hungry. If I have a big meal at lunch, I’ll just have a sandwich or something small in the evening.

Breakfast: I hate eating breakfast but have to eat with my medication so I’ll have a yoghurt protein pouch thing.

Lunch: A small cheese sandwich on wholemeal bread, a toast with lots of butter, or a jacket potato with cheese and beans or cheese and coleslaw.

Evening meal: Veg pasta with lots of cheese or if I’m feeling really hungry then I’ll have half a takeaway pizza or a cheese and onion pie, chips, and mushy peas from the chippy.

Snacks: A mini cheese stick thing and a bar of chocolate

Edited to make it clear that when I get a takeaway pizza, I have half of it. Sometimes I’ll have the other half the next day but I can’t eat the full pizza in one go on my own. And also to add that I’ve noticed the chip shop portions are a lot smaller than when I was growing up, the tray is definitely smaller!

DeftGoldHedgehog · 07/04/2026 10:37

So many people seem to eat so little protein, fibre or fruit and veg.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 07/04/2026 10:41

Cosmication · 07/04/2026 08:31

5"3 and 7.7 stone. I'm in my forties. Ive been roughly the same weight for two decades.
I don't calorie count, never dieted, dont weight myself. I love food.

Typical day:
-Medium bowl of porridge with coconut yoghurt, half a banana, toasted seeds and flaked almonds and 2-3 small squares of dark choc melted in
-mid morning: slide of wholemeal toast with two dippy eggs
-Lunch: leftovers eg homemade veggie stew with dumplings
-Dinner : vegetable and chickpea curry with rice
Dessert- few squares of dark chocolate

My advice - take it or leave it...
-Be veggie, eat lots of veg and pulses. In fact, as long as it's vegetables and pulses, eat as much as you like. Don't diet, your body needs nutrition. Eat healthy food and plenty of it.
-Go easy on the fruit
-No alcohol, no smoke
-No fizzy drinks
-Avoid all ultra processed food, read the ingredients list of everything you buy. If it contains stuff that sounds like it comes from a lab, don't buy it. Be assiduous. Cook from scratch.
-Dark chocolate is your friend (no sugary supermarket 'treats', no milk choc)
-Occasional slice of homemade cake is good for the soul. Enjoy it
-Eat full fat everything (no low fat or sugar free versions, they're just UPF)
-Butter not marg, always
-Three square meals a day, smallish portions, keep your blood sugar level
-Carbs are fine, they keep you going, but go for wholemeal & make sure you always have protein with it.
-Dont eat too much cheese, a bit is lovely
-Eggs are a winner
-Aim for maximum nutrition, not weight loss

Exercise is overrated for keeping a low weight. Exercise to stay fit and strong, not to lose weight. It's almost all about what you eat.

Edited

Very good advice. Though I did nearly all that and was two or three stone overweight for 15 years.

Catcatcatcatcat · 07/04/2026 10:44

I’m 5 foot 4 and weigh 8:1.

Breakfast is one weetabix with sweetener, blueberries and semi skimmed milk

Lunch is a Grenade protein bar

Dinner is something like chicken and vegetable stir fry, or salmon with salad. Followed by a chocolate protein pudding.

I am disabled and can’t really exercise.

I maintain this weight with this intake, am not losing weight. I am in my sixties.

Eudaimonia11 · 07/04/2026 10:44

DeftGoldHedgehog · 07/04/2026 10:37

So many people seem to eat so little protein, fibre or fruit and veg.

It’s pure laziness in my case. I’m busy but so is everyone else! My pasta and bread is always whole grain/wholemeal but I could do a lot better.

What’s your height, weight, and diet?

RoseField1 · 07/04/2026 10:46

whereisit1 · 06/04/2026 21:33

This thread is making me realise I'm never going to be that weight again!

That's fine too! 8.5 stone is on the very low side. Most women can't maintain that low weight and shouldn't try.

JMSA · 07/04/2026 10:47

whereisit1 · 06/04/2026 21:33

This thread is making me realise I'm never going to be that weight again!

I would look like a child at that weight. I’d look dreadful.
I’m sure the other posters look great and it suits them … but it wouldn’t me.

Eudaimonia11 · 07/04/2026 10:55

RoseField1 · 07/04/2026 10:46

That's fine too! 8.5 stone is on the very low side. Most women can't maintain that low weight and shouldn't try.

It’s not “very low” at all! My BMI is 21! To be “very low” it would be 18.5 and to get to 18.5 BMI at 5ft 3, I’d have to lose nearly a stone to weigh around 105lbs. A stone might not sound like a lot to someone who is taller but it is a lot for those of us who are 5ft 3!

Llalay · 07/04/2026 10:55

just slightly under that height wise, I basically calorie count and do 1200 and try to mix up what I eat a lot, I read the 1200splenty sub for ideas, yesterday I had a taco for lunch, oats for breakfast, and a salad with some sweet potato fries for dinner

ginasevern · 07/04/2026 10:55

I'm 5ft 3in and weigh 9st. I'm 69 and my weight has always fallen between 8 and 9st. I eat the same things more or less every day unless I'm going out, but it isn't a conscious calorie or even health thing. I rarely have breakfast unless I'm on holiday but I have lunch at 12pm which is either a liberally buttered crusty white roll (real French butter with salt crystals) with cheese and onion, hummus with a side of black olives and feta cheese, smoke mackerel or a couple of hard boiled eggs. After that I have a small bowl of full fat greek yoghurt with some fruit. Once or twice a week I'll also have a danish pastry or slice of cake after lunch or lately a hot cross bun. For tea in the summer I have a bowl of mixed salad drizzled with extra virgin olive oil and a jacket spud with butter and full fat greek yoghurt on top. In the winter I'll have something like a lentil curry or veg stew. I've never dieted and although I'm reasonably active, I don't deliberately exercise.

Edited to say that I also usually have two glasses of red wine in the evening.

MissyB1 · 07/04/2026 11:02

5ft 3 and 50kg which I think is 8 stone.
Breakfast: rarely eat anything, just two cups of tea.
Lunch: porridge with seeds/nuts/dried cranberries/fresh blueberries
afternoon snack: crackers and cheese, banana
Dinner: home cooked meals like prawn risotto/veggie chilli/salmon teriyaki etc…

I don’t think I eat enough protein, in fact I’m not sure I eat enough full stop tbh. I will use this thread to try to motivate myself to eat different foods.

AlphaApple · 07/04/2026 11:12

I think what I'm taking from this thread is that there is a massive variety of ways to eat. If I ate the way some posters did I would fade away - if I ate the same way as others I would gain weight. I guess we are all different.

OP - if you are still there, I would recommend you make small changes to your habits, get them to stick, and then make more small changes and so on. And be patient.

Crushed23 · 07/04/2026 11:14

Slightly taller, 125lbs, age 36.

Two meals a day.
Exercise class (barre or HIIT) 5-6x a week
Lots of walking

Eat healthily during the week, no snacking
More relaxed at the weekend

BeigeBanana · 07/04/2026 11:33

RoseField1 · 07/04/2026 10:46

That's fine too! 8.5 stone is on the very low side. Most women can't maintain that low weight and shouldn't try.

It’s not a low weight for someone petite at 5 foot 3. It’s a healthy bmi

PuppyKeep · 07/04/2026 11:42

LappingLouisa · 06/04/2026 21:26

This morning, toast topped with half a tin of cannellini beans mashed with olive oil and garlic, with 2 poached eggs and avocado on top. Followed by Greek yogurt with tahini paste, berries and nuts and seeds.

3pm - homemade coleslaw, portion of quinoa and bulgur wheat and a salmon fillet, followed by a small dark chocolate bar.

Snacks; homemade popcorn and an Orange and apple and probably a tablespoon of peanut butter.

You stop eating at 3pm?

PuppyKeep · 07/04/2026 11:44

Lunch is hummus, veg sticks and breadsticks

That's a meal? How are you not super hungry all day?

PuppyKeep · 07/04/2026 11:47

SnacklessWonder · 06/04/2026 22:10

This is a working day, weekend all bets are are off.

I am 5ft 1, 8st 4lb at the moment, after losing 3 stone on Mounjaro - came off 16 months ago.

I don't eat breakfast as I find it makes me hungrier, so I eat lunch at around 12.30 which is either soup, some toast or crumpets or maybe a tuna sandwich. I'll have a snack or two through the day - definitely some crisps (a multipack size bag of Wotsits or similar), maybe a biscuit, or a mini Babybel, or a mousse etc.

And then evening meal will be whatever I fancy - but I never eat pizza or pasta anymore as I feel too bloated.

Oh and several glasses of wine through the week.

No exercise really - try to do a minimum of 8000 steps on a weekday, and around 12,000 min on the weekend.

You're my height.

How did you manage to maintain the weight loss after completely stopping WLI?

PuppyKeep · 07/04/2026 11:50

Most women can't maintain that low weight and shouldn't try.

Why?

LappingLouisa · 07/04/2026 11:50

PuppyKeep · 07/04/2026 11:42

You stop eating at 3pm?

I have either popcorn, small bowl of porridge or toast about 6 and the fruit then too. I’m up at 5 am so by 3pm I’m very hungry 😄

PuppyKeep · 07/04/2026 11:52

LappingLouisa · 07/04/2026 11:50

I have either popcorn, small bowl of porridge or toast about 6 and the fruit then too. I’m up at 5 am so by 3pm I’m very hungry 😄

You go from 3pm till bedtime with nothing?

dollyblue01 · 07/04/2026 11:59

I’m 5’2 am 8 stone 11, any lower and I look gaunt, I’m petite boned as well and I like this weight as it gives me gorgeous curves , but I do go the gym 4 times a week to keep toned and strength training as I like to look and feel strong.

breakfast - bacon or eggs or porridge with one slice of toast.
lunch - chicken or ham salad sandwich brown bread & yogurt or protein drink
dinner - pasta bolognaise or a curry with rice , jacket potato with anything and try to add a portion of veg no matter what dinner may be.

nothing else I just have 3 meals a day no snacking and don’t ever feel Hungary

oh also I drink tea normal and green and two coffees a day.

Newmeagain · 07/04/2026 12:08

I am 157cm and around 51 kg or so. I have been this weight pretty much all my life.

B: large latte and either sourdough toast or overnight oats. In weekends I may have a late brunch (eggs, toast, avocado).

L: sandwich if in the office, maybe a salad with egg or tuna etc if at home.

D: usually a vegetarian pasta, or something like chickpea curry with rice, etc.

Snacks: fruit, nuts/dried fruit.

Dellmouse · 07/04/2026 12:19

When I was this weight it would be:
Breakfast - Fat free greek yoghurt, strawberries and blueberries
Mid morning - Coffee
Lunch - Either Plain chicken breast/ salmon fillet/ prawns/ hard boiled egg with salad and no dressing.
Afternoon - An apple or grapes
Dinner - home cooked meal, trying to keep it under 600 cals
Evening - Something sweetish (two squares of dark chocolate with cup of tea)

Ate like this for around 5 years but one day I just started eating and couldn’t stop, now I’m closer to 11 stone 😅

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 07/04/2026 12:38

I drink more than I should, 2 pints, but 4 times a week at the moment.

Takeaway twice. Crisps, cheese, bread, pasta.

The reason I stay slim is I never overeat and recognise fullness.

I don’t snack, unless you could crisps with a sandwich as ‘snacking’

And I don’t really do sweets / chocolate / sugar, outside what’s in the things I eat / drink listed above.

Exercise- No heavy exercise, I walk around 30
miles a week. Moderate pace.