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Is size 12 seen as "big" generally?

254 replies

piperoo1095 · 13/01/2025 17:51

Hi all,

Not trying to cause controversy here as I am genuinely interested. But do most people consider a UK size 12 to be "big"? I only ask because I see a lot of posts online at people "horrified" that they reached a size 12 and to me it's never seemed bad at all. Perhaps I've been living under my nice little rock of ignorance. Of course I'm sure height and build plays a massive role too!

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Fluufer · 14/01/2025 07:22

Lorrdydoowhatevs · 14/01/2025 02:27

I haven’t been a size 12 since I was 15. Frankly, I would look ridiculous at size 12. I’m a comfortable size 16.

Why do you think you would look ridiculous at a 12?

SallyWD · 14/01/2025 08:53

Fluufer · 14/01/2025 07:22

Why do you think you would look ridiculous at a 12?

I did wonder. Surely even if you were over 6ft you'd be fine as a size 12. I think some people just get used to being a certain size and can't imagine themselves being smaller (or larger).

onwardsup4 · 14/01/2025 12:14

A 12 is never big in my opinion but how small you are as a 12 differs. I'm fine at a 12 and start to look too thin when a 10 (rare) would look awful at an 8

Lorrdydoowhatevs · 14/01/2025 13:48

Fluufer · 14/01/2025 07:22

Why do you think you would look ridiculous at a 12?

I would look underweight and gaunt. I have a big frame, broad shoulders and wide hips. I have no fat on my shoulders and hips at size 16. It’s all bone.

mintjulep23 · 14/01/2025 13:55

Marilyn Monroe was your size and pretty gorgeous 🍓
If you feel good then that is everything!
If not…. exercise! Sex counts 😊
Hope you are having a good day x

Fluufer · 14/01/2025 13:59

Lorrdydoowhatevs · 14/01/2025 13:48

I would look underweight and gaunt. I have a big frame, broad shoulders and wide hips. I have no fat on my shoulders and hips at size 16. It’s all bone.

If you're very tall possibly I suppose. I can't imagine any size 12 looking underweight gaunt though personally, even a tall woman would be well within a healthy bmi.

MangoBiscuit · 14/01/2025 17:41

GreatTheCat · 13/01/2025 18:10

I'm a size 12 at 6 foot. I look too too thin at a size 10.

Same here. Also 6 foot, and at a 12 I am slim, at a 10 you can see my ribs and my face looks wrong, sunken cheeks, gaunt. It's not nice.

Sharptonguedwoman · 14/01/2025 17:51

I’m a 12 and 5’8. I can remember a much shorter woman , maybe 5 ft bemoaning she was a size 12. We aren’t all the same.

Flossflower · 14/01/2025 18:17

I’m 5’ 4” and used to be a size 10. I am now a size 12 and definitely have fat around my middle I don’t want.

anonymous98 · 14/01/2025 18:35

No?

Even at my lowest BMI of 20 I was a size 12.

This is Mumsnet, so no doubt posters will be falling over themselves to inform us that "we've lost sight of what normal weight is" and that everything over a size 8 is ginormous.

JessicaRabbit6 · 14/01/2025 19:01

piperoo1095 · 13/01/2025 17:51

Hi all,

Not trying to cause controversy here as I am genuinely interested. But do most people consider a UK size 12 to be "big"? I only ask because I see a lot of posts online at people "horrified" that they reached a size 12 and to me it's never seemed bad at all. Perhaps I've been living under my nice little rock of ignorance. Of course I'm sure height and build plays a massive role too!

I guess to someone that has been a size 6-8 most of there life… a size 12 would be big for them. I have been 10-12-14-16-18 and pregnant 3 times and I would consider….NO size 12 is not big to the avg person at all. It’s small. It’s a Medium sometimes a S depending what shop

laraitopbanana · 14/01/2025 19:05

Hi op,

it depends on so many things and where you coming from is defo one of them? There are loads of body types around the world that wouldn’t fit in a 12. There are also quite a big number of types that would swim in there!

why does it matter? Wherever you come from…you should look like a woman. End of.

🌺

Mummadeze · 14/01/2025 19:33

I have gone from a 20 to a 14 and look and feel great. I think I would look thin as a size 12, not average. I feel average now. I was a size 10 when I took drugs at Uni 30 years ago and looked ill.

Teddybear23 · 14/01/2025 19:59

I consider 12 to be slim! Definitely.

Franklyfranky · 14/01/2025 20:05

DancingHippos · 13/01/2025 18:03

In the 80s, I remember going shopping with my mum for her cardigans in M&S. She was a size 12 then but because of 'vanity sizing', that would now be a size 8.

I thought that too with marks but then a few weeks ago I tried on some of my old (2005) top shop size 6 & 8 (uk) pieces and they still fit so can’t be that much in it

Suzie20 · 14/01/2025 20:17

I haven't read the whole thread so this may have been mentioned before. Clothing sizes are very different to what they were in the 70's. I am 5' 6" tall and in the 70's weighed between 9st and 9st 7lb. I was a UK size 16. Today I'm 10st 10lb and very comfortable in a size 14 but can squeeze into a 12. Just for reference my BMI is just within the "normal" boundaries according to the NHS. I don't think a 12 is particularly big but it's certainly bigger than it was.

pljlse · 14/01/2025 20:49

I haven't read the whole thread so this may have been mentioned before. Clothing sizes are very different to what they were in the 70's.

If there was anything I would bet my life on it would be that this is brought up within the first page of responses on a thread about sizes....

Sally20099 · 14/01/2025 20:53

piperoo1095 · 13/01/2025 17:51

Hi all,

Not trying to cause controversy here as I am genuinely interested. But do most people consider a UK size 12 to be "big"? I only ask because I see a lot of posts online at people "horrified" that they reached a size 12 and to me it's never seemed bad at all. Perhaps I've been living under my nice little rock of ignorance. Of course I'm sure height and build plays a massive role too!

Unless you are over 5.5ft then it’s likely your BMI at a size 12, would classify you as over weight and therefore bigger than optimal health. If most people are size 12 that makes it normal but not clinically healthy.

themagicnumberthree · 14/01/2025 21:08

I think it depends on your height, build and body composition. At 5 foot 10 and a hourglass build my pelvis alone is never going to measure under a size 12 no matter what my body fat is. If you've got big boobs it can easily make you a 12 or above on the top half while still looking very slim too.

Onceachunkymonkey · 14/01/2025 21:28

pljlse · 14/01/2025 20:49

I haven't read the whole thread so this may have been mentioned before. Clothing sizes are very different to what they were in the 70's.

If there was anything I would bet my life on it would be that this is brought up within the first page of responses on a thread about sizes....

I don’t understand why? Can anyone shine a light on it? I see it a lot on here. Why is it relevant people were smaller 50 or 60 years ago, and 50 or 60 years before that and so on,

yes as humans we got bigger, everyone knows it. And 50 or 60 years before the 70s, the 1910’s and 20’s people were smaller again. And 50 or 60 years before that, smaller still.

Christ the average height of Jack the Ripper victims was 4 foot 11/5 foot. All average height women in the late 1800.s

i genuinely don’t understand the fascination with historical clothes sizes ?

pljlse · 14/01/2025 21:39

I don’t understand why? Can anyone shine a light on it? I see it a lot on here. Why is it relevant people were smaller 50 or 60 years ago, and 50 or 60 years before that and so on

It's a passive aggressive dig, what they want to say is "you'd have been perceived as SO fat 40 years ago"!

Moll2020 · 14/01/2025 22:09

I bloody hope not!

cunoyerjudowel · 14/01/2025 22:13

It depends, size 12 on a tall person looks very different from someone under 5ft4. A size 12 20 years ago was normal but In these days sizes - yes as a 12 is more like a 16.

thisisagoodsign · 14/01/2025 22:15

I’ve been a 12 and I was fat. Overweight and fat. I am 4 foot 10 though. I lost weight and am now a size 8.

My friend is 5 foot 7 and is a size 12 and has the most amazing figure and is not remotely fat or chubby in the slightest.

Height does make a huge difference.

WingBingo · 14/01/2025 22:23

I’m tall and very happy at size 12