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What was the moment for you where enough was enough and you were kick started into losing weight for good?

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Shamalamadingd0ng · 24/10/2021 20:16

Seen some hideous photos of me today, I'm 13.5 stone and have 3 stone to lose. I looked so awful.
Tomorrow I'm going to kick start my healthy living again really am certain my mind has caught up with my body.
What was the moment for you?

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Iampicklerick · 24/10/2021 21:21

Covid. Scared of dying and leaving the kids so health anxiety forced me in to it. Lost 5 stone.

Namechangeforone · 24/10/2021 21:24

My friend told me she was having weight loss surgery. I suddenly thought 'Why haven't I properly considered that'? I'd been yoyoing for 20 years. Tried every diet going. Failed. Could lose but not maintain. Six weeks later I had the surgery. Two and a half years on its the best thing I've ever done

BewareTheBeardedDragon · 24/10/2021 21:25

Also COVID, but not health anxiety - it gave me a focus when I was home alone for months with 4dc and I think may have been what got me through it. It helped me to feel in control when so much else in my life and the world was not.

neverornow · 24/10/2021 21:32

Well done @Iampicklerick
My reasons are same as yours - I want to see my kids grown up.

@Shamalamadingd0ng I've had health anxiety for a while (have a few health issues) but got an awful fright when I saw a picture that my SIL took of me a couple of weeks ago. I'm heavier now than I was during my pregnancies.

Tomorrow is day 1. I have a plan and determined to stay focused

Iampicklerick · 24/10/2021 21:37

neverornow Thank you. I find maintaining the hardest, I’ve always been up and down my whole life but this time I’m doing alright with maintaining and it’s really down to couch to 5k. I can eat a lot more as I exercise. I find if I start to hit 5lbs more than target I really feel it so I just remember my reasons and get back on it. I’m really enjoying life at the moment and I still have a fair amount of treats. I totally quit sugar as well so that has helped hugely.

TomRipley · 24/10/2021 21:48

A family birthday party at the beginning of this month and seeing the photos of me pop up on Facebook.
I was 13 stone on the Monday morning after the party. I went straight onto a low carb high fat diet and I'm 11.7 now and feeling so much better.
I want to get to 10 stone as that's what I used to be before. I look at that photo of me every day to spur me on!

inininsomnia · 24/10/2021 21:50

I, um, realised I wanted to get naked with someone new for the first time in two decades :)

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TomRipley · 24/10/2021 22:51

Yes @Handsoffstrikesagain

I dropped a stone almost in the first week but it's mostly water weight, the rest has been steadier 2-3lbs a week.

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TomRipley · 24/10/2021 22:57

Thank you!

lnsufficientFuns · 24/10/2021 23:08

How old are you @TomRipley ?
I am so impressed - fingers crossed you’re in your forties 🙌

My ultimate day of desperation came today when I realised that I really want to go to aqua aerobics tomorrow but can’t because I don’t want anybody to see me

I am 15 stone
I put on 5 stone in 4 years mainly through injury but that’s no excuse and I am just so ashamed of myself - not for being fat but for being so unmotivated, in the middle of a pandemic, with anxious children - even that’s not motivated me

I am such a pig

coronafiona · 25/10/2021 06:50

Gosh ladies how are you losing it so fast? I'm a yo-yo and would like to lose 3stone for good too

Sithee · 25/10/2021 06:54

A routine blood test revealed that I had developed pre-diabetes. Scared the crap out of me. Lost 36 lb - 20 more to go!

HighlandCowbag · 25/10/2021 07:01

I'm not there yet, not all the way but I read a book called Why We Eat Too Much by DR Andrew Jenkinson. This was back in April of this year. I've followed the woe (it's not a diet book, in fact he says diets don't work) since then and lost almost 2 st. I am not on a diet. I don't eat wheat, processed foods or sugar and I try and redress my omega 3/6 ratio. I follow it probably 80% of the time so its not ultra strict.

My wtf moment was size 18 being uncomfortably tight, despite me being fairly active and not actually having a big appetite. I feel 1000 times better.

PermanentTemporary · 25/10/2021 07:02

Sitting offering visitors some homemade biscuits (not very many because I'd eaten a lot of the raw dough in the kitchen) and barely fitting into one if my garden chairs. I just felt like a mess.

Its been a slow process just myfitnesspal and the gym but I'm 10kg lighter than I was that day and that's having gained some back, which I'm now losing again.

emlouwat · 25/10/2021 07:02

Actually very recently. For the past few years I've eaten like a pig until the point where I've been going to bed with chronic indigestion. Three weeks ago after binge eating before bed I found myself admitted to hospital with acute cholecystitis. Had my gall bladder removed the next day.
It's given me a huge wake up call and I've completely changed my approach to food and exercise. I honestly thought I was dying.

Tailendofsummer · 25/10/2021 07:08

@insufficientfuns you are not a pig. You've made some bad choices and had some bad stuff happen that's hard to control, but you are not a pig.

drumandhake · 25/10/2021 07:34

Mine was speaking to a colleague who told me about fasting. It just sounded so easy, not 5:2 where I'd just end up pushing the two fast days down the week until I'd run out of time but purposely not eating until 3/4 every day. For my 'all or nothing' brain, this just seemed to click. 2 stone down since last May.

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ObeseWanKenobi · 25/10/2021 09:19

When I realised that I was so obese that I would have been a candidate for bariatric surgery on the NHS.

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