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A space to talk openly about weight loss journeys and challenges. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You may wish to speak to a medical professional before starting any diet.

LOSE IT! June 2021

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TheRealHousewife · 31/05/2021 19:08

Hello & Welcome 😊 WOW 😯 June already! What a start to meteorological Summer; stunning weather and easing of Lockdown.

Firstly a massive Thank You to @SunshineCake who has done a stellar job in taking charge of May’s thread 🙏🌟❤️. I was happy for sunshine to carry on but she kindly invited me back to start the new month, so we agreed to make it a joint effort. (I’m still battling ill health and will post when I can).

This thread is for those of us who enjoy healthy eating, exercising and feeling motivated to reach (or maintain) a healthy weight/bmi. The members of these threads are inspirational, supportive and happy to share their progress (the ups and the downs).

We all know that if we eat right, get outside & move more your mental health will heap the rewards. Better mental health = better choices. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

There are so many enjoyable lifestyle options out there without the need to resort to extreme measures. Whatever way you choose, it needs to be enjoyable & sustainable for the long term. This is a long term commitment rather than a quick fix. I rarely drink alcohol and keep sugar to a minimum. I exercise by doing walking vids & strength sessions with light weighs.

As no one size fits all members need to follow their own way of eating. Nonetheless this thread aims to offer guidance, support and a bit of hand holding.

There is no shaming, competition or harsh words to be found on these threads. We are in this together.

Jump right in! If you’re not too shy, post a bit about yourself 😊. How do you plan to do it? What do you want to achieve? What excites you about your future self? Together, we can create a whole new you!

You’ll be glad you got on board this time next month 😊

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MarmaladeToastAndAMarmaladeCat · 19/06/2021 07:21

Love your costume @swampytiggaa you look amazing.

I also have an icecream recommendation I’ve been having these

www.sainsburys.co.uk/gol-ui/product/guud-salted-caramel-4x80ml

Also come in blueberry and raspberry flavour and taste rich and creamy and feel like a treat but are only 84 calories.

Puffalicious · 19/06/2021 10:15

Morning all. What a night last night! The whole of Scotland was ablaze with the saltire 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 and the tense 90 minutes meant I popped 2 spring rolls in my mouth without meaning toGrin. I've been really good otherwise so trying not to feel bad!

I've been entertained with updates from BIL and brother with the tartan army in London then at Wembley. Hilarious pictures and messages- lord knows the state of them when they return today. All the kids have been in their kits and stayed up late to join in the shouting at the TV! DS1's best friend had an outside gathering for his 17th and it was amazing to see all the young ones happy in the sun, Scotland tops on and excited for the match/ just to all be together after this year. All in all a perfect day. Sport can really be so positive.

Sunshine I hate to hear of you upset. I hope this morning has brought a little clarity. Sending unmumsnetty hugs.

Stay on it everyone!

Ps Swampy you look da bomb!

SunshineCake · 19/06/2021 18:04

I know alcohol is a depressant @Graphista and it is very rare indeed that I have any never mind when I'm feeling as I did. It didn't make anything worse so it didn't really matter.

Thank you @joysmoy66. I really miss hugs. They are so healing.

2 spring rolls aren't much @Puffalicious. As long as you enjoyed them or they calmed your nerves you'll be fine. 🐢🐢🐢❤️.

I really wanted to run this morning but I thought of my knees and did 33km on the bike instead. Later I had a 2 hour plus chat with my oldest friend. She's the one person in the world I tell everything to and can literally tell her anything and she would never judge so that has made me feel better for a bit. It's going to be a long process but I'll just have to keep trying to be here. A day at a time. Thank goodness for my trainers and exercise bike.

Thanks so much for your PM @132orbust. I did reply. I hope you are okay too Flowers.

Puffalicious · 19/06/2021 19:26

Glad your friend was there Sunshine the power of friendship is so strong. One day at a time, one foot in front of the other.

I'm now painting walls not woodwork and my arms are falling off!😆

SunshineCake · 19/06/2021 20:35

Thanks @Puffalicious. I'm barely holding it together right now. Just counting the hours until I can go to bed and then run forever tomorrow.

Good luck with the painting. Why not get that gadget that you fill with paint, set it going and it sprays around and paints the room for you? Just remember to cover what you don't want paint on!

joysmoy66 · 19/06/2021 22:08

I hope a good sleep and a run helps sunshine Thanks

Puffalicious · 20/06/2021 09:22

The size of this loft Sunshine that would have been an idea! DS1 helped last night and we made great progress. Back at it in a minute.

I hope that run helps. Stay well and one step atva time.

fat13 · 20/06/2021 12:21

Hey everyone. Not had the best week! Fell off the wagon Wednesday and stayed off it until yesterday Blush

I’ve done a workout this morning so hoping I haven’t gained.

SunshineCake · 20/06/2021 15:02

Just a quick hello. Don't want to bring the thread down again.

I followed my runner friends advice and ran at the heart rate she suggested I should do. Ran for 2 hours 12:29. Did 18km.

Graphista · 20/06/2021 16:39

@swampytiggaa well done on getting it off quickly. I WISH I'd tackled the weight gain when it first started.

@Puffalicious I'm not a footy person but national pride and all that was a good result don't worry too much about the spring rolls

@SunshineCake so sorry you're feeling so low, hope the chat with a friend helped, I have a similar friend and frankly not only has she kept me sane at times she's kept me alive! True friends are the ones you can call at 2am saying "I desperately need help" and they listen. Forever grateful to her for that. Not something I have done often maybe 2 or 3 times in 20 odd years of friendship. Glad to be able to return the favour for her (slightly different reasons) at a later point in the friendship that's how life goes

Are you getting medical support? No need to answer but if you're not consider it and if you are maybe ask for an increase in that support at this time. I'm shouting at mine at the moment (figuratively speaking)

@fat13 we all have wobbles (it's why we're here Grin) no need to stress about it this was me last week. Draw a line under it and move on.

I'm back "on it" and averaging 500 cals "saved" per day, hoping that will result in a loss come thu.

Weirdly I say I don't do intermittent fasting but I do it unconsciously really as my motivation is very poor. I really have to work hard to motivate myself to cook rather than just eating grab and go foods.

Lockdown is actually what stopped me doing this as it became hard to get hold of the foods I had been living on - pot snacks, ready meals, ready to eat pies/quiche/"sausage" rolls type things

I'm cooking now and eating more healthily.

Just as a wee overview

Thu - not great but not awful. Pot pasta, Quorn sliced fillets, celery and reduced fat houmous, crackers and cheese. That's all I had that day as was still struggling emotionally

Fri - lunch - Quorn sausage rolls and salad, melon and grapes pot
Dinner - big salad with a little grated mozzarella and salad dressing bread on the side (not buttered I'm fine having it like that with salad)

Sat - lunch - salad, melon and grape pot, muller light choc pot

Dinner - fresh filled pasta, with veg and a little pesto and grated mozzarella, banana

Today so far - lunch - cheese and cucumber sandwiches, salad, melon, kinder milk slice

I've switched to sugar free juice but have a fat free actimel daily. Otherwise I drink (admittedly bottled as I like it really chilled) water.

I think the other thing that buggered me last week was running out of fruit (the fruit I ordered was "unavailable") - partly as it fills my sweet stomach Grin at least partially, partly as...delicately put here...it slowed my system down iykwim? I need the fibre!

So hopefully this week I'll do better.

I have in melon, grapes, bananas and apples. Carrots and celery for snacking.

Was watching a film last night and instead of my usual crisps I did my "salt n shake carrots" this is something I came up with when doing ww years ago. I read an article which said the craving for crisps and similar salty snacks was 2 fold - crunch and salt! So I get a few handfuls of carrot sticks (or celery or cucumber or pepper) pop in a food bag, grind in some garlic grinder then twist the top of the bag and shake so the grinder flavouring gets distributed.

Result - a crisp "substitute"

Sometimes only crisps will do but the above works a lot of the time.

Might work for others who are crisp lovers?

Anyway, onwards and inwards you lovely losers! Grin

Crazzzycat · 21/06/2021 09:57

Weekly weigh in for me and I’ve lost another 0.7 kg. I’m really happy with that. Last week was hard going and, for various reasons, I couldn’t be anywhere near as disciplined as I’d normally be. I’d have been happy if my weight had stayed the same, so a loss is pretty damn good 😄

TheRealHousewife · 21/06/2021 10:16

Good Morning Ladies

@SunshineCake sending a hug. Sorry to read you’re feeling wobbly. Wishing you some peace and a more settled frame of mind.

@MarmaladeToastAndAMarmaladeCat @132orbust you for the treat links 😬

@joysmoy66 sorry I missed your earlier post. Sorry to read you’ve been having a tough time. I hope your situation soon improves.

You’re very welcome @Graphista 😊 I really enjoyed reading your posts! I love your tip about salted carrots! I’m going to try that.

@fat13 don’t be too tough on yourself. Everyday/hour is a fresh start. We all take a tumble off the wagon sometimes 😬

@Crazzzycat well done on your loss 👍👏

A small loss for me. Now I need to rinse & repeat rather than bounce back up again!

OAN Anyone watched the programme Time with Sean Bean? Awesome and poignant!

Have a good week ladies!

PS @SunshineCake … You spark joy on our threads ❤️

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SunshineCake · 21/06/2021 13:17

Blush so sorry for being such a moaning Minnie. I have so much flying around my head at the moment, plus dh and I properly fell out yesterday, that I just crashed again into being no use to anyone.

I didn't get to run today as ds needed to go into school and ddog needed to be out of the house. I figured with a 18km run yesterday it was probably better to have a rest day and I did walk the dog for over an hour and a quarter.

I'll weigh on Wednesday as usual but our plumber has just said he has to come back tomorrow and maybe Wednesday as well so with having to do the school runs I might not get a run until Thursday. I will try for the bike tomorrow as mentally I will struggle and I have had a bit of eating my feelings but calorie wise my meals have been smaller so it might be okay.

Thank you @TheRealHousewife though not sure how I do any sparking.

SunshineCake · 21/06/2021 21:12

I have just tried on some new shorts from Asda and I am not sure vanity sizing does us any favours. I was already sceptical as my PJ shorts from there are 8-10 as the 12-14 were too big but I bought an eight as no tens and they fit. I am no way a size 8 so why don't they have standard actual sizes? I suspect they haven't been updated in ages but given it is said that Marilyn Monroe was a 16 that would make me much smaller.

TheRealHousewife · 21/06/2021 21:23

That’s great @ SunshineCake Vanity sizing or not it’s still thrilling to be in 8s 😬…. Although I do agree that sizing variations are just bonkers!

Where is everyone today? Mighty quiet on here today.

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SunshineCake · 21/06/2021 21:27

I think I killed the thread with my moaning Sad.

Things are just hectic at the moment and it all got in top of me. I am really tired as well after a terrible nights sleep and that always makes things feel worse.

TheRealHousewife · 21/06/2021 21:29

@SunshineCake it’s not you lovie … it’s just how it is sometimes. I’m sorry you’ve had a bad time of it :( I wish there was something I could do to help.

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SunshineCake · 21/06/2021 21:31

Thank you. I have to sort this myself. You are lovely and you do help. I hope you are doing okay.

TheRealHousewife · 21/06/2021 21:40

I’m OK thank you @SunshineCake …. Couple steps forward, one back. Ultimately I think I’m making some progress. Baby steps.

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Graphista · 21/06/2021 21:50

@Crazzzycat that's great well done!

@TheRealHousewife ahh thank you. Certain posters on mn complain about my posting style it's nice when someone appreciates

Well done on a loss! Great stuff

@SunshineCake things sound really difficult for you at the moment. Wish we could help more. All we can do is listen and hopefully provide online support.

All I can really say is something which has genuinely kept me going at times

This too shall pass

It won't always be like this.

Do you have anything you can do to relieve the stress? A place you can go? We all need time out sometimes Thanks

SunshineCake · 22/06/2021 07:41

That's good @TheRealHousewife. Any bit of progress or positivity is worth celebrating. Sorry I disappeared. I was just so tired I just had to lie down.

😢 my Nana used to say nothing lasts for ever, good or bad @Graphista. I thought I had had a boost when I thought I had lost an inch off my tummy but it was an inch on plus the scales say I have put a few pounds on. I just can't deal with it today. I can't run or cycle again today as we the workman is working in the garage and we have no hot water. I'm going to take DS2 to school then walk the dog on my own for as long as I can but it's raining already so have to make sure she doesn't get too wet. My eldest is going back to uni for eight days and while I'm telling myself that is why I'm tearful today I'm lying to myself.

132orbust · 22/06/2021 09:26

Day 169
SW:151
CW:135.5
GW:132
19 days ago those were my stats and here I am again.
I am determined to push forward from here so fast until dinner tonight.
Had a lot of 'things' happening outside my control in the last few weeks and most miles away but all seems to have balanced out now.
Onwards and inwards we skip/run/walk and sometimes trudge.

132orbust · 22/06/2021 09:43

Where is @Elle200? So blown away by your results so far.
Can you put a positive spin on things @SunshineCake? DS is at Uni and will be back in under 2 weeks so something fun.
I cannot run today but I can run 20 times further than 132orbust!
I am going to treat myself to the best bath ever in 36/48 hours.
Life is not easy at the moment but there have been harder times in my life and I have survived them.
Go Sunshine!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

swampytiggaa · 22/06/2021 10:55

Hi everyone! I’ve been thinking about what I want going forward. Pretty much at goal… would like to lose another few pounds or a couple of inches but I’m happy with either tbh

So I’ve decided to stop my half hearted calorie counting 😂😂 and I’m going to try living and eating in a way that’s sustainable long term.

So… I’m going to
Walk 15k steps every day as a minimum.
Eat breakfast after work and tea fairly early to miss out lunch
Drink 3 of my bottles of water a day (750ml x 3)
Introduce some healthier meals
Keep away from biscuits
Restrict chocolate and crisps
Alcohol only when I’m out - none at home
Do 15 min weights workout on work days
Do a longer one on days off
Running again soon 🤞🤞🤞

I’m going to see how this goes 😊 nothing is set in stone and I’m not banning any food 😊

Right then I’m off to meet my friend for coffee and a pastry in the park 👍

TheRealHousewife · 22/06/2021 11:09

Good Morning Ladies

Im a risk taker today … Washing out and it’s threatening rain! They do say do something every day that scares you 😬

I share your frustration @132orbust. In real terms I’ve not reduced my BMI for a couple of months as I’m dropping a bit then bounce back up. I started reading a book recently … Why We Eat (Too Much) by Dr Andrew Jenkinson. He talks about how and why our metabolism can change and ‘weight set point’. It’s thought provoking. I’m still trying to fully understand his theories. Sadly, weight loss/gain really is more than cico.

@SunshineCake life can be really testing at times. BUT you will come through it, stronger and knowing more about yourself ❤️

@Graphista I’ve just has some raw salt and pepper carrots. Really tasty! Thank you for the tip.

Today Menu

Lunch - cabbage, carrot, red pepper & butter bean stir fry.
Evening - mixed veg & fish (I think).

Snacks - carrots & nuts.

Enjoy you day !

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